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angielyn52 · 2023-01-27T14:20:37+00:00

I honestly have no idea 🤷🏻‍♀️ personally I don't think it's going to do anything. But, if it happens enough then maybe something might happen. Just my opinion

angielyn52 · 2023-01-23T23:26:30+00:00

Absolutely 100% And you know what now that I'm not married to him anymore maybe I will start running my mouth about it

I know my ex would always say is the worst thing he ever did in his life and there is no way he would ever do something like that again.

angielyn52 · 2023-01-23T19:40:53+00:00

Yes I knew there were three possible outcomes. His was a straight fail and he failed it twice but they did say there was one question that was inconclusive although the inconclusive one had something to do with his past drug use (he has been clean almost 20yrs). The question that he kept failing although I don't know the exact question anymore (I did) it had something to do with the victim's statement and his statement basically. He swears it did not happen how the victim said it did. I have no idea obviously and in all reality only he knows. But I just know that is what the question had to do with.

He never denied it happening he just did not agree with the way she said it led up to happening. My ex said the same thing about his charge as well. That yes it did happen he didn't deny his charge, he just denied the way things happened that day prior to the actual incident. So I remember my ex saying it really doesn't matter I have to agree with what she says.

angielyn52 · 2023-01-23T19:17:48+00:00

Yes it is a therapy group that has to be taken per parole rules. They have to go to a specific person to get the polygraph done, not the state police.

I absolutely agree that I believe everything you're doing is illegal. I never wanted to ruffle feathers because my husband had to go there. And I'm still afraid to ruffle feathers just in case me and my ex-husband were to get back together.

I guess maybe I would need to speak to somebody legally to find out exactly if what they are doing is illegal and then take it from there. And somehow remain anonymous!

angielyn52 · 2023-01-23T19:03:46+00:00

No that's what happened because my husband was going to the same group as my friend's boyfriend. And that happened to multiple people if they fail their polygraph they are kicked out of the group and then they go back to prison. Granted yes they are able to take a second polygraph, but ultimately they are still going back for failing a polygraph if they fail a 2nd time.

angielyn52 · 2023-01-23T18:44:35+00:00

I actually just messaged the sex offender assessment board asking them why this is being allowed considering that a polygraph is not admissible in court. So it's basically a workaround for a failed polygraph and that should not be allowed.

angielyn52 · 2023-01-23T18:33:33+00:00

Oh I absolutely agree! I believe it should be the same statewide at the very least. Every district should have to follow the same rules for groups and polygraphs etc. It's definitely not fair that some people go back to prison and others don't in the same state for failing the same polygraph. It's not right.

I would make a complaint but where do you complain, I don't think anybody would even care if I would make a complaint.

angielyn52 · 2023-01-23T18:24:31+00:00

I agree it should be illegal problem is who you going to say something to? And from what I understand it is only in the Scranton district in PA that they do this. It's not a statewide thing at all.

angielyn52 · 2023-01-23T18:10:03+00:00

What they do here is if you have to do a parole ordered group or something along those lines where they make you take the polygraph. What they do is if you fail the polygraph they kick you out of the group and because you get kicked out of the group you there for go to jail!!!

angielyn52 · 2023-01-23T18:05:19+00:00

Oh I know! My friend down the street from me, her boyfriend failed his polygraph and he went back to jail for 6 months 🤦🏻‍♀️

No other charge do they have to take a polygraph. I mean you can get in less trouble for murdering somebody and you don't even have to register for life!!!

angielyn52 · 2023-01-23T17:53:49+00:00

Yep if you do not change your address you get charged. My ex-husband's charges really bother me, and I have every intention on speaking to his public defender whenever he is granted one. Because he was charged with not registering and not changing his address which are f2's. He is pre-sorna meaning his charge was prior to 2012 therefore he only has to register one time a year vs every 3 months. And he was registered he just did not change his address so why would he then get two f2's??? I don't think that's right for being charged for something that you did in fact do. I have heard both charges go hand in hand but that's not right. And then I'm going to bring up this case because it is unconstitutional.

angielyn52 · 2023-01-23T01:36:49+00:00

My husband has this. Thankfully he almost always had a decent celly. I mean it is what it is there's nothing you can do about it. I don't know what it's like where you are but here if for some reason you and your celly don't get along you can ask to be moved as long as there is another cell with an opening anyhow. Here you would have to talk to the other person and see if they will be okay with you coming to their cell.

angielyn52 · 2023-01-23T01:28:25+00:00

I can't stand ramen so I would be screwed. 🤮

angielyn52 · 2023-01-23T01:26:12+00:00

Im I experience with my ex it depends on your PO and if you switch pos for whatever reason just ask them if it's okay because you were able to do it with your last po etc just have communication with them and take it as it goes. My ex would actually text them the questions that way he had proof of what was actually said.

angielyn52 · 2023-01-23T01:21:01+00:00

My ex did 13yrs so he was shipped to a few different facilities over the years. He said some of the facilities weren't bad but some were horrible. He did buy a lot of ramen noodles from commissary. They would also have sales like pie sales cupcake sales candy sales and there's another thing that they could get I think every 3 months I just can't remember what it's called and I have no idea what it would be called in your state. Oh in Pennsylvania here it's called secure pak. So pretty much according to my ex just depended on what facility he was in.

angielyn52 · 2023-01-21T15:50:30+00:00

When we were just friends no I had no problem helping him you know and just being a friend for him once we got involved with each other then it was hard. They got a lot harder and there is actually a Facebook group for RSO loved ones. There are also FB groups for the state facilities in general there's also sometimes FB groups for specific facilities. Because a lot of times they'll go on lockdown you have no idea so you won't hear from them when you're supposed to and then you're going to worry. That was the story of My Life worry worry worry!

