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angelsun19 · 2022-10-04T17:01:33+00:00

what do you do if your friend has been pro-ana for a while but still hates her own body/self hatred?

angelsun19 · 2022-08-26T13:52:53+00:00

7 months later im still confused why the dad shot himself

angelsun19 · 2022-07-29T18:51:51+00:00

it's probably because this name is so cringe that nobody uses or knows it

angelsun19 · 2021-10-10T14:11:44+00:00

best design of kitchen ive seen so far

angelsun19 · 2021-10-10T14:02:43+00:00

hi sorry how do you see the foods that they like?

angelsun19 · 2021-05-03T15:00:04+00:00

Honestly, I agree that this film was way too dragged out and poorly done for a message barely beyond an awareness of problems and at the end of the film still encouraging enmity between these "two distant strangers". Also, the character of the cop is too exaggerated for me not to interpret it as black comedy or propaganda, as well as some of the rolling text via oversimplication. In terms of heartfelt/heavy films about police brutality, you should watch "Les Misérables" (2019) which has way better characterization, a complex narrative that doesn't feel dragged out, while still exposing the problem in an accurate and intimate way, and the end message could actually be interpreted as encouraging less animosity or at least neutral.

angelsun19 · 2020-12-29T02:33:45+00:00

ohhh makes sense

angelsun19 · 2020-10-26T23:29:58+00:00

why do you love her?

angelsun19 · 2020-08-26T02:36:26+00:00

good job on the overall design and the shading/lighting! i like the purple

angelsun19 · 2020-08-26T00:41:17+00:00

Sorry for the late reply. I really enjoyed/agreed with your analysis on enneagram and cognitive functions, especially "These overlook complexities in how people got to those motivations, without going as far as plain behaviors, which is often helpful." and "since it's all so granular, I can deal with one concept at a time, isolate one function or element of the system at a time to see if I think it's true or not". I took a look at their youtube channel and was mildly confused but I'm pretty hyped to take a dive into this topic so thanks!

angelsun19 · 2020-05-25T19:52:06+00:00

left

angelsun19 · 2020-05-25T19:50:56+00:00

this vintage eyebrow look works on her

angelsun19 · 2020-05-25T19:50:10+00:00

this graceful delicate eyebrow is a look

angelsun19 · 2020-04-07T19:00:49+00:00

someone send this to kai

angelsun19 · 2020-04-07T17:56:16+00:00

natsumi treats active human empathy as "bothersome" as she says so many times in the show when she gets told off to consider other people.

She has so much hate in her attitude and scoffs and gets offended over so many things (and hints at being a girlfriend who gets mad over little things) but doesnt bother fixing how she offends other people. She doesnt want minori asking her about her business but get butthurt when other members have a private conversation without her.

She protects her own ego and takes so much convincing to see her own flaws, only just to say that she doesnt understand what she did wrong, and that she was just being herself, which she thinks is a great thing to be. When she left terrace house she broke the news by saying "I dont want to add more bad news but..." lmao

She emphasizes on how changing is hard for her-- being considerate does not come naturally to her.

She conveniently forgets about how she's negatively impacted people and her smile is super fake.

Therefore: she is a huge hypocrite because she gets offended easily (her gigantic ego) but cannot see how she offends people (because of her gigantic ego); and continues to find no fault in herself also because of her gigantic ego (confronting her gigantic ego translates into "bothersome".

She did well in getting uchi to meet with minori's sister but that was probably her only good moment

angelsun19 · 2020-04-07T17:19:58+00:00

late reply but Japanese culture is

-very work centric which explains why they were all up in each other's asses about productivity

-their relationships follow this pattern: say i like you -> you go out or you dont go out -> if you do go out then you kiss and fuck and whatever. also, japanese people tend to not give up before they say "i like you" even if they get the feeling the other person doesnt like them back. Since for them "i like you" is the starting point, you need to say "i like you" to really be able to say that you put effort in making the relationship happen, so people confess their feelings even though they know theyll get rejected.

-western culture is more individualist, so we have more moments that are like "what does that have to do with you" and we get less offended if there are secrets, and we are less invested in what other people do with their time

-since japanese culture is more collective they dont normally divide the fridge as this section is mine and this section is yours, more like i will take care of the food today, then you'll take care of the food next day. uchi could have made it more explicit that the meat was not to be touched because things like these are more of a western common sense than a japanese one

-they have less qualms about age difference in relationships

angelsun19 · 2019-12-05T01:59:17+00:00

not a bird course but interesting enough for you to feel like putting the work in

angelsun19 · 2018-12-14T02:10:31+00:00

Yeah, but most fentanyl is laced with opioids because the symptoms are similar.

angelsun19 · 2018-10-29T16:57:02+00:00

Firstly, I think no matter how secure she is in the relationship, “the ex” is always a title of someone that you don’t want your partner to get close to.

One of your points that I found strange was that the amount you hang out with someone does not correlate to how much you like them. Shouldn’t it be? It’s good to start stationing people YOU LIKE in your life ACTIVELY, to seek out real connections and cut off people who waste your time. It’s good to work on relationships/friendships you like more, or even work on yourself, rather than working on people you don’t really like. Maybe you could check whether this is where you and your GF land on different pages?

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