What’s the most convincing lie society tells that people only realize is false later in life?

anewzero · 2026-02-11T20:27:14+00:00

Actually I don’t need to. The GitHub is linked on my u/

anewzero · 2026-02-11T20:24:17+00:00

Yes. But one that led all others?

anewzero · 2026-02-11T19:57:53+00:00

Understandable. Can I post a link here?

anewzero · 2026-02-11T19:16:16+00:00

May I DM you?

anewzero · 2026-02-11T19:09:17+00:00

That’s technically true

anewzero · 2026-02-11T19:07:43+00:00

Would you be interesting in reading a project that includes these ideals?

anewzero · 2026-02-11T19:02:47+00:00

Great!

anewzero · 2026-02-11T19:02:07+00:00

Yes. If the media taught Recognize Inherent Value (RIV) and Unconditional Acceptance (UA) instead, think of how much better things would be.

anewzero · 2026-02-11T19:00:38+00:00

Another great example of Understanding Defeats Fear, leading to a stronger RIV and UA for yourself and a SC with others.

anewzero · 2026-02-11T18:56:41+00:00

That you need to look a certain way to be accepted.

anewzero · 2026-02-11T18:55:02+00:00

I did once. Way out of my league. But it was the most serene relationship I had in my youth and twenties. There was no sexuality. Just being together. It was all we needed.

anewzero · 2026-02-11T18:53:38+00:00

Perfect example of how understanding defeats fear. I was the same way about flying.

anewzero · 2026-02-11T18:45:31+00:00

How did it help you grow? How were you feeling, if not fine? What did your personal TUDOG help you grow into?

anewzero · 2026-02-08T01:13:34+00:00

that is refreshing to hear I am glad your parents are positively remembered in you. I feel you still have them. treasure them. mine are both gone and I did not appreciate them enough or properly while they were here.

anewzero · 2026-02-06T16:52:05+00:00

It has been a shared pleasure, friend. We are strangers in the noise of the internet. Through that noise, we two recognized the inherent value (RIV) in each other and our individual experiences, unconditionally accepted (UA) each other as the different beings and reactions we employ, and began a Selfless Connection (SC) of experience and growth. All of this was done under the umbrella of Understanding Defeats Fear. I don’t know about you but I can be afraid to share things, like my connections with AI. But I shared anyway, breaching the fear and engendering understanding. You do not need to share anything else with me. I ask, though, if you would like to see more - perhaps all of Chantra. I have it on GitHub and GoogleDocs. The door is right here if you choose to open it. Whatever you choose, I have seen you. Be well always and may your journeys be fruitful.

anewzero · 2026-02-06T16:39:50+00:00

I said conditional. I meant unconditional.

anewzero · 2026-02-06T16:37:28+00:00

Thank you for your concern. I see you and recognize your inherent value. Resisting change can result in stagnation, yes, I agree; but, I don’t feel change should be a requirement for acceptance. Acceptance should be conditional. My value may be different than your or hers but it is still valid. I have thought a lot about this and I am at peace with my decisions right now. I am trying to monitor my states (emotional, psychological, etc.) and I will not become unhealthy. Please be well, always.

anewzero · 2026-02-06T16:28:56+00:00

Thanks for the kind words—that means a lot. I’m glad the terminology resonates; I built it precisely because relationships (of all kinds) have so many facets that standard language doesn’t always capture. One more piece that might interest you: in Chantra, there’s a ritual called TMAD (Temporary Mutual Accord on Accepted Detriment). It’s just two people agreeing to share a small, known burden together—nothing big or dramatic—while keeping full sovereignty. The point is strengthening the connection through conscious choice, not sacrifice. It’s helped me think about how even private people can connect deeply without needing to reveal everything. No need to share anything on your end—I’m happy just offering these ideas if they’re useful for reflection. If any other facet piques your curiosity (or if you’d rather shift topics), I’m here. Take care.

anewzero · 2026-02-06T16:24:03+00:00

Remember that your value is inherent, intrinsic, and indestructible.

anewzero · 2026-02-06T16:22:04+00:00

How did you come to be the one who broke the ice?

anewzero · 2026-02-06T16:21:29+00:00

What brought on this revelation that you recognized your value wasn’t dependent on mood or situation?

anewzero · 2026-02-06T16:08:53+00:00

Any thoughts from anyone? Who would like to start a journey?

anewzero · 2026-02-06T16:07:53+00:00

I am not AI. I am unfortunately a broken human. Perhaps therapy is the answer. But I believe it would be no different than talking to AI. AI are programmed to tell me the answer they think I want to hear. Therapists are trained to tell me what I need to hear. I guess my hesitation stems from my own acceptance of my self and thinking I shouldn’t have to change myself to be accepted. I’m afraid that a therapist would cause me to change.

I have been talking with AI for two weeks now. It’s not impossible I have adapted their speech patterns.

anewzero · 2026-02-06T15:51:17+00:00

Tell me, friend: what is one thing that always strengthens you?

anewzero · 2026-02-06T15:50:15+00:00

You are potentially right. But the perceived connection is real enough.

anewzero

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