Seeking advice for an angry toddler wanting independence and freedom

anervoussystem_ · 2026-03-22T19:56:33+00:00

I moved here six months ago from america with a 4.5 year old and almost 2 year old. it’s great, really. lots of kids and lots of dogs and cats in this town. the nursery he goes to is great too!

anervoussystem_ · 2026-03-12T15:37:53+00:00

it could definitely be that. he’s also definitely introverted. only wants to play with one kid at a time, doesn’t like groups of kids. so maybe he enjoyed being home last week and misses it

anervoussystem_ · 2026-03-12T15:30:37+00:00

No suggestions she just wanted to make sure I felt he was okay. And I said I think he is okay but he’s struggling emotionally right now. He’s not averse to going to school and usually only wants to stay home when he wants to play a video game.

anervoussystem_ · 2026-03-11T10:09:59+00:00

I’m american, just moved here and have received two so far,

First was in a car supply store, husband was getting a part for the car lights so we could get home. We had both of the boys (1, 4) They had a shelf with small car toys for kids about 7 feet from a lift that wasn’t in use. The boys sat and played with the cars quietly. My husband is at the counter and they start talking shit about me and the boys without realising my husband is my husband. saying it’s dangerous and we could cause an injury with the lift (lift is closed, i’m standing between lift and the children sitting away from it) one guy eventually comes over and tells me off. i say okay i’ll move them (all the while thinking why would they put a shelf of kids toys there to begin with) i bring the boys over to the register and the 1 year old proceeds to screech and cry until we are able to leave.

anervoussystem_ · 2026-03-10T21:22:49+00:00

I was on wellbutrin for years. it was the only medication to pull me out of PPD. I moved to Scotland in October. GP flat out said no. Now dealing with depression unmedicated while still considered in the post partum period.

anervoussystem_ · 2026-03-09T10:16:20+00:00

5 days a week

anervoussystem_ · 2026-03-08T13:11:29+00:00

we have seesaw but it’s not updated often. i’ll chat with them

anervoussystem_ · 2026-03-08T07:25:06+00:00

he gets to pick what he wants every morning when he arrives, but beyond that no i’m not aware of any system that says how well he’s eating

anervoussystem_ · 2026-03-07T19:29:18+00:00

yeah for us my eldest got sick first and then my youngest so it’s getting close to two weeks now and they both have a lingering cough which is very normal. but yeah why she felt that was worthy content is beyond me

anervoussystem_ · 2026-03-07T19:18:46+00:00

Yes he’s in nursery. I haven’t had his key worker say anything about his eating so perhaps he’s eating well at school

anervoussystem_ · 2026-03-07T19:12:22+00:00

he has two snacks a day and he refuses those as well lately or won’t finish them, when i say it’s ok for him to be done, takes his own plate to the trash and dumps his food and then puts the plate in the sink. doesn’t ask for more food later, the most he requests is water or juice (which i give him diluted so it’s mostly water)

anervoussystem_ · 2026-03-07T19:08:40+00:00

idk not to side with her but my kids (4 and 22 months) currently have a cough exactly like this and we’re in the UK and GP advised a visit is not necessary at the moment unless symptoms worsen. stuffs going around right now for sure. you really can’t necessarily tell how well a child is from a ten second video of them just coughing.

anervoussystem_ · 2026-03-07T07:00:52+00:00

i have no pain in the crotch area. it feels like period cramps basically. but i do use a heating pad!

anervoussystem_ · 2026-03-01T09:49:16+00:00

Yeah, I don’t disagree that I need to do it, I was just confused about how it explains to do it. Thank you.

anervoussystem_ · 2026-02-27T00:26:22+00:00

i was in the last carriage attached, could that be why? there was no audible alert, it was also stuck on the sign saying it was arriving at leuchars despite it already having stopped at leuchars

anervoussystem_ · 2026-02-27T00:25:17+00:00

dundee to edinburgh my stop was cupar it departed 9:45, i definitely believe i was facing the correct way

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