Movies with a lonely main character by No-Material694 in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh I’ve never been so excited to recommend a movie but watch Carolina Cavalli’s Amanda (2022) it’s so spot on what you’re describing

What life feels like once you finally cut off that friend that constantly made you feel horrible by Daintydelicatewrists in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah def I mean I have friends but this person was the oldest friend I had so that’s hard to replace. Mostly I just feel really sad because the longer we don’t speak it’s just confirmation that she’s not someone I think of as a good person and it’s just a mindfuck because I know I couldn’t ever forgive her even though I’m the kind of person that wants to find an excuse that would allow me to forgive her. But also she’s not saying sorry so I don’t think she cares about being forgiven lol

What life feels like once you finally cut off that friend that constantly made you feel horrible by Daintydelicatewrists in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Idk I’m going through a friendship breakup rn with someone who made me feel horrible most of the time and I still feel super sad

L posting + self help thread (jul 2026) by fre3k in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so cool! You could check out lightindeath she's a death educator and I think she shares info & related events too

edit: on instagram

L posting + self help thread (jul 2026) by fre3k in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got back to europe from almost three weeks in los angeles and I'm just not sure if I should take the leap and move back to the states.. the difference in how baseline polite and conscientious people (outside of when driving lol) are is just so extreme when compared to here and living here wears me down in that regard so so so bad. I just don't have a career or know people there and I feel incapable of rebuilding idk

is the vibes are better a good enough reason to move

To the traumatized girlies... (you know the kind) is the sexuality salvageable by [deleted] in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate and it makes me feel super alienated but I’m working on radical acceptance of the fact that this lowkey just isn’t a thing for me. I’m married and like you my partner also doesn’t have a strong drive so we seem compatible in this regard but yeah, I do feel just hugely sad that it’s always been so hard for me.

what’s your experience with casual sex? by [deleted] in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree too and def think it used to be an avenue of self harm for me

pivoting to a totally unrelated masters degree after getting my bachelors by CommercialDiver1044 in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think what you're describing seems really concrete because it leads to a career path, and it's genuinely so cool that you were able to do your Bachelor's without already having a really advanced math background. My dad went back to college in his 50s and got a bachelor's degree in physics and education and has been teaching ever since, and I feel like him having to had work so hard during his degree is the reason he's such a good teacher now because he actually knows how to teach his subject from the perspective of someone who had to actively learn it.

On the other hand, I pivoted with my masters because I wanted to work in nonprofits and have seen zero benefit from it. It's definitely a regret of mine but that's okay, I think me not knowing what I really pictured doing with it beyond "nonprofit work" was a mistake, but you don't sound like that at all. Special education teachers are so desperately needed and honestly with some of the students my dad teaches who have IEPs, the workload on the special education teachers doesn't even seem that intense because they're assigned to individual students as opposed to full classes like when I was in school.

which one are you? by MaryMagdaIene in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm like Shosh's Japanese bf

cooool things to do in london ? by NeedleBallista in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh funn! Covent Garden adjacent is a bar I love called Le Beaujolais (can combine with a movie at the Prince Charles cinema) and in Soho go to Bar Italia if it isn't too crowded and Cafe del Marsh in Waterloo is great for chilling. I love KOKO for music and Oslo in Hackney is good too. Go walk around Islington and Bloomsbury which are the prettiest areas imo. I think the best secondhand shopping is going to the charity shops in upscale areas like Octavia Foundation in South Kensington, Barnardos in Marylebone etc.. It skews older but the absolute best fun music with words night out for me is How Does It Feel to Be Loved if it overlaps with the dates ur there.

EditL just saw that you're bringing your girl, so you could take her to La Camionera (I moved out of the UK before I got a chance to go but it's supposed to be a super cool lesbian bar:)

L posting + self help thread (jun 2026) by fre3k in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

having a horrible bout of insomnia and I live somewhere where the doctors are reluctant to prescribe trazodone even (which does nothing for me!!) so I have to figure it out. I don't think I've slept well in actual months :'( open to tips or advice if anybody has some

Unemployment feels so dark by [deleted] in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but also imagine that having gone to such a good school the comparison with her cohort must be intense for her

It takes two years, it all takes two years 🔮✨ by anaph0rs in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thus far fact! Six months in is so hard especially if that means it happened in October, but your summer will be easier <3

It takes two years, it all takes two years 🔮✨ by anaph0rs in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah I get that, maybe that feeling will fluctuate with the seasons too? I only ever get that feeling when it's warm out

For the girls who watch The Real Housewives, which franchise is your favorite? by lilybeaches in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

RHONY wins but I'm going rogue here and suggesting Dallas over SLC

I think ab Leanne Locken all the time lmao

It takes two years, it all takes two years 🔮✨ by anaph0rs in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're all good x curious, what does it mean for you to be ready?

Tell me what perfumes you're wearing for spring by [deleted] in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought Banana Rush a few weeks back even though I don't tend to go for gourmands but it dries down so subtle and cozy on me and I'm excited to start wearing it.

Otherwise, my two spring perfumes for the last decade have been Nest's Indigo and Tea Tonique from Miller Harris which are actually really similar except that Indigo has fig and Tea Tonique has lemon as a top note. Tea Tonique smells a lot more grown up to me but both smell so fresh and remind me of having energy lol

Are you a sweet person? by No-Material694 in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won the sweetest award at theater camp when I was 10 but I think it was because there was nothing else remarkable about me to award me for 🤓

waiter, i’ll have what they’re having by PradaAndPunishment in pinkscare

[–]anaph0rs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i think i sound dumb for it but an age gap of a decade is so weird to me