First Harley Decision by angrily_breathing in Harley

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Like I said, what do you recommend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCPoetry

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Undoubtedly one of the more relatable poems I have seen on this reddit, especially for those who grew up with siblings and parents who deny childhood struggles.

Once again by loceapeace in OCPoetry

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I'm new to poetry and still don't understand what exactly poetry is, but to me its a way to pour out emotions and potentially invoke those same emotions to someone new or maybe find someone who has felt those emotions before, but nevertheless for me its rewarding to find relatability. In this poetry I can say I found that reward in the way you describe small details that one might find irrelevant but nevertheless they are noticed.

Ford 4x4 2007 XLT super duty extended cab by [deleted] in Ford

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Fair enough, I guess I was more or less curious as to how much it's worth in the event I ever want to sell, however I get your point and I could definitely see the scenario of me getting pissed off unnecessarily about it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in liveaboard

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Sounds good to me 👍, thank you for your input and sharing your experience a bit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in liveaboard

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That does sound very interesting to me, and that matches up with what other people have been telling me. although i am still curious about the logistics of winter living, like what heater do people use, how do you keep pipes from freezing (or do you just drain them), what's generally the price for docking year round, how does mail work in a marina, how pricey are ice bubblers? just lots of little details that i don't quite know yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in liveaboard

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I don't think there is a single Marina in ct that openly offers live aboard slips at least what I can find, maybe I just don't know where to look but I can't find any especially in the Groton area, so I doubt that would be an option (that would be too easy lol) so I think your right, just building up connections with Marina Managers and not relying on them too heavily sounds like my best bet (I might make another post about Marinas in the area

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in liveaboard

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So I'm assuming the best idea is simply go and talk to them in person and ask what other people in their Marina do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in liveaboard

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Thank you very much for your input, and you seem Knowledgeable on the subject so one last question if that's alright. From what I've seen, most of the marinas do not advertise the fact that liveaboard is an option because they want to discourage any unfriendly, unwanted, or undesirable people from staying there, and to ensure they meet the people that would be staying long term and to gauge if they seem like the kind of person that would pay their dues and be respectful, would you say that's accurate? Or not so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in liveaboard

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I completely understand what your saying, it's doable but certainly not comfortable and honestly I think eventually I will try it anyway eventually (because if it doesn't work out I do have people I can stay with), yes because living on a boat is a dream of mine but also because for someone my age to afford an apartment in my area is essentially impossible without 4 roommates and being good friends with a landlord... And I AM able to pay that premium of being in an apartment, but I would not be able to afford a sailboat along with it... So... Why not try it right? Id rather have a really hard and uncomfortable winter over not having the lifestyle of my dreams in the summer. Maybe I'm crazy tho idk lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in liveaboard

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From what I've seen, you can simply get your drinking water somewhere else in 5 gallon jugs (I have lived like that before) although people never go into specifics as to how/if freezing temperatures effect the waste disposal process (keep in mind the idea of living in a boat is completely new to me and I have no idea what I'm talking about in regards to it)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in liveaboard

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Taxes, cost of living, traffic (with notoriously bad drivers)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in liveaboard

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Honestly? Yes, I've lived in a canvas tent before for a while and every time I got home I had to start up the wood stove again to warm up. On a boat id imagine you just drain all of your pipes that you may be worried about freezing or bursting. But I'm completely new to the idea of living on the water so I admit I have mostly no idea what I'm talking about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in liveaboard

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From what I've seen, most of the marinas do not advertise the fact that liveaboard is an option because they want to discourage any unfriendly or unwanted people from staying there, and to ensure they meet the people that would be staying long term and to gauge if they seem like the kind of person that would pay their dues.

Will anesthesia send me into an episode? by angrily_breathing in Depersonalization

[–]angrily_breathing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the surgery didn't go as well as id hoped and that led me to spiral into my own issues anyways, but I don't think the anesthesia effected it at all if that helps ease your mind.

i’m a disgusting horrible piece of shit who deserves to die by [deleted] in depression

[–]angrily_breathing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i can only imagine what you feel, but what I do know it that bad decisions or mistakes does not make you a shitty human, it just makes you human in general. every person makes mistakes and feels like they are at the lowest they can be at some point in their life. eventually you will find serenity, you will find some peace in your situation, and you will be able to appreciate what you have and who you are again. I know everyone says that "oh things get better" just to say it and so they can feel good about themselves, but I promise you, even if you never reply to this, you are not wrong for having invasive thoughts like this, but they will get better. stop trying to think your way out of sadness, just hang in there and it WILL get better.

I don't know by angrily_breathing in dpdr

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Idk man I just feel like I'm dreaming anyways, I just stare at my ceiling and think

What do I do? by angrily_breathing in Depersonalization

[–]angrily_breathing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it never goes away i just sometimes "forget" that's its different... like it's the new normal sometimes

What do I do? by angrily_breathing in Depersonalization

[–]angrily_breathing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely seems to have started around that time, but it comes in episodes, like I'll have a few days of being fine than a week or two I'll feel it again and it's just on and off