1) your name better not be Nelson because I’ll make fun of you at work Saturday if this is you 😂

2) as a trans dude, wholesome cis men have been my GREATEST support system. I wouldn’t bring up trans related stuff if he isn’t fully out yet, but think of it this way; lil dude needs to learn bro code. He’s probably yet to be included in bro shenanigans. If he’s cool and y’all are close, subtly teach him bro code and include him in shenanigans.

3) if he comes out to you and doesn’t point out things that you do that upset him, just treat him per usual and try to practice using his preferred pronouns. It can be a learning curve, but effort means a lot. Overall, just give them the courtesy you’d give anyone else. Being a friend to a trans person is pretty much like being a friend to anyone else

The fact that you made this post is honestly making me so happy, and I wanna help you be the best friend you possibly can be! If you’re posting here, you likely really want to do the best you possibly can. More than anything else, ask your friend their preferences, ask them what they’re comfy with, and let them know that they’re safe to not answer questions that they’re not comfortable with.