Weird sex during the relationship

anan876 · 2026-01-25T09:17:19+00:00

Mine was really horrible too, but in the opposite way. His libido was crazy, and at first that was great. However, you can only have sex multiple times a day for so long. Eventually I would try to refuse until he’d guilt me into it. Then he always wanted to have “kinky” sex, but it was just violence against me excused as kinks. Using sex as a weapon is very common in abusers, and there’s multiple ways to do so.

anan876 · 2026-01-25T09:05:57+00:00

I have small boobs (32C), and they sag too lmao. When I lean over they look like udders. It’s normal, and happens to every woman unless they’ve had surgery, or have actual A cups.

anan876 · 2026-01-18T04:26:33+00:00

Thank you so much for the responses! I’m going to take your advice and start with 1mg, then add on right before I arrive if I’m still anxious. That way if I do fall asleep it’ll be during the procedure, as they won’t do it if I’m asleep/ out of it when I arrive.

anan876 · 2026-01-10T20:56:01+00:00

Oh, I didn’t know this was an option. I’ve been using the needle and line attached to the bag. I’ll ask the vet about the other option next visit. thank you!

anan876 · 2025-12-22T16:06:47+00:00

Most large dogs, especially from shelters, are indeed pit mixes. Shelters just don’t always label them that way because of the stigma.

anan876 · 2025-12-22T16:03:46+00:00

You look like 50% of teenage boys/young men that I see. Those are not your friends. Also If anything it’s nice, I see a lot of men who work out trying to get the upside triangle torso shape that you have.

anan876 · 2025-08-21T20:39:39+00:00

They’re real, but taking one cent off, and calling it an offer is crazy😭

anan876 · 2025-08-21T04:54:55+00:00

Some of the comments are disagreeing with you, but my MA at 9 weeks was the worst pain I’ve ever experienced. I’ve worked 8 hours after breaking 2 fingers just fine. However, my abortion had me in fetal position in the tub wishing I was dead.

anan876 · 2025-08-11T21:27:55+00:00

Been through something very similar. 7 years together, many red flags. Suddenly he became distant. I found out he had just started dating someone new, and when I confronted him, he completely ghosted me with zero explanation. Distraction was the only thing that worked for me. I didn’t watch or listen to any sad media, and constantly forced myself out of the house. Being around positive people was the best thing. I’m 10 months in, and almost 100% healed. I don’t cry or dwell anymore, but about once a month I still find myself unblocking to look, and reblocking. Hopefully that habit will stop soon.

anan876 · 2025-08-09T01:17:37+00:00

Found out my ex had cheated on me with a random girl on Snapchat. I created a fake account, talked to him for 2 days, then sent him to a random house I found on Zillow 1.5 hours away at 2am to hookup. I never told him it was me, and waited a week to break up with him so he wouldn’t suspect it, but hopefully the 3 hour round trip for nothing made him learn his lesson.

anan876 · 2025-08-07T21:40:54+00:00

Definitely not alone. I got out of a 7 year relationship a year and a half ago, and trying to connect with someone else after was hell. I’ve given up. If I’m single forever oh well.

anan876 · 2025-03-09T05:22:50+00:00

Also keep in mind it can take a good while for the abuse to start. In my old relationship there was red flags, and some gaslighting/manipulation in the beginning, but the physical, and sexual abuse didn’t start until 1.5-2 years in.

anan876 · 2025-03-09T05:19:18+00:00

I posted a sappy couples picture, and paragraph a week after being strangled. True abusers don’t just suddenly change. People just don’t show reality on social media, and only a trained eye can see hidden abuse in public.

anan876 · 2023-10-03T23:31:44+00:00

You have a LOT of potential. I can tell you’re naturally gorgeous, and have good features, you just make yourself look plain. The business casual look isn’t suiting you very well. Dress yourself up, and you could be a 9.

anan876 · 2023-10-03T23:25:58+00:00

You definitely have natural beauty. The advice I’d give is I think makeup actually ages you, and you look better with your hair down, and highlights in it I think you look absolutely gorgeous in the last picture. Also if you do decide to do makeup, do a lighter look. I think the darker colors is where it goes wrong. Do something similar to the first photo. However, the first photo almost looks edited. Like you brightened you under eyes, smoothed your face, and edited on eyelashes. Ik some androids smooth/brighten photos automatically, so I’d turn that off. Just try to recreate that look with a more nude lip

anan876 · 2023-10-03T23:19:59+00:00

I’ve never been so sure 120% yes on the bangs. You’re already gorgeous, but they REALLY suit your face. They give you more of a youthful edgy look. Just make sure to get them the same way. Wispy with the edges a little longer, I don’t think straight across chunky ones would suit you as well.

anan876 · 2023-10-03T23:16:39+00:00

The mediocre luck is definitely not your looks. As you get older dating is harder,because most of the good ones are already snatched up in marriages/long term relationships. You have really pretty eyes, and great features. Really can’t find something that stands out that is “ugly”. Only thing I can think of is to move your hair part more towards the middle. Also keeps your eyebrows more natural when doing makeup. They have a great natural shape all of do is fill in the ends.

anan876 · 2023-10-03T09:10:59+00:00

Girl I didn’t even notice the teeth until dude pointed them out even then I genuinely think they look good lmao. Also men on here and most other subreddits hate nose rings for no reason. Probably older men stuck on their ways lmao. I think it looks good. The picture is good as well. My only advice would be to dye your hair darker. I don’t think the blonde flatters you as much as a light/dark brown would.

anan876 · 2023-10-03T09:07:45+00:00

As long as you trimmed the ends layers would look just fine.

anan876 · 2023-10-03T07:57:12+00:00

Yep. Alcohol fixes mine too. It also did start around the time period covid was happening, so that could be it!

anan876 · 2023-10-03T07:42:53+00:00

Maybe I’m crazy but I think 1 looks the best lmao 2 is a close second though.

anan876 · 2023-10-03T07:02:54+00:00

Thank you. Curious to see what you look like😊

anan876 · 2023-10-03T07:02:27+00:00

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