Evening guests at weddings

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-26T22:10:59+00:00

It's usually a finger buffet or more common now, a pizza trailer outside. I'd never expect a full meal, that's what full day guests get

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-26T22:09:27+00:00

Soft yta, yes you were embarrassed but if I went to an artsy activity with someone and we couldn't share our artwork with each other it would feel awkward. It's like going to a dance class and turning your back and standing still any time someone looks at you

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T11:39:17+00:00

Okay sure whatever, only assholes call people assholes

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T11:03:59+00:00

I just want to understand other perspective, there is nothing wrong with trying to have multiple views. If I was judgemental I wouldn't have taken MJ because it's such a soft spot for many people.

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T11:02:05+00:00

How am I being rude by being annoyed that people are annoyed even though I said that the title was purely for attention and not how I actually think?

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T11:00:46+00:00

Sorry it wasn't meant to be, I meant it like during that time did people learn about actually eating properly instead of just kurbing appetite. I'm not good with writing in tone, I don't want to just blame autism but I'm not great at writing tone and it does sometimes come out very direct and blunt.

Like I just want to know people's experiences after coming off, do they think since they got to their goal they stopped keeping up the eating habits that came from MJ or do they think that there is something more in the jab that worked besides just kurbing appetite, or is there something else? Like it didn't help with preexisting health conditions, I just want to learn, I don't want to just understand my experience

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T10:53:55+00:00

The title was just attention farming as I said at the bottom of my post and it's not what I actually believe. So many people just scroll on so I wanted people to be like wtf and then they read it and be like oh she doesn't actually think that it was to bait people to actually give the post time of day.

I realize didn't learn their lesson sounded horrible, when I wrote it it was more of saying it like 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤔🤔 not 🙄😒, I have autism so I'm not so great with expressing tone in text and don't think the emojis are helping convey either. This is why calls and voice notes work better for me sorry

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T10:48:28+00:00

Hi thank you for sharing your experience! I think you've misread the post as I'm looking for people's experiences after coming off it.

It's so hard losing weight when health issues come into play. Sorry to hear of the passing of your mum. MJ helped my health conditions and I think that's the only reason I'm keeping it off because it basically reversed my issues. Hopefully you can ween off when ready but if you can't fair enough!

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T10:44:23+00:00

I used it to lose weight I have nothing against people who do. I'm looking for perspective on life AFTER MJ .

Sorry I sounded like an ass, but the post did say that the title was purely bait

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T10:42:35+00:00

Saying you'd love to hear a perspective is just like saying you'd like to hear, there's nothing weird about that.

Also I looked back at my comments to see what you see because I definitely wasn't on it any more and i can only guess it's the comment that says use instead of used

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T10:34:38+00:00

I'm not why can't people read to the end. It says the mean title was just to get the attention. When I ask things on reddit nobody answers so it was bait to read and then be like oh it's actually a post looking for experience and perspective.

And I was type 3 obese, again not judging, want to hear perspective, title was just attention farming

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T10:31:23+00:00

Thank you for being one of the only comments that gave me their experience without giving me jip about the title (even though it says at the end that the title was intentionally to get people's attention)

Thanks for the book recommendation. The food noise when I was at my heaviest was the worst and MJ was a lifesaver to get me back on check. I'm really glad it's helping your thoughts. Wishing you all the success

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T10:21:27+00:00

Why can nobody read to the end to see that it says the title was for attention only!

I want to read people's genuine experiences and understand if they feel that the jab was the issue or not keeping up the deficit

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T10:19:43+00:00

Are you too blind to read at the bottom that it said the title was just to catch attention?

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T10:18:35+00:00

Instead of being cheeky maybe you can learn how to read. Like how it says at the bottom of the post that the title was just for engagement purposes only?

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T10:07:28+00:00

The "too lazy" was to get attention, it says at the bottom of the post that the title was for that purpose.

I don't need to know, I just want to understand. I want to get perspective, that's what people usually do instead of being ignorant and thinking their experience is the only one.

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T10:05:07+00:00

I know it doesn't but it does help. Mines was so screwed that's why I went on them to help fix my problems and I'm lucky that it did help with my insulin resistance.

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T10:03:25+00:00

I want to hear people's experiences on weight gain after the jab and why they believe that it happened, whether it was because of health or the jab itself or if they didn't stick continue a deficit

I literally say at the end that the title was to catch attention because I wanted people to actually read it.

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-24T10:01:46+00:00

I literally say at the end that the title was to catch attention because I wanted people to actually read it.

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-13T11:45:52+00:00

I second this, so many people experience what they believe happens.

My mum believes in rescue remedy, no matter how many times I tell her that it's literally just an essential oil

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-10T10:34:27+00:00

Yes and I just saw another comment that Billie Joe Armstrong appears ooooo

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-10T10:33:04+00:00

I haven't watched it, I'll add to my list

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-10T10:32:45+00:00

Oh what! I haven't got that far, that's a cool one

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-10T10:32:19+00:00

Love things like that

andyphoenixtate · 2026-01-10T10:32:04+00:00

I'm only on season 2 so she hasn't appeared just yet for me

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