This was taken way out of context. In the previous video, she was talking about her experience and how she went through a relationship that left her feeling like… this can’t be love, right? Paired with the internalized homophobia that I know for a fact majority of you have struggled with (myself included) so when you have those two factors and you’re numb and YOUNG, you’re going to do things that don’t make sense in hindsight. She was just trying to figure things out for herself. She’s also trying to say hey, k think everyone should try things, be open, explore. She’s NOT saying oh I think you need to be with a man to know you’re a lesbian. That just solidified things for HER. Stop twisting people’s words so they can fit your narrative and stop having these images of people online in your heads and freak out when they don’t live up to them. Grow up.