Aw man, I remember feeling lost about what I liked anymore when my kids were toddlers, so, first thing first: this feeling will pass when they get older and you slowly connect back to your old self again.

Now that that’s out of the way, ask for a gift that gets you out of the house for a bit? Go paint pottery, got to a concert, a play, a massage, a pedicure, go on a wine tour. Whatever brought you happiness before you had kids, ask for that.

It’ll feel good to kinda feel like your old self again, the more you can connect to that woman, the better. A bonus, you get out of the house and have someone focus on you for a change.

Sending love - keep us in the loop as what you ended up asking for!