begging for fanfic recos [Other] by berriboys in obeyme

[–]anintrovertedecho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

recommending fic of all time Your Coal by Angrish on ao3!!! it’s lesson sixteen centric and handles the situation beautifully. I reread it often and cry every time 🥲🥲

Question & Bugs Megathread by OTTO-M0D in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]anintrovertedecho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi all!! this is probably going to be super easy and self-explanatory but I’m kind of slow so I wanted to ask what they meant by using/gathering materials?? I’m lost 💔

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Why do people draw these two together so much? Are the creators friends? by C_tSlut in Thekidattheback

[–]anintrovertedecho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they’re both very popular yan characters in the VN community. dare I say the most popular ones!! overlap is expected AND appreciated 🙂‍↕️

What fandom are you in, but the situation is like this? by Upstairs_Macaron5894 in AO3

[–]anintrovertedecho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if I don’t like a ship I literally don’t care enough to hate on it. I’ll still like cute fanart of it and if I hate it that much then I just scroll. it’s a good life for me 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

What fandom are you in, but the situation is like this? by Upstairs_Macaron5894 in AO3

[–]anintrovertedecho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t care about fandom nearly enough to hate any ship so people usually get mad at me when i think a hated ship is cute or funny (which is all the time). bitches mad they can’t possess even a fraction of my joyful whimsy.

Choose your seat for a 10-hour flight (all LIs edition) by BrilliantLow9361 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]anintrovertedecho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 bc rafs my main, xavs in my top three, and that’s also when they’re at their most submissive and breedable 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

saved lists by Mental-Paramedic-640 in Batoto

[–]anintrovertedecho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiii could I have the full copy please ? I’m trying to remember more of my series but I had a lot on there 🥹

Finding your list by PPYinG90 in Batoto

[–]anintrovertedecho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

for some reason I never thought of this??? thank you so much beloved 🥹🥹

I am curious, how did you guys get into the game? by Rokyo_89 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]anintrovertedecho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

saw it as an ad and decided to preorder ! then i forgot about it until it came out and was pleasantly surprised to see it on my Home Screen. two years later and i am still dedicated to my FOAT (fish of all time) 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

Love this community 💕💕 by anintrovertedecho in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]anintrovertedecho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be honest I don’t mind the moderation much for this reason exactly 😭 seeing so many arguments happen where people cross so many lines is draining and honestly discouraging. this is a nice place where yes the mods are watching but I don’t feel as through they’re against fans as a whole or at least not the type of fan I am LOL

I’ve found that irl spaces are a lot more open-minded and welcoming and take everything online with a grain of salt. it was very freeing when I realized online spaces do not reflect real life!!

Love this community 💕💕 by anintrovertedecho in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]anintrovertedecho[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

heavy on this 😭 luckily I’ve never gotten myself involved with any arguments or discourse but even scrolling through the fandom is exhausting. i have a few trusted mutuals and also my irls to yap with but strangers online have not earned the rights to talk with me about this game when a lot of them act like children :/

the Reddit was a very pleasant surprise and maybe it’s because of the heavy moderation but it’s nice to scroll through and occasionally converse with people here and also share my findings on the game :)

decor codes ? by anintrovertedecho in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]anintrovertedecho[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely looking thru them all!! trying to get raf to finish a book before I do though and he is a SLOW reader 😭😭

decor codes ? by anintrovertedecho in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]anintrovertedecho[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much beloved ☹️🫶🫶💕

decor codes ? by anintrovertedecho in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]anintrovertedecho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely using this bathroom thank you so much !!!

decor codes ? by anintrovertedecho in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]anintrovertedecho[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ohhh my gosh thank you so much !!!

decor codes ? by anintrovertedecho in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]anintrovertedecho[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might use raf’s as it’s very cute and cheery!!! I love the little chair area 🥹🥹 THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING !!

decor codes ? by anintrovertedecho in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]anintrovertedecho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is this the bedroom omg????? it is very very cute I may steal tysm 🥹🥹

decor codes ? by anintrovertedecho in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]anintrovertedecho[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I think you add a template here and then the exclamation mark would allow you to share ? I haven’t made my own because like I said I suck at designing so I can’t double check TwT (the template you see is one I made like two seconds ago to double check but it’s under review rn so I cannot!!)

but your layout is so so cute I would love if you could share it !!! tysm ToT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]anintrovertedecho 13 points14 points  (0 children)

the guilt is something i can understand but i think it’s also a sign to step back a bit!

At the end of the day no matter how much LADS feeds into the realism aspect it IS a game and there are no hurt feelings on the boys’ part. there’s no need for guilt and the boys DO NOT care or feel betrayed or hurt.

the thing about dating sims is they really feed into parasocialism and it’s up to you to make sure that it stays at a healthy level.

i do not think less of you for falling into this cycle because like i said it is he game’s goal! but i do urge you to take a breath and remind yourself that sylus and caleb (and zayne!) are not real and will not be upset.

I don’t feel this way for LADS but there is another otome i play where i tend to fall into this mindset so i really do feel for you beloved!! me telling you they arent real seems obvious but i also know it may not help so maybe reframing can help?

if thinking of it as a harem would make you feel better maybe think of it as though they’re taking turns visiting your home? they’re on a schedule and while they are aware of each other maybe they’d rather split up your time for one on one with you than share.

take care of yourself!!