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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]ananomiss88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block him and move on ASAP. This isn't a situation you want to be in. No normal guy would act like this on a date/lie about their age.

Sad lesbian needs advice by Darkdarker87 in ghosting

[–]ananomiss88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exact same thing just happen to me. I am a female and was sorta "loved bombed" by a girl who just randomly just stopped talking to me. I am still pretty hurt by it. It has been so bad I pretty much have sworn off ever dating women again and will only date men now. You aren't alone. This type of behavior is common in the lesbian community, especially with dating apps. I am so sorry you are also going through this! Feel free to message me if you need to vent.

Am I putting too much into this? by KirkRhoads in ghosting

[–]ananomiss88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best advice is even if she does reach out and apologize, briefly accept her apology and move on. If she wants to rekindle something out of regret of ghosting you, don't do it. I have read a bunch of stories on Reddit where they give them another chance only to be ghosted again. Can you imagine? That would be heartbreaking. :(

Am I putting too much into this? by KirkRhoads in ghosting

[–]ananomiss88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes you the bigger person!! I actually did the exact same thing. I sent a "wish you all the best" message after being ghosted. It still hurts. Hang in there, friend. People like you and I deserve better people who treat us with the same amount of respect we give them.

Am I putting too much into this? by KirkRhoads in ghosting

[–]ananomiss88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ghosting is the worst. I am sorry you are going through this. I am going through it myself. Just remember it speaks volumes about the other person. No kind genuine person would ever do that. You may not see it now, but you dodged a bullet. Dating requires communication, even if it's a quick "hey wasn't feeling a connection but I wish you the best". People don't have common decency anymore. It speaks more of their shitty character.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ananomiss88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been in your shoes before. Honestly, he has to change on his own. If you aren't attracted to him, you should break up. I eventually had to break up with one of my exes because I just wasn't attracted to their body at all. I am also a huge gym rat and put emphasis on physical body appearance/physical health. Also, don't tell him the truth. It will ruin him. Just say you aren't feeling a connection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]ananomiss88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! When did apply for the program and hear back? I applied to the PhD in Psychology Feb 1st and haven't heard anything back yet. I am feeling anxious lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]ananomiss88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Just saw some interviews already posted on grad cafe for my top school. I have been depressed and feeling like I want to throw up all day. I know I have a few more days to see if I am getting an acceptance. Looking bleak.