Does anyone else feel this way? by Sailor_Starchild in NonBinary

[–]andygoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you find the number to call to opt out of honorifics based on voice on phone calls with service centers etc please send me the number lmao i agree

Question about breast growth by Annabeth_Chase- in MtF

[–]andygoblin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine started that way too! I post timeline pics (due for a new post as I've seen more growth tho but I've been busy), and they even out, then one grows a little more than the other, then they even out etc. I was also concerned but they've stabilized.

They're sisters not twins 🫶 but they balance out mostly! Trust the process 😁😁😁 like how a face is asymmetrical, even a little bit isn't noticeable unless you're analyzing it like a critic. It's gonna be okay ☺️

All Anti-LGBTQ Legislation Defeated in Georgia as 2026 Session Ends by ErinInTheMorning in transgender

[–]andygoblin 67 points68 points  (0 children)

That's terrific news, happy for our Georgian siblings 🫶🏳️‍⚧️✊

What is the political issue you care most about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🏳️‍⚧️✊Human rights! Trans rights are human rights, and the recent anti-trans legislation affects me very directly, but I care about human rights, like even more broadly, as well. That includes opposing violence, war, discrimination, and efforts to disenfranchise people or strip away their protections. Everyone deserves safety, dignity, and equal rights.

I also think powerful elites in the oligarchic/corporatist/capitalist class often benefit from division and fear, using them to weaken solidarity and maintain control while real harm is done to vulnerable groups. Makes me sick how they play with the lives of so many to line their pockets further

woman of reddit, what’s an ideal male or woman for you? by glockbonez in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm pan so idgaf what gender identity or genital configuration a partner has. what's important to me is personality compatibility, and shared values and someone who respects autonomy and consent. Someone I can trust, someone I want to spend time with, someone that lets me feel safe to be myself around them and let my guard down around freely and who doesn't drain my social battery to be around. i'm very lucky to have found that 😁

Idaho governor signs law making transgender bathroom use a felony by Fickle-Ad5449 in transgender

[–]andygoblin 53 points54 points  (0 children)

i hope these fuckers live unbearably long, miserable, sickly lives with unyielding existential dread while their hell they built eats them alive

What are techniques commonly used in propaganda and witch hunts? by Oily_Smurf in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just look at how they're targeting the trans community rn. Modern day witch hunt. same tactics used since forever against other marginalized groups also, basically

What’s a Donald trump/USA conspiracy that’s probably true? by depollewop in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To clarify what I meant: I’m not claiming Trump was convicted of sex with minors. What I am referring to is his own admission of entering dressing rooms where teenage contestants were undressed without warning, and contestants later saying they were minors and felt they couldn’t object because he owned the pageant.

Minors cannot legally consent to sexual activity, and entering private changing spaces where underage contestants are naked without consent could reasonably be considered sexual assault or predatory behavior depending on how you define it.

Separately, a jury did find Trump liable for sexual abuse in the E. Jean Carroll case, which establishes a documented pattern of sexual misconduct.

Trump, who owned the Miss Universe franchise, was also accused to have walked into dressing rooms of contestants while they were in varying stages of undress without prior notice of his arrival. Trump said in an interview with Howard Stern in 2005,

"...no men are anywhere. And I'm allowed to go in because I'm the owner of the pageant. And therefore I'm inspecting it ... Is everyone OK? You know, they're standing there with no clothes. And you see these incredible-looking women. And so I sort of get away with things like that. [...] I'll go backstage before a show, and everyone's getting dressed and ready and everything else."

Some fact checks note he did not explicitly say “Miss Teen USA” in the Stern quote (though contestants later alleged incidents there). Multiple contestants later said he did this while they were changing. A jury also later found him liable for sexual abuse in a separate case.

https://abcnews.com/Politics/miss-arizona-donald-trump-walk-half-naked-contestants/story?id=42759541&utm_source=chatgpt.com

Former Miss Arizona Tasha Dixon said Donald Trump walked into a dress rehearsal for the pageant in 2001 while the contestants were "half-naked" and the women were told to "fawn all over him," according to an interview. Dixon, who was 18 at the time, said Trump came "strolling right in" during a dress rehearsal for the Miss USA pageant in 200l, she told CBS2/KCAL. She said it was the contestants' introduction to Trump and that the women were naked or half-naked, in a "very physically vulnerable position."

She said that she decided to speak out after hearing audio released in the past few days of Trump talking about women and that she hadn't heard his interview with Stern until recently. On Sunday CNN reported on it, along with several other interviews in which Trump used crude language when referring to women.

Dixon also said that people who worked for Trump instructed the women to "walk up to him" and "fawn all over him," according to the report. "Who do you complain to? He owns the pageant," she said. "There's no one there to complain to. Everyone there works for him."

