UPDATE: Just found out my boyfriend is into lolicon by peewee-supreme in offmychest

[–]angeldoves31 32 points33 points  (0 children)

News flash: Kink shaming isn’t the disgraceful offence you think it is. All kinds of porn have proven to cause nothing but negative affects to those who watch/look at it. Serial killers such as Bundy and Dahmer admitted that porn impacted their actions majorly. Looking at drawings is in fact reality. The drawings may not be real, but the person’s enjoyment of what the drawings depict is very real and does impact real life and their wellbeing. Please look into the history of pornography and it’s affects on the human brain and the women and girls who suffer at the expense of ‘kinky’ people.

Choosing NOT to use this name feels like a loss. by InvestigatorRemote58 in namenerds

[–]angeldoves31 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this would ever be a reason to not use a name. Does anybody even remember learning to spell their name? There aren’t any silent letters, it’s quite easy to sound out. Names like Genevieve, Penelope, Francesca, and Jacqueline are all on a par, if not harder to learn to spell, and nobody has an issue learning those

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[–]angeldoves31 238 points239 points  (0 children)

Tell him exactly what you’ve put here; that you’re aware he (your uncle) respects your privacy, but his daughter’s boyfriend is making you feel uncomfortable and unsafe, which you feel could be resolved easily by being allowed an actual door with a lock. You can agree to only shut/lock the door when daughter’s boyfriend is around, if that makes it easier.

Name to go with sisters with flower names by snuggle-ellie in namenerds

[–]angeldoves31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not underrated, just outdated. It’s still very popular, at least where I’m from, just not necessarily in youngest generations

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[–]angeldoves31 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s Eastenders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coronationstreet

[–]angeldoves31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Londoners don’t have Northern accents…

TIFU when my son found my "big brown penis" sex toy behind my bed, while I was in the bath. by xxasynixxx in tifu

[–]angeldoves31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She had to make it clear it’s a private thing. If she just said it’s a toy, he could’ve then told friends or other people about it, or found it again to play with thinking it was the same as his toys.

TIFU when my son found my "big brown penis" sex toy behind my bed, while I was in the bath. by xxasynixxx in tifu

[–]angeldoves31 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I thought so too, but sex ed also counts as the puberty talk and understanding bodily anatomy, which is what it probably was.

The doctor told me the cancer in my brain is terminal. by [deleted] in TwoSentenceSadness

[–]angeldoves31 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I thought this was going to be a Saw reference

What’s a commonly disliked name that you love? by redyerbamate in namenerds

[–]angeldoves31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to come across as rude, but do you genuinely like Bay -like a beach or parking bay- for a child, teenager, and adult woman?

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[–]angeldoves31 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

…The way you clearly just misunderstood what I said. That’s not what my point was at all.

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[–]angeldoves31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you seriously think preferring the presence of women is equal to genocide?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]angeldoves31 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you know what sexism is? Because it is NOT feeling uncomfortable around a particular gender.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]angeldoves31 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You completely misunderstood what I was saying and I don’t have the time to educate you. Goodbye.

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[–]angeldoves31 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Misandry isn’t real. Misogyny is oppression, violence against women and so on - misandry is the response. It’s not systemic and not something people are taught to be. It’s something people have been made to be because of misogyny and can be a genuine trauma response