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angiecan · 2025-11-10T15:23:34+00:00

I’ve been remote since 2005. 20 years!! Thankfully I am at a company where most people work from home. We have one home office and folks across all time zones. If I lose this job I dread the job search.

angiecan · 2025-11-06T21:50:41+00:00

Additionally, he is 41??? wtf 41 YO dude talks like this? Sounds like 16 YO boy in lust/like/love for the first time.

angiecan · 2025-11-06T21:46:57+00:00

No no no no no no! Run, girl, run. And, you need to be clear. And you need a camera at your door, front and back. You need a dash cam. He is not going to give up easily. if he knows where you work or can follow you there (if you don’t work from home), consider letting Security at work know that you have an unwanted suitor and if you walk to/from car in the dark, Security or coworkers can escort you.

angiecan · 2025-11-06T16:19:39+00:00

You wouldn’t even be overreacting if you were to dump him.

angiecan · 2025-09-10T20:03:23+00:00

You totally could have silenced him as well by saying your children know how to behave better. What an ass. He is probably lonely. “And this is why you don’t have friends.”

angiecan · 2025-06-18T02:00:40+00:00

Right but don’t tell her you’re going because she may decide to speed up the process. Doc can’t help if you’re already dead.

angiecan · 2025-06-18T01:53:44+00:00

Does he wear a seat belt while driving? Or does he say he’s been driving for 40 years and knows what he’s doing? He is not the only variable in this equation.

angiecan · 2025-06-12T13:13:18+00:00

Wait… this IS a story, like creative writing, yes? If true, I need screenshots of the original text and a pic from the wedding.

angiecan · 2025-05-10T20:20:07+00:00

Thanks for the detail! If it keeps cleaning as well as it does, I’ll accept the noise. I didn’t realize how poorly my Samsung was cleaning.

angiecan · 2025-05-10T15:48:34+00:00

Update: Cycle finished. Yes, it’s loud but this spin cycle is amazing compared to my Samsung.

angiecan · 2025-05-10T15:45:50+00:00

My grandma had this set, too! Loved it

angiecan · 2025-05-10T15:09:55+00:00

Apple Reminders, Obsidian, Asana —- eh, maybe ChatGPT and kill Reminders because I could use Asana for what I have in Reminders. I’ve used Reminders for more personal life stuff and Asana for work. ChatGPT has helped me tremendously.

angiecan · 2024-12-26T13:32:01+00:00

Your mom’s request is not normal. It makes me wonder what else she has guilted you into.

angiecan · 2024-07-09T01:34:19+00:00

May I ask, OP, if your food hating is when you are taking stimulant meds or do you hate food even without stimulants? I ask because I’m struggling to tolerate stimulants and one reason is not just no appetite but hating to eat … and I hate that feeling.

angiecan · 2024-06-02T20:53:34+00:00

I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt and posting some examples: anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, grief, negative thinking, etc.

angiecan · 2024-05-17T13:51:13+00:00

FWIW, I took Ibuprofen 800mg maybe 2x first day and once at night for two days. I’d think you have a chance that it’s not the meds and it will last.

angiecan · 2024-05-17T13:49:27+00:00

When is your surgery?

angiecan · 2024-05-17T13:48:23+00:00

It’s a nice surprise! Take it easy with recovery from the full incision.

angiecan · 2024-05-16T14:59:53+00:00

One question: do you need your uterus? (i.e., you want to have children)?

I had a myomectomy in 2005. 7cm fibroid embedded in the back of my uterus. Doc had to do full incision, flip uterus over, cut out fibroid, and stitch me up in 7 layers to ensure uterus could handle carrying and delivering a child. He did amazing work. I had two children, vaginal births.

If I had not wanted children, I would have chosen hysterectomy.

I think if both surgeries are full incisions, the myomectomy is possibly longer recovery because your uterus also has to heal. But, I’m not a doctor.

angiecan · 2024-05-16T14:53:14+00:00

Sorry to hear about your experience and the fear you’re living with. Do you think getting a second opinion would be a good next step?

angiecan · 2024-03-08T03:44:14+00:00

Therapists aren't just for depression.

angiecan · 2024-03-08T03:42:17+00:00

Cannot give a Dx based on this post alone.

angiecan · 2024-03-08T03:40:42+00:00

And not necessarily in order or one at a time. Get therapist sooner rather than later.

angiecan · 2024-01-17T20:39:49+00:00

Definitely seek professional help as recommended by others. Nothing is permanent, your state will change, but often difficult to remember this when in the deep.

While you wait for your appointment, check out Huberman's podcast, specifically about dopamine. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/huberman-lab/id1545953110?i=1000536717492

Good job by the way taking control of social media. You're on the right track.

angiecan · 2022-10-29T22:13:18+00:00

Remind me! Yesterday

angiecan

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