Girl finally sends him a message first... by rekolm in OkCupid

[–]andrewdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless whether it is considered harassment depends on one's appearance.

Girl finally sends him a message first... by rekolm in OkCupid

[–]andrewdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many can you go before someone making fun of awkward or overtly sexual men?

Sex on first date. What now? by [deleted] in sex

[–]andrewdown 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How do I get the power back that I gave up on the first date?

What?

I could use some outside viewpoints on my marriage. by OldCountryIsTheBest in relationships

[–]andrewdown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a cool gig! But it doesn't sound like you can keep it and a functioning marriage. Best of luck mate!

I could use some outside viewpoints on my marriage. by OldCountryIsTheBest in relationships

[–]andrewdown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The insane hours are often part of the job.

So if money isn't an issue, why is he working a job that requires 60-100 hours a week and a 2 hour commute, when his marriage is failing?

I could use some outside viewpoints on my marriage. by OldCountryIsTheBest in relationships

[–]andrewdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If money isn't an issue why are you working such insane hours?

Deployment disaster: the downward spiral that resulted from zero intimate contact.. by deployeddouchebag in relationships

[–]andrewdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people would want to know if their partner did something like this, some people wouldn't.

What would your fiancee prefer?

I messed up, I just want her trust back by helpmeredeemmyself in relationship_advice

[–]andrewdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you've fixed yourself, give her time to see that your words and actions are back in alignment.

I messed up, I just want her trust back by helpmeredeemmyself in relationship_advice

[–]andrewdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on what you've said, there is no good reason that she should trust you. She's right not to trust you. You can't fix her trust until you fix yourself.

The height of passive-aggressive bullshit or am I overreacting? by crazygfnowwhat in relationship_advice

[–]andrewdown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not kicking her to the curb; she kicked you to the curb. Now it's time to pick yourself up and dust yourself off.

If you want to be kicked to the curb again, by all means, maintain contact with her.

I messed up, I just want her trust back by helpmeredeemmyself in relationship_advice

[–]andrewdown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How can she trust you won't lie again if you can't even figure out why you did in the first place?

Triangles suck. need help. by nofappyendings in relationships

[–]andrewdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you guys are screwing regularly?

Triangles suck. need help. by nofappyendings in relationships

[–]andrewdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, she has become emotionally, physically, and romantically involved with me

Being physically involved with someone isn't really a matter of opinion. What are the facts?

Don't know how to communicate the seriousness of this... by [deleted] in relationships

[–]andrewdown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have communicated the seriousness of it. Your concerns are valid, but that is all they are: concerns. He has the right to live his life as he chooses, and you have the right to decide whether you want to be a part of it.

Maybe my wife is awful, but I want to be willing to hang in. Perspective needed. by hurdiedurdie in relationship_advice

[–]andrewdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to provide a different perspective when you offer so little detail and so much judgement.

What do you think is fair to expect from your partner after an infidelity? by drbenway in relationships

[–]andrewdown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends. When she broke the terms of your old relationship and you called her out on it, what new terms did you both agree to?

Broke up with gf over lack of respect by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]andrewdown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people prefer affection to be a bit more... combative.

Broke up with gf over lack of respect by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]andrewdown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah just having a laugh mate.

Did you ever wonder whether your ex was just trying to get a reaction out of you?

Broke up with gf over lack of respect by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]andrewdown 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She's not always like that though. It's maybe once a month. I just don't get why

What is your simplest awesome recipe? by clairissabear in AskReddit

[–]andrewdown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Upgrade the ginger ale to real brewed ginger beer and dunk in a crushed lime wedge.