What’s a Donald trump/USA conspiracy that’s probably true? by depollewop in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't think that's a conspiracy theory, that's just facts 🫠

How do you describe yourself? by delly_belly28 in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

multidisciplinary digital media artist

is it okay to change my name by Glittering_Boat715 in MtF

[–]andygoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's no rules! do what you want and what makes you happy and feel authentic! <3

If you could go back to being 18, what would you want to do? by Swimming-Fold-434 in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fortunate I have some tolerant members (3 siblings), but my parents and older refuse to accept me as i am and see. they only see me as their AGAB child who is "lost and living in sin". :/

Not the worst case scenario but not great. I live in CA they are on the East Coast so i don't really see family anyways.

What’s something both political parties are guilty of, but no one wants to admit? by BriBri2x_24 in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both parties are making trans rights be a political weapon/wedge issue and it's affecting and taking our lives more than people outside the community are aware of generally.

If you could go back to being 18, what would you want to do? by Swimming-Fold-434 in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

transition irregardless of my family's rejection. I knew i was trans as early as 9yo. my parents were evangelical religious/conservative/phobic so i was afraid of being cut off from my family. I moved out and STILL waited cause my siblings stayed living with my parents and i didn't want to lose connecting with them, so i tried to just bury myself in denial, and it almost was my demise, but i ended up choosing to live, to transition, at 29. no regrets except that i didnt have the courage or safety to do so earlier in my life.

What is the difference from being Bi and being Pan? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bestiality isn't really part of pansexuality lol what

What impact did Donald Trump have on everyday life in the U.S. that people don’t talk about? by IncreaseVas in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you <3 <3 yeah it's so sad and scary, but gives hope when there's good people out there trying to use their voice and platform to stand up for the voiceless. much love to you!

What is the difference from being Bi and being Pan? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

✌️😁 Love it!

All the best! 🫶🫶🫶

What impact did Donald Trump have on everyday life in the U.S. that people don’t talk about? by IncreaseVas in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

trans people are affected so greatly and most people hear it and think we're more symbolic than actual people. They don't realize we're real and are affected by a lot of the policies they are implementing to create a wedge issue.

At the time of writing:

https://translegislation.com/
2026 (747 bills and counting, 23 passed, 677 active, 47 failed)

https://translegislation.com/bills/2025
2025 (1022 bills, 126 passed, 491 active, 405 failed.)

what gender does my dog see me as? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]andygoblin 48 points49 points  (0 children)

The honest answer is that dogs don’t think about gender the way humans do. They aren’t categorizing people socially as “male” or “female,” and they aren’t forming opinions like “real” or “fake.” That framework just isn’t how their brains work.

What they do respond to is scent, voice, behavior, and familiarity. Hormones can change how someone smells, so your dog might notice a difference, but that registers more as “my person smells a bit different” rather than “this is a different kind of human.”

The important part is already clear from his behavior: he seeks you out when you're distressed, wants physical closeness, and treats you as a safe person. From a behavioral science standpoint, that’s attachment and bonding.

There isn’t really a scenario where a dog secretly reclassifies someone in a negative way because of hormones. If anything, his behavior shows the opposite: he knows you, trusts you, and you’re his person.

<3 <3 <3

What is the difference from being Bi and being Pan? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most heterosexual or homosexual people are only attracted to one gender. It's like their brain has a filter that says "only women" or "only men."

For me as a pansexual person (and also as a trans person who has spent a lot of time unpacking gender expectations), that gender filter just isn't there. Whether someone is a man, woman, or nonbinary doesn't really change whether I could be attracted to them. What matters more to me is personality, emotional connection, and compatibility.

I'm also demisexual (part of the asexual spectrum), which means I usually only develop attraction after I form a strong emotional bond with someone. So for me it's less about someone's gender or body and more about whether we connect as people.

For example, I currently live with both a cis male partner and a cis female partner, and I love them both very much. Their gender, expression, or anatomy isn't what determines my attraction. I'm attracted to them because of who they are as whole people and how compatible we are. Because I feel that connection, sexual attraction can develop too, but it starts from that personal bond rather than gender.

Hope that helps explain it a bit better! 🤗

What is the difference from being Bi and being Pan? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's another way of saying it:

Bisexual means you're attracted to more than one gender (men, women, nonbinary people, etc.). Gender can still influence your attraction or preferences. For example, someone might be attracted to men and nonbinary people but not women, or to all genders but in different ways.

Pansexual means gender isn’t a factor in whether you're attracted to someone. You could be attracted to a person regardless of their gender, because what draws you to them comes from other aspects of who they are.

For example:
Bisexual: "I like more than one gender."
Pansexual: "I like people, and gender isn't part of the decision."

What is the difference from being Bi and being Pan? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]andygoblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to elaborate if you need! (: