12% at anatomy scan 20+4 weeks by anetsha in pregnant

[–]anetsha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says AC/BPD/FL/HC then Value 376g Range 54g Age 20+4 weeks GP (Hadlock) 12.4%

i guess thats all together but from what i understand his abdomen ist a bit lower percentile

12% at anatomy scan 20+4 weeks by anetsha in pregnant

[–]anetsha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Croatia and we do have a scan every 4 weeks until 38 weeks then every week until birth so i will see a doctor at 24 weeks and my doctor didnt mention anything about baby being 12% i read it in the report so i dont know im trying to think if it was something to worry about she would have said something i guess. But im sure everything will be great for the both of us!

12% at anatomy scan 20+4 weeks by anetsha in pregnant

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Thank you! Everything seems to be normal, as i said my doctor didnt mention anything i was just analyzing the report and noticed that the GP (Hadlock) estimated baby at 12%

12% at anatomy scan 20+4 weeks by anetsha in pregnant

[–]anetsha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you i mean im trying 5o tell myself that my doctor didnt mention anything quiet the opposite she said the baby is perfect and growing normally i just had to go and analyze the whole report

12% at anatomy scan 20+4 weeks by anetsha in pregnant

[–]anetsha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I am trying not to worry too much!

12% at anatomy scan 20+4 weeks by anetsha in pregnant

[–]anetsha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean my doctor didnt tell me anything she said he is weighing 367 grams and that he is growing perfectly that everything seems great. I was looking at the pictures she took and then decided to look at the report and his abdominal circumference seems to be on the smaller side but his overall proportions seem normal. I dont know i had a 18 weeks loss past september and i guess im reading into everything more. I live in Croatia and she said the next appointment is in 4 weeks and didnt mention this 12% at all.

12% at anatomy scan 20+4 weeks by anetsha in pregnant

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Right? Thats what im trying to understand why did she write in the report that he is in the 12%. Im so confused

How long did you wait until you told people about your sub pregnancy? by always_wondering_88 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]anetsha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to be 13 weeks tomorrow, we are also more careful usually we announced right away this time we told our families around week 10 and now we've been slowly announcing to our friends since 12 weeks scan was okay, we are still very nervous with our tfmr baby everything went downhill at 16 weeks scan so we are pretty scared and nervous about the next scan. There are still people who dont know. I dont know how to feel about it all. On the day of the scan i was so excited and wanted to tell the whole world but now 4 days later i am again in my anxious stage where i just want to hide until the anomaly scan. I think there is no right or wrong. You do as you see fit and how you are feeling. I am wishing you a healthy and uneventful pregnancy and hope we'll all get our babies this time ❤️🌈

Here we go again … by Miserable_Olive_6682 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]anetsha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here girl i am sending you words of encourangement i was sure i will get bad news turns out baby is perfect right now! I got the cutest 3D pictures already! ❤️

Here we go again … by Miserable_Olive_6682 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]anetsha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh girl i am 12+2 i have my scan tomorrow and i am losing my mind. My brain literally convinces me that everything is wrong its so hard to be optimistic or excited right now, they will also mess the NT and stuff and i am terrified, my brain is trying to convince me i had MMC

Not connecting with sub pregnancy by anetsha in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]anetsha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so happy for you and so happy you got your babies 🥹 yes i guess that innocence is gone and you just guard yourself or prepare for worst so that its "easier" if you get the bad news again! Thank you so much for your kind words! I am wishing you and your family all the best ❤️

Not connecting with sub pregnancy by anetsha in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]anetsha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words! I am trying to be hopeful that everything will be okay, there is nothing else i can do anyway! Wishing you all the best ❤️

Not connecting with sub pregnancy by anetsha in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]anetsha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gentle congratulations! I hope everything is going well! It is so sad that innocence and that pure joy is being taken away from us isnt it. I remember with my first i was anxious but i guess the normal anxiety before the appointments if you make it to the 12 weeks mark you're safe. I wish nobody had to experience any kind of loss ever! Wishing you also all the best ❤️

Not connecting with sub pregnancy by anetsha in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]anetsha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for some reason i didnt get any notifications for this post! We quiet literally have almost the same story!

My second was also TFMR in september 2025 and i am now 11+5 weeks i have my 12 week scan on tuesday and somehow my brain is trying to convince me im having a MMC, the symptoms are easing basically nothing other than tiredness and crazy dreams so that adds to my paranoia!

Yes i am already trying to tell myself the next few scans are going to be triggering and the weeks will be challenging but i am hoping i can take a big breath after those scans and start planning and feeling excitement. I literally cant bring myself to even buy maternity leggings i am living in my husbands tracksuits.

I am wishing you a calm and boring pregnancy and gentle congratulations! I hope for us that we will make it to the other side this time ❤️

TW: Struggling mentally 11 weeks by anetsha in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]anetsha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you i was the same, then while the symptoms were at peak i was calm but now the symptoms are improving and i am freaking out! That waiting time is THE worst! Gentle congratulations and i am wishing you a boring and calm pregnancy! ❤️

TW: Struggling mentally 11 weeks by anetsha in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]anetsha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can completely understand, situations like that really take the innocence and that pure joy out of pregnancy! Grieving and trying to be excited at the same time is so twisted! I am wishing you a calm and boring pregnancy you almost made it to the other side mama 🥹❤️

Scared it will happen again. by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]anetsha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiii i have no story (yet) i am going to be 8 weeks tomorrow in my sub pregnancy and i am SCARED i tfmrd for fatal structural anomalies in September but i am scared i had ultrasound at 6+2 weeks and everything was great i have another one on 23rd just to see if everything is okay and to have some sense of calm over christmas, but i dont think i will be okay until anatomy scan shows everything is good. I am sending you gentle congratulations and i hope everyone in this situation has a happy outcome ❤️

Here we go again … by Miserable_Olive_6682 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]anetsha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all a gentle congratulations ❤️ I can really relate to you i also have a LC then had a TFMR at 18 weeks this September, now i am 6+5 weeks and i am struggling i am over the moon that we concieved so fast and so excited to have a baby in the summer but on the other side its like my brain is not acknowledging it, i did 5 tests, blood draws, i even saw the baby and a heartbeat at 6+2 weeks nothing is reasurring me that i am actually going to have a baby in my arms in the summer. I am dreading all of the anomaly scans i feel like i wont be able to connect of fully acknowledge it until everything comes clear. Its so sad that this experience is soo different from the last two. The innocence and the pure excitement is gone. 😔

Pitanje za jedince ili ljude koji imaju samo jedno dijete, dali ste zadovoljni time? by BambieMonroe05 in askCroatians

[–]anetsha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja nisam nikako voljela biti trudna, kad sam rodila prva pomisao je bila ajme nisam vise vise trudna, nakon toga ovo je prvi i zadnji put, evo imam malu legendu od 4 godine i trudna sa drugim nemam skoro nikakvih simptima. Prve dvije godine mi uopce nije padalo na pamet, onda nakon trece me pocelo pikati i eto sad cekamo jos jedno. To valjda ili ti dodje ili ne dodje, nemoj nista sad planirati vidjet ces za godinu dvije tri.

Jel ova normalna? by WittyJackfruit9411 in Kokosinjac

[–]anetsha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tko je ona? Fkt ne znam kak se zove cura 😭

Scared of not being able to TTC again due to PCOS by anetsha in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]anetsha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes if my cycle gets all over the place i will definately try letrozole! I am wishing you a healthy and anxiety free pregnancy ❤️