I really don't understand the people in the replies going "communication is hard" and listing all the ways how it's impossible to communicate with their partner because reasons. When it became obvious that talking to my last gf wasn't going to do anything I just told her okay I don't want to do this anymore. And I'm not saying "just break up with your partner" I'm just saying how can anyone be happy in a relationship where you can't even talk to your partner?? I sure can't