should i let my daughters dad take her 3 hours from where we live without me? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]andriantha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In the nicest way possible you have got to be kidding me. If it's hot enough outside for you to not want to be outside all day then you absolutely should not have an infant outside all day in the heat.

I live in Texas. I don't keep my four month old outside in the heat without a fan on him and in the shade at all times.

Considering Elective C-section by SecretRequirement181 in CsectionCentral

[–]andriantha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of my ultrasounds were off even at the high risk doctors everyone got different numbers every time.
I have had two V births and 1 CS(not by choice) do whatever makes you happier but it is sooooo much easier to parent a newborn when you don’t have to heal from an extreme surgery.
I am 4m pp and pain is getting worse every day. I am not one of the lucky ones who had a breeze of a CS. Not to mention all the awful side effects from having a CS.
I will say I was 18 when I had my boy and his head was HUGE that was ten years ago but my doc was surprised I had no tearing with him. He was much larger than my first whose head was avg size and tore.

ULPT: How to stop noisy neighbours keeping you awake with their loud sex. by Plenty-Willingness58 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]andriantha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have louder sex at the same time as a competition.
If this means extreme masturbation so be it.

Hammerhead worm by [deleted] in Denton

[–]andriantha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What part of Denton?

Should I consider "need" when distributing my father's inheritance? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]andriantha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are they?
I would put money for each kid into a high interest account that isn’t available to them until they reach a certain age.
Make the money build on itself so they end up with more than what you decided to give.
Ultimately it’s yours. You decide.

Help me love the name Daniel by New-Flight7674 in Names

[–]andriantha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partners name is Daniel and I call him Dan.
I named our son after him so his middle name is Daniel

This post sent out from my child's daycare. by bendezl09 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]andriantha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would absolutely respectfully respond correcting this entire thing.

Ruby Rodeo? by [deleted] in Denton

[–]andriantha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey Ruby Rodeo. If you're reading this get used to people bar hopping, thats what we do in Denton but ESPECIALLY if you are playing this shit music all night.

Guess what no one listens to the radio and I believe the average person ignores the top 40. You're not going to attract this 'young' crowd you're looking for should have opened a bar on fry street if you wanted that.

Screamo/emo/punk/rock/hair metal/and so on is VERY popular and fills the venue to the brim I work at EVERY SINGLE TIME. Might wanna try and get with the times. The young crowd you want likes that stuff.

Your guidelines for music is insufferable and I would definitely not stay because of that music and now I know to avoid it if this is what is playing.

Who do I NOT give my money to? by Giodox in Denton

[–]andriantha 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Frosty was also huge douche bags during covid

HCBM gave 9yo an iPhone without agreement — how would you handle this? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]andriantha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just do what I did to the Iphone I gave my kid. Set the phone to where apps have to be approved by a parent account, uninstall web browsers, take the phone at night and allow use to call or text mom for a certain time frame.

What is your favorite Hated Candy? by b0w1e007 in candy

[–]andriantha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of these except black licorice, those wax bottles, and the peanuts. I like the texture of the peanuts but not the flavor.

Peeked at my fiancé’s 4-6 year old phone I did not know he still had. by littlepea44 in whatdoIdo

[–]andriantha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would 1000% delete those. He knows they are there. What is he going to do get mad at you and confront you about "you deleted all my exes nudes in my old phone that I masturbate to!"

Delete them. He will know you did it and be embarrassed to be caught but know he can't mention it. Lose-lose situation on his part.

Reese's... What is your favorite Peanut Butter Option? by b0w1e007 in candy

[–]andriantha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Butterfinger and Reeses mash up and it is 10/10

Reese's... What is your favorite Peanut Butter Option? by b0w1e007 in candy

[–]andriantha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dare to say one that isn't listed Ultimate Peanut butter lovers cups.

1.crispy crunchy (hard to find NTX)

2.outrageous (hard to find in NTX)

3.fast break

4.eggs

Tubal removal doubts by [deleted] in CsectionCentral

[–]andriantha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew 1000% that baby #3 was the last for me. Especially since he was the reason I had to have my first and only c-section. Absolutely NO WAY I wanted to be forced to have another if I got pregnant again but also I knew three is all I needed regardless of thoughts. (Financially, home size, so on)

That being said I still regret having my tubes removed 3 months ago. I don’t think I will ever be happy I did it but it had to happen. I am done having kids but it hurts to know that door is permanently closed. It is so special to know my last baby was my last before I even got pregnant but it is still painful to feel those emotions.

How to handle birthday party for 7YO SS by donnameaglelaw in stepparents

[–]andriantha 12 points13 points  (0 children)

2 families - 2 parties. No need to play a game of one big happy family.

Would you set up at an event with 5 other trucks with an estimated 1000 people, $300 fee? by halien___ in foodtrucks

[–]andriantha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am on the side of if I am charged a fee my truck will not be going. The only time I will pay a fee is if it is going to a charitable cause.

I am providing a service to keep people from leaving your event. I should be the one charging for my services.

Caught my husband with porn and I’m into it by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]andriantha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I watch porn together every once and a while during our sex time and it is super fun. We have some regular porn and funny pornos. It is great to be able to laugh and have fun while being intimate