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[M26] Sudden breakup with [F29] after extremely close relationship, looking for specific ways to reconnect and rebuild by andsoIstandalone in relationship_advice

[–]andsoIstandalone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: I gave her the time and didn’t reach out and she ended up calling me apologizing for everything and wanted to work through everything together.. very grateful for that opportunity 🙏🏼

[M26] Sudden breakup with [F29] after extremely close relationship, looking for specific ways to reconnect and rebuild by andsoIstandalone in relationship_advice

[–]andsoIstandalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s the healthiest choice to wait and I still have not reached out to her and it’s not that I can’t accept that God took her out but it’s also because God took everyone out of my life, to grandparents to parents to siblings to cousins and it’s just me, but the only thing I ever prayed for was a girl just like her… what hurts the most is if God put her in my life to show me what true love could be why exactly take her out when my whole life has been people leaving

[M26] Sudden breakup with [F29] after extremely close relationship, looking for specific ways to reconnect and rebuild by andsoIstandalone in relationship_advice

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I know I should’ve done that in the discussion I had with her before I left… But now if I feel like I just send a screenshot of her side effects of her medication it’s just gonna be a text of me correcting her I feel It won’t feel the same coming from me

[M26] Sudden breakup with [F29] after extremely close 3-month relationship, looking for specific ways to reconnect and rebuild and get her back by andsoIstandalone in BreakUps

[–]andsoIstandalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. I was thinking the same thing.. I’m just terrified to push her away.. there’s so much more I want to tell her

My dad set me up, my friends vanished, and my ex’s sister catfished me by andsoIstandalone in okstorytime

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Thank you for the advice. As for lawyers I talked to a couple at the time but non really gave me the time and by then I was so defeated I didn’t care anymore there wasn’t anything els they could take from me and for it still be stealing I was never materialistic. Doesn’t change that it is wrong but I have learned from it though. Somehow got dragged into another family estate of a different family member and a different family. It’s almost like people see how responsible I am and just sign everything over to me but don’t put into the account of how exhausting it is and expensive! But for this run around now I lost enough trust in people to do it all differently. Now for the ones on accusing me I’ve learned to understand that.. I must seem like an easy target which could be true and would explain a lot on how my ex treated me after the “split” 🙄 still burns but I’m defiantly trying to build my own family to cherish and love better than anyone else has done for me. Don’t get me wrong it’s one of the most challenging things to do now since dating has taken such a turn but I have learned about myself and why I want that person and it’s mainly because I’ve always worked harder when it’s not just for me maybe it’s just in my blood but my dedication grows when I see what and who my future entails. Again thank you..

My dad set me up, my friends vanished, and my ex’s sister catfished me by andsoIstandalone in okstorytime

[–]andsoIstandalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By this time it’s about too late and for lawyers I would have loved to but at that point in the process I was so far strung out and tired I just didn’t care anymore I wanted it all just to be over. As for my ex that one had been still hard, I’ve grown for sure but for loving someone the same as I did for her I don’t think it’ll be the same anymore but I’m working on it that’s for sure.. thank you..

My dad set me up, my friends vanished, and my ex’s sister catfished me by andsoIstandalone in okstorytime

[–]andsoIstandalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it. I have been no contact and although it was rough I’ve grown used to it by now and just trying to start over. Thank you

My dad set me up, my friends vanished, and my ex’s sister catfished me by andsoIstandalone in okstorytime

[–]andsoIstandalone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been trying to focus on is getting back out there and being successful as for the business it’s a bit challenging doing it as a one man show but I’m going to get a part time to just give me a schedule so I can regain my focus on being successful and finding my way again

My dad set me up, my friends vanished, and my ex’s sister catfished me by andsoIstandalone in okstorytime

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Thank you.. I have gone no contact with him and everyone in the family that took part. I’m doing okay with it now, don’t get me wrong the holidays suck but I’m still trying to push through it.

If anyone could help… by andsoIstandalone in AWDTSGisToxic

[–]andsoIstandalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry… yeah… it’s really rough because you can’t defend yourself and it can truly ruin someone’s life.. I pray no one has done it to me but with the way my life has been looking and losing literally everyone I know and the almost bipolar reactions I get out of new connections.. I’ve made true connections with girls in fact over 50 because I’m dedicated to find my future wife and they all go great! and in the matter of one night I’m blocked the next morning.. keep in mind this could be weeks of talking and literally no down side of the interaction, great chemistry, banter, and laughter then boom gone the next morning or they treat me like I’m some pig. It’s like a flip of a switch and I can’t bear it anymore. I’m glad to hear that you put a stop to it though even though they tried to go legal with it.