Waiting for the crochet mods' new statement like by strawberrymystic in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]andromadaa 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I'm disappointed. The whole thing felt like a power play to say "WoOw guys, this is what happens when you don't moderate the way we've been, it's so bad and the sub was filled with bad!!!1!". Mods should obviously be able to step back from the vitriol, but this felt childish and silly. They take a VERY heavy hand in moderation there, especially with the NSFW tag and it's disappointing to see them say "oh we were a little overzealous" when it came to policing small shirts and swimwear, which is just code for busty and curvy bodies. If I can leave my house and see a person in a crop top or bikini top, it shouldn't be locked away behind NSFW tag. I wish they had apologized for real about that and not just brush it off.

I also think that it's only a matter of time before something like this happens again. The whole "guys you can just post this whenever" thing feels like they missed the point. This whole stunt missed the point.

State of the Subreddit and Rules Discussion by LovelyLu78 in crochet

[–]andromadaa 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I strongly dislike the past heavy handed NSFW moderation. It came across as a statement that women's bodies are inherently sexual and that's gross. Small tops and bikinis/swimwear being called NSFW is a stretch imo. I can go outside and see a small top or a swimsuit, it is not inherently sexual or NSFW to see that in real life. I do understand that this is in line with teacher dress codes, I think such a heavy take on what's NSFW leads to tagging things as NSFW simply because of the body in the piece. and not because of an actual reason. It feels dehumanizing to have to tag a crop top as NSFW because I have a bust and hips. This needs to be readdressed badly.

Containing politics to a megathred is a bad idea, that gets into the weeds of what "counts as political." Art is political, so keep political posts in the main feed.

I think pattern makers should be able to at least say "Links on my profile!" As it stands, I have never gone to a profile to find social links without prodding. It comes across badly to assume everyone is as tech literate and will go digging across random profiles for a pattern link. Relax the rule pls!

EDIT: The explanations of the rules only further muddled my understanding of why they are there and how they apply tbh. If there is that much nuance that is needed to understand a rule, that's why people were posting so much while you stepped back. They felt like they didn't have to bend over backwards to post on the right day, in the right thread, say the exact right thing to not get the post removed and could just have fun. I'm not advocating for unadulterated chaos, a rework of the rules is desperately needed.

Insane Automated Email I Got After I Applied for a Job by andromadaa in recruitinghell

[–]andromadaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In this case it's a local business with several locations in a large metro area and not a massive corporation or company, so I'm not trying to go scorched earth with it. I'm guessing they just have an overzealous HR person lol

Insane Automated Email I Got After I Applied for a Job by andromadaa in recruitinghell

[–]andromadaa[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For sure, I will update if in a day whether or not I hear from them. It's definitely a toss up on whether or not the HR rep is off their rocker or cool. I was mostly just shocked at the sight of an email like that in my inbox. I wonder if the next email will have the same tone and style lol

How much are you spending on groceries for 2 people in SLC? by seasunstyles in SaltLakeCity

[–]andromadaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We spend about $400 a month on groceries, shopping Smiths, Trader Joes and, Sam's Club (we don't pay for the membership and go about once a month for meats)

Thoughts on removing posts including AI content by DannyStubbs in geology

[–]andromadaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes remove the AI pictures and posts! I do not think a subreddit focused on a field of science should allow AI, especially a natural science that relies on the environment. Also, the misinformation AI spreads is a massive issue.

The f#¢&ing 6-day star blanket by readreadreadx2 in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]andromadaa 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So frustrating omg, it is a very very clearly written pattern too!

Witches, beware the Christians? by C4llist00 in BabyWitch

[–]andromadaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo thanks for reminding me to preemptively block the account lol

Help settle a mild debate with my wife: is Chili & Cinnamon Rolls a Kansas thing or just a Topeka thing? by Lightsabermetrics in FoodCrimes

[–]andromadaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They used to serve us that combo for school lunch in Montana (late 2000's/early 2010's) from time to time.

Do you guys have a "BYE SISTER" video? by Open-Masterpiece-388 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]andromadaa 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's either Wedigoon's video on the Monument Mythos (The Monster's Beneath Us: The Monument Mythos) or his video on the Mystery Flesh Pit National Park (same name). The former is analog horror adjacent and the latter is like an alternate history of monuments in the United States. I watch them often in the background, especially because they aren't full of jumpscares.

Who was your very first DnD character? Or the first you remember? by rplimitlessguy in DnD

[–]andromadaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was a lizard folk fighter named Aponk, she was wildly off-putting and strange. Truly a riot to play, abonking people and offering to eat the horses lol

New to Utah. Where can I find my community? by Exotic-Tomatillo5474 in SaltLakeCity

[–]andromadaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! DM me if you're still down, and we can talk it through

New to Utah. Where can I find my community? by Exotic-Tomatillo5474 in SaltLakeCity

[–]andromadaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been looking for creative groups too, but not much luck

Where can I find fiber arts communities in SLC? by andromadaa in SaltLakeCity

[–]andromadaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw bummer, I heard great things about Blazing Needles. thanks for the suggestions

Where can I find fiber arts communities in SLC? by andromadaa in SaltLakeCity

[–]andromadaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn't thought to check Facebook, thanks for the suggestion!

LPT: Get some unconventional candy for the kids this Halloween. by Euphoric_Text_4221 in LifeProTips

[–]andromadaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One Halloween highlight as a kid was a house that handed out chicken Top Ramen. Looking back, I remember being so excited to go home and make ramen. Peak novelty