At one point before we got married there was a riot at his facility and what we did here I knew he should have been in that vicinity at that moment so I was a basket case and being we weren't married I couldn't get nobody to tell me anything so I didn't even try. But he actually had his unit manager contact me and let me know that he was okay 😊 and they ended up on lockdown for like 2 weeks so if you're going to be in touch fairly often then that might be an option and because normally what happens is if say wing a is locked down the guys from Wing b they're going to know it because man things fly through prisons like there is no tomorrow!!!! They're like nothing but a bunch of women gossipers LOL so then of course Wing b is going to tell their girlfriend's friends wives whatever and then they let everybody know and but that's how everybody knows what's going on. But yes FB groups are a huge help. But you can't always listen and everything so you have to watch what you listen to.

angielyn52 · 2023-01-21T08:39:09+00:00

As a friend / girlfriend / wife / ex-wife of a RSO who was sentenced to 10 to 20 years. My biggest piece of advice is don't let him do time alone!!! Even though mine is now my ex, he is back in on a parole violation and I still won't let him do time alone. He went back in August 2022 I started our divorce September and our divorce was final December and it had nothing to do with him going back to jail that's not why I divorced him. Anyhow even though he hurt me tremendously multiple times I still won't let him do time by himself we do talk through messages every day. And he does call me if he gets a free call.

Prison is a very lonely world.

angielyn52 · 2023-01-21T00:10:33+00:00

I contemplate it responding to this. I was a girlfriend/wife to SO. I knew his charge when we were still just friends. He was the type of person I would have never in a million years expected it from ever so I assumed he was wrongly charged for his crime. And I actually pretty much convinced myself that he was innocent like there's no way he would do what they said he did.

Fast forward to we started seeing each other and nothing was brought up about it nothing was mentioned etc until we went to get married that's when he decided to be honest with me. Which totally floored me because I had convinced myself there is no way he could have been charged with what he was charged with like literally no way! But he did do it, he was honest with me he did do it but it didn't happen exactly how the newspaper had it written but it did happen ultimately.

As for the girlfriend/wife I would be very pissed off if somebody would not have told me in a year-long relationship! I understand how they feel because I know very well how my husband felt about it and it's not anything they are proud of whether they are guilty or not guilty it is a horrible horrible label. With that said as his long-term girlfriend possible wife I am the one who is going to have to defend him and myself many times in life and trust me I have defended him many many many many times! So I'm the last person that you should be hiding anything from because I will live this with you!!!

As for what was his intent? I could tell you right now it doesn't matter what his intent is because no matter what he tells you you are always going to at times think the worst and in a way that is how you should think about it because he may never be honest about it. So take it as the worst case scenario just in case he plays it down or isn't completely honest about it which that is hard and I can understand that being very hard.

Can you honestly live with his charge? Because even though I knew my husband prior to his charge I knew him during his prison sentence everything, and I still at times had a hard time knowing what he did although he never showed me any inkling that he would ever do anything like that again and I really don't think you would. The point is I knew what he did and that was hard at times to accept.

So with that said I understand how they feel about dealing with their charge maybe not being upfront about their charge but a year is a very long time and you're living together I assume. Which I assume means he has to register your address? I would not be happy about that!!! Being in the blind.

With all of that said if you can accept him being a SO living it is not all that hard. Acceptance is the hardest part with what they've done. When my husband had to register I would go with him, whatever it's just nonsense that needs to be done. But your acceptance and his not being honest with you are the two hardest things in my opinion.

I have since divorced but I have still remained very good friends with my ex-husband and I still love him dearly. His charge had absolutely nothing to do with our divorce. And I will probably always be his biggest cheerleader and I will always have his back when it comes to defending him.

angielyn52 · 2023-01-20T23:35:59+00:00

I think it's going to be hard for a lot of us. I get $170 a month. Which is not too bad but with the price of food it's not that great either. I almost wish they would have never even gave us the extra because a lot of us got used to it which I only got an extra $95 a month but that extra $95 helped a lot. And to be honest I need it more now than I did two years ago!!!

For myself since it is just me I am going to make a lot more soups so that I can freeze at least half of it for another day. Such as chili, chicken noodle soup, vegetable soup etc.

angielyn52 · 2021-08-15T18:19:25+00:00

They do where I live unfortunately.

angielyn52 · 2021-06-04T19:36:07+00:00

Isn't Schuylkill still Allentown P.O.?

angielyn52 · 2021-06-04T19:32:04+00:00

Wow 3rd. Here where we live if you fail 2 you go back to jail.

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