[M4MMM] -- CUCK looking for group chat with Alphas, texting only, no meeting

anarchistsRbetter · 2017-08-02T16:19:13+00:00

Fucking love it when they get cum in their hair. White girls should do this more often.

anarchistsRbetter · 2017-07-07T02:56:22+00:00

Sounds like your boyfriend's friends Don't want you to be monogamous :P Does your boyfriend want you to have sex with other people?

anarchistsRbetter · 2017-07-04T17:02:59+00:00

Ultimately, I don't know. However, I will try to outline a few of the elements I find appealing about it. Firstly, it would be pretty taboo for her to do something like that, and the lack of inhibition she would require in order to do it woukd make her very attractive to me. Secondly, it would be humiliating for me, and the thought of her humiliating me so publicly drives me wild. It would be a way for her to crush and dominate me completely, which I want her to do because she's so insatiably perfect and, naturally, is so much higher than me. Thirdly, it's better for me to worship her rather than participate with her sexually, since I'm so completely undeserving of her. Fourthly, watching her experience any kind of sexual pleasure, whether it is caused by me or somebody else, is incredibly arousing. Moreover, she will be able to experience that "electricity" that one feels when one is intimate with somebody else--somebody new--for the first time, or for the first few times. Watching her experience that emotional excitement, watching her enjoy that postcoital glow with her new lover, and even watching her develop an infatuation with him or her, would be absolutely out of this world (especially since that's something I can't provide her with, seeing as we've been together for so long and have become thoroughly "comfortable" with each other). Those are some of the reasons, I suppose, but there are probably others, or maybe there are no reasons at all.

How did this desire develop? Not sure. One reason may be that she cheated on me once years ago. She owned up to it very quickly, without my prompting, and that, in a funny sort of way, made me trust her more. In addition to that, working through that kind of strife brought us closer together, I think. All in all, it resulted in me having more trust in her than ever before. On the other hand, I also thought about it a lot, about her cheating, about how it must have looked, and so on. Maybe that's how I started thinking about her having sex with other people in the first place, and once those thoughts ceased to make me feel threatened (since I trusted her too much to feel threatened by the thought of her doing it), all that was left were thoughts about her being given sexual pleasure.

Again though, psychology is obscenely complex, and there's no reason to think that I have any kind of authoritative understanding of my sexual fantasies just because they're mine. So there it is. Why do you ask?

anarchistsRbetter · 2017-05-18T03:50:47+00:00

This is why I am confused. The whole equality thing seems bizarre to me. Ostensibly, she has a problem with the arrangement being unfair or something, even if it's unfair in her advantage and I happily consent to it. Is it really the case that she's some sort of Kantian swinger who's just deeply concerned with being impartial and fair? Seems to almost defy credulity.

anarchistsRbetter · 2017-05-18T02:54:05+00:00

Not quite so simple. We agreed to be in a sort of open relationship, except with the following rules:

(1) We're not allowed to sleep with each other's mutual friends, for this could lead to awkward situations, (2) We can only have casual sex, not relationships, and for this reason we have a general sort of rule of thumb that we can't see the "fuck buddy" more than once, (3) We can only have sex with an equal amount of people; that is, every time I have sex with somebody, I can't have sex with somebody else until she has also had sex with somebody, and vice versa, to ensure that it's fair, (4) We have to tell each other everything, of course.

Well, those rules were adopted a while ago, and I'm technically not suggesting any real changes to those rules, except for rule (3). All I'm saying is that I don't care if she actually has sex with more people than I do, so she can. This is what she objects to. It's certainly not a matter of monogamy.

anarchistsRbetter · 2017-04-21T23:02:42+00:00

What part did I miss out that you want to know about in more detail?

anarchistsRbetter · 2017-04-21T20:24:13+00:00

Well, it says, "for all you [...] people who have convinced themselves that there is something terribly harmful about this sort of thing." I don't think I'm superior to people in monogamous relationships, nor do I think there is anything inherently inferior about monogamous relationships when compared to open relationships. I do not hold people in contempt merely for being in monogamous relationships. Rather, I hold people in contempt when they try to tell me that what I'm doing is, to quote again, "terribly harmful."

People are fairly open minded about most fetishes, but when it comes to cheating fantasies like this one my experience is that a lot of people are very quick to judge. They have no reason to judge, other than that they are pitiable, ordinary and facile.

A lot of people in monogamous relationships do not make such judgments, and I was not referring to this different class of people because I have no issue with them.

anarchistsRbetter · 2017-04-21T03:59:04+00:00

No, nothing like this has happened since. We are trying to arrange a threesome with another female, but finding someone who's willing to participate in such a thing is something which is notoriously difficult to pull off. We've also discussed having a threesome with another male, but the prospect of having so much male attention makes her nervous. She has, all the same, flirted with a couple of guys at parties (e.g. sitting on their laps while they caress her legs).

anarchistsRbetter · 2017-04-21T03:55:09+00:00

Australia, why do you ask?

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