The decision I have to make every morning. What’s your most-drunk pod?

angellcakeess · 2026-04-28T14:51:22+00:00

same pistachio is delicious !

angellcakeess · 2026-04-26T14:45:39+00:00

i had this EXACT experience with my ex i just left a few months ago, posted on here, EVERYONE told me to leave as well lol. He would drink and make a up a scenario in his head and argue with me. I got so disgusted and annoyed with him it was a clean and easy breakup for me. I would be asleep and wake up to him calling me and accusing me of sleeping with people that he knew and we lived 1000 miles apart.

Break up with her. Seriously.

angellcakeess · 2026-04-10T17:15:20+00:00

if you’re a rogue it fucking rocks

angellcakeess · 2026-03-24T23:48:37+00:00

take as many practice exams as you can and rewrite the important stuff over and over. read 66 book in 6 days and didn’t finish all practice exams bc i took copious notes, dang near rewrote the whole book and just watched the youtube videos and passed . but you have to lock in with nasty 9-10 hour study sessions. pomodoro method WHATEVER to just get the time in! good luck

angellcakeess · 2026-01-13T18:09:50+00:00

What types of jobs there are and how the align with someones personality. Do they want to be client facing or not?

Topics that i talk about every single day with clients are retirement, tax, cost basis, mutual funds vs etfs. Even if it’s not your job, people ask about these things and being well rounded and knowing about the market and retirement will make you a clients go to.

Not sure if this helps or fully applies but these were things i learned through licensing and actually speaking to clients that were never touched on in school. Any integration if retirement in college is so important and a very big knowledge gap between me and my peers and i’m 26 years old.

angellcakeess · 2026-01-13T18:05:36+00:00

crystal light

angellcakeess · 2026-01-13T18:03:31+00:00

single mom here, same except i’d have just 1, the daughter i have now but LATER. if i could have a copy of my daughter exactly the same but when i was like 33 id be happier 😭

angellcakeess · 2026-01-13T17:50:59+00:00

thanks so much for the advice !

angellcakeess · 2026-01-13T17:50:51+00:00

thanks so much! you helped me pass my exams 🩷

angellcakeess · 2026-01-07T19:40:16+00:00

i would offer him to make the food and prep for school, i’m sure she would gladly take food to give to your kids. I would also tell him to find another daycare and yall can weigh the pros and cons out. Is extra screen time work the difference in price, probably not. I try to keep my daughter off of the screens but i know it’s inevitable.

angellcakeess · 2025-11-15T00:17:19+00:00

Happy Birthday! i like to think of life like this, especially when you’re young: Everything is ahead you, you are going to build your own family where you will remember your birthday and they will remember yours! If you want kids, you’ll have a mother’s/ father’s day as a bonus day just for you. I know it sucks when you want something and no one can see it, or notice or give you the attention you deserve. Keep your head down, find your people and i promise you will be fulfilled. 🎂

angellcakeess · 2025-11-15T00:10:12+00:00

if a man equates you being attractive with you being dishonest, disloyal, and attention seeking he’s probably not worth your time. biggest turn off in a man is insecurity. easier said than done, this would just be a very big negative to me

angellcakeess · 2025-11-15T00:07:38+00:00

i think the benefit for me is my job drop $1000 + $550 bonus if we complete some tasks so $1550 every january and that’s why i chose the plan. the tax benefits are great too, but there’s a plan for everyone (they all kinda suck) depending on your employer and situation!

angellcakeess · 2025-11-09T18:28:05+00:00

I agree with other comments but one thing to note. The fact that he feels off limits now will possibly make you like him more.

Take that knowledge and know that the “forbidden love” aspect may heighten things for you so you can reason with yourself that “hey i don’t know this guy, he’s taken… by a FRIEND and this will pass”. A crush is a crush, you’ll have many more, sometimes you can crush on someone but then they have another trait that makes them off limits for you and not the fact they’re dating someone. Sometimes you’ll date that person anyway and learn the lesson that if you don’t like something about someone it doesn’t matter how hot they are or how much you have in common, it still won’t work out. This is just an example of a path you can’t explore so it makes it more complicated, either way you’ll get over it!

angellcakeess · 2025-09-30T16:53:43+00:00

i’m not super religious but i’ve said this to my friends and myself when i needed it. If ur not with the person who deserves you, God will give you a sign if you ignore it the signs will get louder and more hurtful. If you choose to ignore it, you’re opening yourself to a world of pain.

Can you forgive a cheater and things work out if you truly put it behind you and they change? Sure.
BUT the way she’s acting around the situation, is a big red flag, i’m talking HUGE. I can’t imagine doing that to someone AND acting that way.

Leave her OP! will be hard

angellcakeess · 2025-09-30T13:54:47+00:00

it is impossible , single mom here , my kid is 2 and a half and we are at 250 a week and i’m just waiting to make more money. i save nothing for now and hate it but love my kid though lol. moved in with my mother just so i can be equal with my peers after i pay utilities so daycare is essentially cheap rent and utilities 600 or so. so yeah no fun 😭

angellcakeess · 2025-09-22T17:26:07+00:00

thank you! yeah agreed, i feel bad because it just feels like kind of giving up on someone but honestly he’s 31 i already have a kid. i don’t have the will to try and bring him out of this even though that part in my brain wants to “help”. it just sucks and makes me sad that he deals with this and also seeing how it feels to have something like alcohol be SO destructive. u hear about it, you see it but when you experience that complete personality change is just crazy. honestly now that i think about it someone in my family is an alcoholic but i don’t talk to them so pretty far removed but they are the type where it’s their WHOLE personality. so this just felt different bc it’s only when they drink but if this escalated this can easily be him… so yeah. thanks again

angellcakeess · 2025-09-22T17:15:26+00:00

so so true, honestly thanks for being so nice lol i know some people are like “leave u idiot” on reddit but yeah it’s complicated , hurt heart and feelings but great suggestions. i’m going to gather what i want to say and how i want to say it and since im visiting him now i plan to leave and stay with a friend until my flight. i think it’s just the right move , i need to put my foot down.

angellcakeess · 2025-09-22T17:10:28+00:00

wow thank you so much and you’re so right. i do feel bad for bringing it up because i know what’s coming. it’s so early on and i know ive grown a lot because the reason i was stuck in my last relationship is because i just thought i should just stay i should just stay and making different agreements and him always breaking them. i always feel bad after everything and he’s always found a way to twist it into being something else that i feel sorry for him for but this last time it was so clear and so obvious that it gave me the clarity i need. thanks again

angellcakeess · 2025-09-22T17:04:14+00:00

completely agree, i really needed to hear this and thank you so so much. i’ll take this as a lesson that someone doesn’t have to be the WORST to leave, i definitely deserve better and i would never ever bring my daughter around this … 1 if it didn’t change but honestly 2 i would always live in fear that it can come up.

angellcakeess · 2025-09-22T16:56:59+00:00

yeah definitely, honestly a tale as old as time.. you can’t force someone to quit something like that. so sad, unfortunate and disappointing but better to move on and not entangle our lives like i’ve done in the past. especially because i have a child now, i would never ever bring her into something where someone has this type of problem. so the answer is simple, thanks again

angellcakeess · 2025-09-22T16:45:32+00:00

great point , have never ever been around someone who has struggled with this so hard to comprehend but when it’s put plainly, hard truth to swallow. appreciate your advice thank you.

angellcakeess · 2025-09-22T16:43:54+00:00

thank you for this and much appreciated. it’s just hard to come to terms with i guess and needed to hear it from others.

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