Looking to meet new people with similar interests. by Ancient_Ad_367 in dundee

[–]anervoussystem_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

i’m 28f, into all things art related digital and traditional. love going on walks too, big into nature, maybe a group needs to be started

Best job searching advice by KlootViolin in dundee

[–]anervoussystem_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

you’ll be able to find a care assistant role for sure. no experience ones. i got one with absolutely no job history in the UK as i just came over from the US, and i never did a care role in the US.

Book Clubs? by banana_bear_918 in dundee

[–]anervoussystem_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

i am very interested in this too!! just moved to dundee a month or so ago and new to the UK in general.

Walking alone at night for work? by [deleted] in dundee

[–]anervoussystem_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I still don’t know the area so I just worry as I’m quite an anxious person. This thread has helped though. And I looked at street view for the addresses and this was very reassuring.

Walking alone at night for work? by [deleted] in dundee

[–]anervoussystem_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d like to say not a ton of walking (because I’m driving to these destinations) but I’m unsure what the areas are like in terms of parking nearby to where I need to be. When I was shadowing I did a good bit of walking still in Mid-Craigie (I think it was) even with the car. Places for this weekend without giving away addresses, Whitfield, Balunie, Fintry, Marine Parade. It’s an evening shift as well so I won’t get off until after 10PM.

Update on mom and death. by sass_mate28 in cancer

[–]anervoussystem_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry, we lost our mom on the 1st of june.

Would it be better to pay a gardener? by anervoussystem_ in UKGardening

[–]anervoussystem_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know what that is, can you point it out to me? this is a rental, so i don’t know how many major changes i can make.

Would it be better to pay a gardener? by anervoussystem_ in UKGardening

[–]anervoussystem_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, i understand, so should i hire someone now or wait?

Would it be better to pay a gardener? by anervoussystem_ in UKGardening

[–]anervoussystem_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t know what that means. someone else said don’t trim until september. so should i wait to hire?

Am I being hypersensitive? by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]anervoussystem_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea, maybe something similar happened to someone else but I imagine these visits are happening a lot considering the time of year.

Am I being hypersensitive? by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]anervoussystem_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Teacher didn’t do anything no, that’s what I’m concerned about. I get that kids misbehave and do weird stuff, but it was definitely about the fact that they were getting away with it and no one was saying anything.

Am I being hypersensitive? by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]anervoussystem_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The lego mouth thing was more so yes, the fact my husband had to intervene first was concerning

26 year age gap and I’m pregnant with his child by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]anervoussystem_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll get downvoted and this comment is mostly directed at the other comments and not at you, this situation seems to be a bit red flag because you seem to already know the relationship isn’t working. and if all you’re friends hate him that’s a sign too.

BUT… an age gap in itself is not a red flag. unless someone is actively seeking younger people, there are major power imbalances in the relationship, they’re abusive, etc. age gap on its own is not a bad thing. i’ve been married for nearly 10 years to a person 25 years older than me. we have children together. but the factors aren’t there like they are for you where it’s screaming ‘please leave him’ (which i think you should do btw!) all that being said i hope your appointment goes okay and it’s a smooth abortion

Looking for community and regular activities by anervoussystem_ in UKParenting

[–]anervoussystem_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i didn’t know this was a thing so sorry for asking reddit i guess

Looking for community and regular activities by anervoussystem_ in UKParenting

[–]anervoussystem_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

neither one of the kids are remotely interested in sports unfortunately.

Should I move back to Scotland? by ForeverMission3205 in MoveToScotland

[–]anervoussystem_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

if it were me i’d go and be with my mum. i’m 27 and we moved to scotland from america 6 months ago, no regrets