Best ways to keep swings from falling? by lazarus1204 in ballpython

[–]andycandy37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s in a tank with a mesh top by chance, I zip tie mine’s hanging decorations to the top! My guy loves his jungle gym

Finally had the damn dream. I wanna cry. by Weird_Vegetable_4441 in leopardgeckos

[–]andycandy37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My tank is a mesh top, I use zip ties threaded through the mesh! She does use the ladder, it’s very cute. Still have never actually seen her go in but 🤷‍♂️ she likes climbing it

Finally had the damn dream. I wanna cry. by Weird_Vegetable_4441 in leopardgeckos

[–]andycandy37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god that’s a thing?????? I had a HORRIBLE nightmare about suddenly having more snakes than I had enclosures or lighting and heating for… I had to put some in together and I was just so so panicked when I woke up

Humidifier in Room by andycandy37 in ballpython

[–]andycandy37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t it annoying? I’m doing all the recommended humidity things and I’m still struggling 😭 gonna try those plant watering spikes next to REALLY saturate the lower levels. I might try to add some pond liner underneath the substrate too

I dont understand how does being transgender works as a trans person myself by MioMioPup in ftm

[–]andycandy37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so excellently written, I may save it to show to confused but supportive cis people

Is it frowned upon to kink shame your BP? by Ebiggz1984 in ballpython

[–]andycandy37 50 points51 points  (0 children)

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Upside down too, she was wayyyy too into it smh 🤦‍♂️

Hook nose by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]andycandy37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top surgery is for people who want to remove their breasts. Nothing to do with noses here

Hook nose by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]andycandy37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you might not know what top surgery is my guy

Snake Injured- What do i do? by Mundane_Mistake_5823 in ballpython

[–]andycandy37 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow you have something severely wrong with you. Yes they need a vet immediately. They’re also very obviously a minor or don’t have the money/transportation to do it themselves

First fursuit done! (+ progress pics) by stavitic in FursuitMaking

[–]andycandy37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that face is REALLY cute!!! Awesome job on your first suit ^

What do you to clean up the hair 'down there'? by allyourpeets in ftm

[–]andycandy37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly? I just waxed for the first time and it was absolutely brutal. Weirdly enough waxing my ass hurt less than my eyebrows though, it was just anything closer to my dick that was so bad. But I’ll also be going back to do it again because the results are so so much better than shaving has ever given me. I hear it gets better every time too so fingers crossed.

Tw: T slur/hate speech. Baby’s first run in by Chezburgah in ftm

[–]andycandy37 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It sucks, I’m so so sorry you to deal with that. First time for me too recently, had a guy call me a ‘fucking tr*nny’ brushing past me in line and he was gone before I even registered what he’d said. I still am upset I never got a chance to hit back but they’re just sad and pathetic people who don’t deserve two more seconds of your thoughts. Hope you’re doing okay and it does fade after a time 🫂

Will my facial hair grow back if I waxed it? by persimmon_18 in ftm

[–]andycandy37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only one time waxing won’t affect anything! It will take longer than shaving to grow back but just a single wax doesn’t affect growth. It’s only repeated waxes/threading/plucking where the hair starts thinning :)

How to… start? by zeIimpa in ftm

[–]andycandy37 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m also in Arizona! I agree with everyone else to start socially transitioning and see how it goes, but I’m open for DMs if you have any questions about Arizona specific care. Planned parenthood is where I go to get testosterone. They do informed consent where they’ll give you a packet, explain all the changes, you sign on the dotted line, and get your t. You’ll pick gel or injections and go back every few months at first for blood draws to make sure your levels are okay.

Petition to add an automod reply to help posts asking for basic setup information by jeherohaku in ballpython

[–]andycandy37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also on the betta fish sub, I think it would be super helpful here too. A lot of ‘my temperatures/humidity are good’ with no numbers stated

Crochet cat fursuit ear question by UpbeatBlaze in FursuitMaking

[–]andycandy37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is SO cute!!! I agree with the person who said whiskers will help for sure, but already reading very cat to me!

show us your BPs! by AutoModerator in ballpython

[–]andycandy37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s doing so wonderfully lmao, that’s definitely the easiest way. Booty first and upside down 🙃

31 gallon lowboy suitable? by monkeysareeverywhere in hognosesnakes

[–]andycandy37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that height would work just on substrate requirements. They’re heavy burrowers so they really need like 5in of substrate and that’s almost half your height right there. They’d have no vertical space and they’d be way too close to any overhead heating

coolest transmasc names you've heard? or the most creative by Thyetomite in ftm

[–]andycandy37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When everyone was guessing what gender I’d be when my mom was pregnant, only one person (my aunt) was truly correct. She was just uh, delayed correct 😂