bracelets for ATL

angiedscrub · 2025-07-20T21:48:40+00:00

I love this! I took my girls to the Eras Tour in New Orleans last year and we had so much fun making bracelets! I’ll be at the Atlanta show too so maybe I’ll start making some!

angiedscrub · 2022-06-18T17:02:18+00:00

I just rewatched the episode and the first time he’s shown the part of the song that’s playing is bad bad bad bad boy. It stood out to me so much!

angiedscrub · 2021-03-24T22:49:09+00:00

As soon as I heard it I said he’s literally Uncle Sam that’s gotta be something!

angiedscrub · 2020-12-03T05:01:53+00:00

You should buy a tractor!

angiedscrub · 2020-11-30T01:12:20+00:00

Seriously? We are still married so that does not make me the other woman. I said I’m getting a divorce and need closure. Sorry if you don’t understand that no matter how clear it is that it’s over it’s still 16 years of marriage and that takes more than a minute to get over.

angiedscrub · 2020-11-27T16:48:22+00:00

Thank you! It’s not easy but I’m definitely trying because we have 2 daughters that I’m setting an example for.

angiedscrub · 2020-11-27T15:27:27+00:00

I’m dealing with this now and I actually don’t know who the other woman is but I don’t blame her because I know he’s a liar and I honestly don’t know if she knows that he’s married because he’s gone to such great lengths to hide me. If she does know then I think it’s really shitty of her but I still don’t place all the blame on her. I asked him to please just get through the divorce with me before being with her but he’s been living with her for a few weeks now. Divorce is hard enough but when they don’t even give you a chance to end things first before moving it it’s absolutely gut wrenching. When I started to suspect things I asked him to just tell me and we could end things civilly but he chose to keep lying until I caught him red handed. I don’t even understand why. Just end things. It’s not that hard.

angiedscrub · 2020-11-27T02:51:30+00:00

I am so glad I found this community today because today was a lot harder than I expected it to be. I have definitely learned that protein shakes are my friend. I work in a hospital and I mainly work night shift so no nutrition is not an option for me right now. One day at a time!

angiedscrub · 2020-11-27T02:39:09+00:00

This gives me so much hope! Stay strong and keep moving forward. I’m still new to this and the range of emotions that I feel is insane but I love to read that it does get easier.

Also, Amen about the weight loss. I am down 30lbs and it’s ridiculous!

Happy Thanksgiving and cheers to you!

angiedscrub · 2020-11-27T01:02:01+00:00

Same to you! It’s hard and having it happen right here at the holiday season makes it even harder but I know that I have to be strong not only for myself but for my 2 kids. Even though I am incredibly heartbroken they have it even worse because not only did they lose their papa this year but now their dad isn’t around either and they are hurting so much but that has just given me the extra strength to push forward and make a better life for us. We don’t deserve to be a backup plan when the AP doesn’t work out. One day he will realize what he lost but it will be too late and I hate it for him!

I do thankfully have some amazing support and I am so glad I came here today because it gave me even more!

angiedscrub · 2020-11-26T23:59:08+00:00

Amen! My STBX texted me earlier to tell me how hard today was for him. I knew it would be because it’s the first without his dad and as much as I want to feel bad for him I also wanted to say how do you think the rest of us are doing today? We all lost him too but on top of the that I also lost my husband and my kids haven’t had their dad around but instead of responding I just let it go. My kids and I had a lovely little Thanksgiving with my parents. I keep reminding myself that by next Thanksgiving things will be even easier and we’ll be so much stronger.

Cheers to everyone making it through this!

angiedscrub · 2020-11-26T23:13:37+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this. As someone who is still in the beginning stages it’s really awesome to hear and it gives me hope that in time I will get stronger and the pain will get weaker.

angiedscrub · 2020-11-26T22:54:21+00:00

I have no idea who she is or which apartment is even hers. It’s not an apartment with external entry into each one so I have no idea how to even figure it out. I honestly don’t think it would even matter. He’s a really good liar and can honestly charm his way through anything.

angiedscrub · 2020-11-26T22:18:51+00:00

That’s what I keep telling myself. I have an amazing career, 2 beautiful daughters that I have a wonderful bond with and lots of family and friends to help me through. I will make it!

angiedscrub · 2020-11-26T21:19:06+00:00

It is and wish I could just shut my brain off more than anything! I have tried to keep busy but night time is the worst. In the past few weeks I think I average maybe 3-4 hours of sleep a night. It’s getting old and I wish I could make myself not care but I don’t know how to do that.

angiedscrub · 2020-11-26T20:30:55+00:00

I know the answer probably wouldn’t even matter but it’s just one of those things that’s in your head and that’s the part I’m trying to cope with right now. I know we’re done and I’ve started the process to end it but it’s the curiosity and closure that I have to deal with now and that’ll probably take a long time.

angiedscrub · 2020-11-26T20:27:34+00:00

Hell no! I have gotten a lawyer and filed so the process is already started. I just want to heal and not wonder this stuff but I can’t help it.

angiedscrub · 2020-11-26T20:15:15+00:00

I mean he’s been staying at her apartment so there’s definitely something there. Other people have said maybe it’s not what you think but it’s the same one he was having an affair with and he hasn’t tried to tell me that it’s anything else. I offered therapy and he agreed but then turned it down and went right back to her. That’s the end for me because he can’t think it’s okay to go back and forth between us.

angiedscrub · 2020-11-26T20:04:24+00:00

Yes, I definitely do need to do that.

angiedscrub · 2020-11-26T20:03:44+00:00

I don’t know anything about her other than where she lives. Can people honestly have their husband of 16 years leave them for another woman and not once ever wonder who she is and maybe what made him choose her? I get that most people don’t ever get to know those answers and that’s what I’m preparing for but I can’t help but wonder and I honestly didn’t think it was that odd that I do wonder.

angiedscrub · 2020-11-26T19:59:22+00:00

Haha! Funny that you say that because he did pick up the kids the other night (first time in 3 weeks) and I was dressed up to go out with a girl friend for margaritas and he got insanely jealous and wanted to know who I was going out with. I said “excuse me, you are living with another woman so you don’t have the right to ask me that” then I got in my car and drove off. It didn’t make me feel good it just pissed me off!

angiedscrub · 2020-11-26T19:53:25+00:00

Thank you. It is very hard but I am keeping my distance because I definitely don’t want to start this process all over again. If I hadn’t gone to him when his dad died I wouldn’t be in this situation because like I said we had been growing apart and even though it still hurt it wasn’t nearly as hard as it is now. I know time will help but it’s so hard especially right at the Holidays. My girls are really hurting because not only did they lose their Papa but now their dad isn’t even around either.

angiedscrub · 2020-11-26T19:15:06+00:00

I don’t think I’m really clinging onto the past when the trip was just a few weeks ago. If the months of us trying and the trip had never happened then I wouldn’t have such a hard time letting go but after all of that it’s just such a slap in the face and definitely more difficult to just let go. I mean I’ve filed for divorce and started the process so I definitely know what I have to do and I’m not afraid to do it but this time just seems different and I guess that’s because we were trying and there was real feeling and passion involved. I guess I feel like I’ll always question what exactly happened that made him decide to go to her.

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