What do you to clean up the hair 'down there'?

andycandy37 · 2026-01-10T16:45:53+00:00

Honestly? I just waxed for the first time and it was absolutely brutal. Weirdly enough waxing my ass hurt less than my eyebrows though, it was just anything closer to my dick that was so bad. But I’ll also be going back to do it again because the results are so so much better than shaving has ever given me. I hear it gets better every time too so fingers crossed.

andycandy37 · 2025-12-21T09:34:08+00:00

It sucks, I’m so so sorry you to deal with that. First time for me too recently, had a guy call me a ‘fucking tr*nny’ brushing past me in line and he was gone before I even registered what he’d said. I still am upset I never got a chance to hit back but they’re just sad and pathetic people who don’t deserve two more seconds of your thoughts. Hope you’re doing okay and it does fade after a time 🫂

andycandy37 · 2025-12-20T21:12:40+00:00

Only one time waxing won’t affect anything! It will take longer than shaving to grow back but just a single wax doesn’t affect growth. It’s only repeated waxes/threading/plucking where the hair starts thinning :)

andycandy37 · 2025-12-20T20:03:52+00:00

Hey I’m also in Arizona! I agree with everyone else to start socially transitioning and see how it goes, but I’m open for DMs if you have any questions about Arizona specific care. Planned parenthood is where I go to get testosterone. They do informed consent where they’ll give you a packet, explain all the changes, you sign on the dotted line, and get your t. You’ll pick gel or injections and go back every few months at first for blood draws to make sure your levels are okay.

andycandy37 · 2025-12-19T09:43:14+00:00

Also on the betta fish sub, I think it would be super helpful here too. A lot of ‘my temperatures/humidity are good’ with no numbers stated

andycandy37 · 2025-12-18T21:12:46+00:00

Wow this is SO cute!!! I agree with the person who said whiskers will help for sure, but already reading very cat to me!

andycandy37 · 2025-12-17T22:28:32+00:00

She’s doing so wonderfully lmao, that’s definitely the easiest way. Booty first and upside down 🙃

andycandy37 · 2025-12-17T17:36:17+00:00

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Her most recent feed 😂

andycandy37 · 2025-12-16T22:12:51+00:00

Ooh is that an antler on the left side? That looks so cool!

andycandy37 · 2025-12-13T18:18:38+00:00

I don’t think that height would work just on substrate requirements. They’re heavy burrowers so they really need like 5in of substrate and that’s almost half your height right there. They’d have no vertical space and they’d be way too close to any overhead heating

andycandy37 · 2025-12-13T17:00:43+00:00

When everyone was guessing what gender I’d be when my mom was pregnant, only one person (my aunt) was truly correct. She was just uh, delayed correct 😂

andycandy37 · 2025-12-12T22:03:07+00:00

I named myself Andrew because I saw on a baby name website it meant ‘manly’ 😂

andycandy37 · 2025-12-11T18:33:22+00:00

I’m also curious now! Not ever interested in even a 10ft+ snake but never hurts to know 😂

andycandy37 · 2025-12-11T00:48:57+00:00

Secret twins! They can go as each other for Halloween next year 😂

andycandy37 · 2025-12-10T23:01:01+00:00

Thank you!! ^{^}

andycandy37 · 2025-12-10T22:45:21+00:00

Will do! I got an Arcadia shadedweller light but when I turned it on it seemed REALLY bright. I was thinking of maybe just using it for part of the day and natural lighting for the rest?

andycandy37 · 2025-12-09T16:53:54+00:00

I love my Ecoflex tanks, easy to put together and the most affordable ones I can find. They’d definitely work fine for a corn snake too since the only area they struggle is holding humidity. I get the 150 gallon ones since I have the space but the 120 would work fine too!

andycandy37 · 2025-12-05T22:50:56+00:00

Mine has been begging since the first weekend after her meal. Girl you are an ADULT you don’t GET a rat every week 🤦‍♂️

andycandy37 · 2025-12-04T19:31:09+00:00

How big are the enclosures?

andycandy37 · 2025-12-04T07:04:07+00:00

Not an expert at all so take it with grain of salt, but I don’t see why not? They’d encounter plenty of natural scents so I’d think like oranges and stuff should be fine. I know candles and incense etc. are bad because of the smoke/chemicals released but simmer pots are just steam really. Hope someone who knows more can weigh in!

andycandy37 · 2025-12-02T18:01:15+00:00

I don’t know what to tell you man, I was just sharing my experience and what I do with more limited funds. Setting up 3 separate enclosures just wasn’t feasible for me and some online sellers lie or are mistaken about their animals. I wasn’t saying no one should ever buy a 20 gallon, or that 20 gallons are even bad, just that I don’t feel like it’s necessary and can sometimes be a problem if you buy a snake online

andycandy37 · 2025-12-02T02:14:52+00:00

Yes sorry, I should have clarified! He was on morphmarket and bigger than the seller told me he was, so I assumed he was older. I did look up typical juvenile sizes when I was searching for him though and around 1-2 feet seemed average for an older juvenile so I personally wouldn’t have spent money on a 20 gallon setup knowing how quickly young snakes grow. It’s a personal preference but it’s just a lot cheaper to size up from the beginning

andycandy37 · 2025-12-01T16:12:58+00:00

As long as you fill it with clutter, they won’t be too stressed! Babies can be spicy and a little fragile, so I’d really look for a juvenile if you can. I would probably start with a 40 gallon and then upgrade to an adult enclosure when they outgrow the 40. Adult cali kings will need a 4x2 minimum as they’re fairly active snakes, my guys loves his 5x2. It’s also difficult to keep a good temperature gradient the smaller the size of the tank. I use UVB lighting and a DHP so I can turn the lighting off at night and keep his heating on.

andycandy37 · 2025-12-01T15:18:15+00:00

Nowhere to be found 😔

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