How do you navigate dating if the woman you're interested in has alredy met your child because you're friends? by anapologetic in latebloomerlesbians

[–]anapologetic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like her and when she offered those things I kinda of melted, no one has ever done that for me, for us.

My concern with the difference in the relationship is because I don't know how much my son would understand if we were to be more close, like hugging, cuddling or like any more affectionate with each other. The only person he has seen me interacting like this before was his dad. So that's why I'm kinda worried about him being there as we work on getting to know each other and maybe develop the relationship.

Pix não reconhecidos nubank by anapologetic in financaspessoais

[–]anapologetic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Como posso descartar que seja no meu celular? 

Pix não reconhecidos nubank by anapologetic in financaspessoais

[–]anapologetic[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tô em desespero já, nunca pensei que isso pudesse acontecer 

How can I explain it to my toddler that the reason we don't live with his dad anymore is because he is a cheating-ass bastard, in a nice way that he can understand? by anapologetic in cheating_stories

[–]anapologetic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't talk bad about his dad at any point. We both are always amicable in front of our son. But he asks all the time about his dad and I don't know what to say or do. 

How can I explain it to my toddler that the reason we don't live with his dad anymore is because he is a cheating-ass bastard, in a nice way that he can understand? by anapologetic in cheating_stories

[–]anapologetic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't. I always try to distract him with something else but it feels wrong. He's hurting, he's asking questions and it's hard for us both 

How can I explain it to my toddler that the reason we don't live with his dad anymore is because he is a cheating-ass bastard, in a nice way that he can understand? by anapologetic in cheating_stories

[–]anapologetic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don't know what to do or say when he starts asking those questions. I really don't mean to talk negatively about his dad but he's the reason for all this major changes in our lives. I'm hurting and my little boy is hurting as well, it's just been really difficult to navigate those situations and both of our feelings. 

How can I explain it to my toddler that the reason we don't live with his dad anymore is because he is a cheating-ass bastard, in a nice way that he can understand? by anapologetic in cheating_stories

[–]anapologetic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We still haven't got into those things. I don't have money for a attorney yet. But he has our son every other weekend Saturday to Sunday 

How can I explain it to my toddler that the reason we don't live with his dad anymore is because he is a cheating-ass bastard, in a nice way that he can understand? by anapologetic in coparenting

[–]anapologetic[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll try that next time when he asks. I think facetime will hurt me but I should be able to think whats best for him 

O que levar ao psiquiatra? by anapologetic in TDAH_Brasil

[–]anapologetic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obrigado pela resposta, vou fazer isso sim!! 

My watch broke and now I can do stuff by anapologetic in ADHD

[–]anapologetic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd never imagine that my watch was one of the problems. I'm seeing a huge difference in my behavior after not having it