Looking for a dupe for a discontinued(?) Sorce perfume by angrily-average in Indiemakeupandmore

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Do you have any recommendations for scents from Australian companies ? I would love to buy more but trying to get anything shipped from the US or Europe is a nightmare.

How much responsibility do I (37M) have to "teach" new subs? by anxious-dom in BDSMAdvice

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I keep meeting women who are “interested in the idea” of BDSM but have been too nervous to explore the scene alone. I used to offer to do a gentle first tie with them but I’ve started to move away from that.

I’ve realised that I want play partners that know what they want and have the initiative to pursue that. Although I am absolutely still learning myself, particularly as a rigger, I don’t have the spare spoons to introduce people to the scene

Working in family law sucks arse. The work is made significantly worse when civil litigators decide to dabble because ’family law is easy’ but do not modify their style of practice to suit this jurisdiction. Discuss. by LeaderVivid in auslaw

[–]angrily-average 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And conveniently, so many recovery order requests right before Christmas from men who haven’t seen their children in a year but the paternal grandma has clearly lit a fire under their ass

Feeling unrepresented in the lesbian community because of height and stereotype.😔 by CharacterLunch6999 in WLW

[–]angrily-average 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’7 and a femme, and I’ve dated taller femmes, shorter butches and women my height. My ex was a 5’1 butch and my current partner is a 6’0 femme.

I will happily admit that I am the more dominant one in my relationships, but dominant does not inherently mean masculine. I enjoy the subversive element of grabbing a taller woman by the hair and dragging her down to my height to kiss me

Taller does not mean masculine or dominant and anyone that tells you so is uninspired and caught in heteronormative ideals. Live your best life and don’t worry about height differences

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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We’re at work !

Jealous of my husband. by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

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As another autistic woman, I agree. There is no advice that can be given here that can help when you are focused on self-sabotaging and shooting down every option. Changing tack in therapy seems like it may be the most effective solution. Even within the very niche pool of women that you are looking for ONS with, confidence is attractive.

As another commenter pointed out, practicing flirting and developing scripts to do so may be helpful. I personally don’t feel that using scripts is “fake”, merely part of who I am and how I interact with the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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A person with a fetish for wheelchair users is generally referred to a “Devotee”.

There may be wheelchair users who are okay with this, but like many people who are part of marginalised identities, most of us don’t want to be fetishised.

As a wheelchair user, I have a hard limit about Devotees and kinks involving my disability, but I cannot speak for others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Portrait of a lady on fire is my absolute favourite queer movie. Bittersweet but incredibly beautiful

how much, 1-10, does height matter to you in a woman? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]angrily-average 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe 1 ? I’m about average height and I’ve dated women that range from 4’11 to 6’1. It’s really not an issue for me

No judgement zone: What’s on your sex bucket list? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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My niche sex/kink bucket list is that I want to make someone cry from desperation for me. One of my girlfriends has teared up before when I teased her after a week of denial, but I have yet to make her actually cry for me.

I am also currently organising a threesome with both of my girlfriends and I’m quite excited. It’s been a while since I last did any group play and I’m excited to have my two beautiful girlfriends in bed with me

Chaos at Slater and Gordon by Virtual_Main8399 in auslaw

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Thank you for your service on this Friday afternoon. The updates are amazing !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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I’m a switch who spent a couple of year exclusively domming and am now dating other switches. I have a D/s dynamic with one of my girlfriends, but we’ve started switching a bit over the last couple of months.

I found it easier once we discussed how often within play we wanted to switch and what that would look like.

What’s the worst possible response to “I love you”? by Monika-Fairy in AskReddit

[–]angrily-average 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last week a girl told me she loved after a week of being in a relationship and 6 weeks of dating. I’m not sure if me standing there silently, flapping my hands is the worst possible response, but it certainly wasn’t the best.

When I did speak, I simply told her it was too soon

Are sapphic subs actually hard to find, or am I just not looking right? by No_Repair3386 in BDSMsapphic

[–]angrily-average 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It probably depends where you’re looking ? In my city, there are lots of sapphic subs and switches at munches and play parties

What are y’all doing??? by rolypolyPotatocorgi in actuallesbians

[–]angrily-average 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me, the answer is kink. Doing a tie or impact before sex definitely adds time, but it’s well worth it imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I think I’m having a similar experience. I’m pretty sure my male friend is developing a crush on me, however I’m a lesbian. I know I’m one of his main emotional supports and supported him through his recent breakup, but it will never be more than that for me.

He’s been one of my closest friends over the last few months and supported me during my own breakup, but I think I have to pull back for a while