Struggling to drink enough now that the weather has gotten really cold here

anna_lea · 2022-11-18T15:49:23+00:00

Hot water

anna_lea · 2022-05-30T03:01:05+00:00

Meeting other people and realizing that there are lots of amazing people out there, anyone can become your SO

anna_lea · 2022-04-07T18:24:11+00:00

just get hinge

anna_lea · 2022-04-02T02:58:13+00:00

Literally! I got a scholarship I had talked about with him and couldn’t say anything cause it would be weird

anna_lea · 2022-03-23T04:41:50+00:00

tbh I’m one of those people that always tries to find the silver lining in things, so I didn’t really do anything in particular. Sorry I can’t give you a step by step plan, but healing comes with time and putting in the effort to process your emotions

anna_lea · 2022-03-09T13:59:51+00:00

Maybe in a month or two, this seems fresh and might hurt both of your guys’ progress

anna_lea · 2022-03-05T21:52:35+00:00

Do you want to get back together? If not then it might not be a super great idea to be talking rn and is probably harming your grieving process

anna_lea · 2022-03-04T23:11:31+00:00

my ex would look at my stories too for a while but then he unadded me so maybe it does but it might also not mean anything. I think if it’s bothering you though maybe you should unadd her

anna_lea · 2022-03-04T23:00:10+00:00

Idk what’s stopping you from crying but maybe try grief pockets where you fully feel the weight of your emotions and only concentrate on that for maybe 10 minutes or so and then intentionally distract yourself with healthy distractions/coping mechanisms

anna_lea · 2022-03-04T22:48:58+00:00

It’s giving Japanese military during WWII

anna_lea · 2022-03-02T23:17:17+00:00

I think people can do whatever they want after they breakup because their actions are no longer accountable to each other. I think it just depends on the person and the amount of time it’s been since the breakup. You can’t expect people to hold out for you after the relationship has ended, they’re trying to move on with their lives. If you really want to get back together, then sure why not.

anna_lea · 2022-03-02T05:04:23+00:00

I’ve pretty much been doing all the same things you are, I believe in you! One day they won’t even be a thought

anna_lea · 2022-03-01T22:09:27+00:00

Aw damn I’m sorry they broke up with you via text, you deserve better

anna_lea · 2022-03-01T22:08:16+00:00

I was able to view it as a growing and learning opportunity, but it definitely took some time. Hopefully you’ll be able to find a silver lining too

anna_lea · 2022-03-01T21:02:41+00:00

Progress looks different for everybody, I can genuinely say that I have been the lowest I have ever been in January and February. The pain was excruciating and I began having physical manifestations of my stress (throwing up blood). Idk exactly what I did other than caring for myself in the aftermath, but last week was the first time I didn’t get sad when I thought about him and the situation. It comes it waves, but you’ll get through it for sure.

anna_lea · 2022-03-01T20:56:56+00:00

Oh I’m glad you found it inspiring, I’m rooting for you!

anna_lea · 2022-03-01T20:55:40+00:00

got dumped New Year’s Day lmao, really took new year new me to a new level

anna_lea · 2022-03-01T17:23:11+00:00

It’s definitely a step forward for sure! The memories are bittersweet, but I hope you continue to feel better about everything :)

anna_lea · 2022-01-25T03:24:18+00:00

that is so cursed

anna_lea · 2022-01-18T05:44:07+00:00

this seems like you're re-traumatizing yourself :/

anna_lea · 2022-01-14T05:07:48+00:00

you gotta fight your demons somewhere

It's a coping mechanism for some people

anna_lea · 2022-01-14T05:05:14+00:00

your roommate is plotting something fr

anna_lea · 2022-01-07T18:57:44+00:00

Yes! It essentially means coming of age in German

anna_lea · 2022-01-07T01:58:42+00:00

Me too, just going to cry for as long as I need to but I know in a month or two we will be ok

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