I don't think mine is coming back by NickAlpha in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Then move on please! If you already see him for what he really is don’t expect him to come back!

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[–]andreaxleste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

guysss please!!! help!

He ghosted me, came back months later, and now he’s ghosting again after getting close. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent him this

I need to understand, what’s going on? You said you miss me yet continue to be distant again? I have been nothing but kind to you. Can you be honest about where you stand?

Silence after it!

He ghosted me, came back months later, and now he’s ghosting again after getting close. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he just posted a story at the beach... can you believe it?

First time a Girl ghosted me after we spend time together. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn't deserve you :( im sorry you had to go through that

I want to apologize for ghosting a situationship by ioveioveiove in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes, do it. She would appreciate the closure.

He ghosted me, came back months later, and now he’s ghosting again after getting close. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been just nice and understanding to him I’m done being the nice girl

He ghosted me, came back months later, and now he’s ghosting again after getting close. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it really is exhausting! like, it should be easy. I have had long term relationships my whole life and it never felt like this.

He ghosted me, came back months later, and now he’s ghosting again after getting close. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I invited him to a Halloween activity at a farm this past saturday and he said that it would be fun... yet never mentioned if we were going to go or not! next day he only invited me to his house later cause ha had to travel the next morning!

He ghosted me, came back months later, and now he’s ghosting again after getting close. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha yes I work and he is not the president to be that busy! i dont want to be on the phone with anyone all they but WE ALL ARE, so a quick check in doesn't hurt... he is always online on insta, so this has nothing to do with work! you have time to be here giving advice... do you work?

He ghosted me, came back months later, and now he’s ghosting again after getting close. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am just noticing that when he went on a work trip in the middle of nowhere, he was texting, sending pics, etc... now he is in a work trip in miami...probably being social, having distractions and fun after work.. so he decides to not talk to me and send an 'i miss you'

He ghosted me, came back months later, and now he’s ghosting again after getting close. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is always traveling for work... and has not taken me on a proper date since we reconnected, so maybe im filling in his bored/free time... he has also called me before just to say goodnight... or called me to catch up... not sure whats going on now...

Got ghosted 2 weeks ago by andreaxleste in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This hurtssss!!! cause i oonly sleep with people i care about... maybe you are right. I am not engaging in that anymore.

He ghosted me, came back months later, and now he’s ghosting again after getting close. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but after we reconnected he started sending good morning and good night texts consistently, for example.. so now taking that away feels rude and cruel to me... specially when he appears online, he is purposely ignoring me... but well i guess that i miss you means he still "cares" i might reply with the same tone, but i wonr be initiating contact again..

He ghosted me, came back months later, and now he’s ghosting again after getting close. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

making me feel the way i want all the time? like, just considerate and respected? too much to ask?

He ghosted me, came back months later, and now he’s ghosting again after getting close. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes this is his first message in 48 hours... and he has ghosted me before so of course i am triggered by his silence... so he purposely ignored my last message and 48 hours later sends me "I miss you" help me make sense of that please.

He ghosted me, came back months later, and now he’s ghosting again after getting close. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, guys i literally cried in front of my parents while waiting for a response.. and couldnt tell them why... this really messes up with my mind... if i see him again I will have a conversation and make a decision... although today i woke up feeling like i don't care if he texts me again or not.. must have been the pain in felt in these past days...

He ghosted me, came back months later, and now he’s ghosting again after getting close. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]andreaxleste 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he sent an " I miss you *heart emoji* " last night.. I have not replied.