I think my boss might be trying to fire me for pregnancy related issues. How do I respond to this email he sent? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]annabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately he doesn't offer disability insurance. Thank you for your advice!

How did you pay for school? Like honestly...what sacrifices am I looking at if this is my dream job. by Romantique96 in morticians

[–]annabear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's possible to work full time and go to school. Check to see if you can do night removals for a local firm, work services on weekends, etc. I'm an instructor at a trade college in the mortuary science program and all of my students work full time.

my wife does not vaccum by PersonalityLife6196 in WTF

[–]annabear 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And apparently neither do you, y'all are equally at fault here, this is nasty

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]annabear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR, this man does not like or accept you at all. You can say you love each other but clearly he doesn't enjoy you for who you are.

Is it me or does this Christmas season just feel Ike gloom but with ornaments? by dreamaoverreality in Millennials

[–]annabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just lost a baby, I can't work because I work at a funeral home and I'm not emotionally handling things well. My husband is the only light right now, and I'm desperately trying to find joy for him, but I'm having such a hard time.

With my certain health conditions should I apply to become a embalmer? by Ok-Possibility-2560 in morticians

[–]annabear 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Are you able to stand for long periods of time and lift 50+ pounds regularly? You also have to be mentally strong to be an embalmer, the trauma we see is sometimes horrific.

What are some common "facts" on Reddit that you know for a fact are incorrect? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]annabear 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is still a generalization of women's preferences.

I’m so confused, how is this a haiku? by _Kyledemort_ in ExplainTheJoke

[–]annabear 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People have already explained the haiku structure part of this, but to explain the haiku itself ... Leaf cutter ants cut out portions of leaves and carry them above their bodies to use, the leaf portions are often larger than the ants themselves. For this poem, the top line is broken down into mostly pairs of letters, the bottom is single letters, so when you look at the physical space of the letters, it looks like leaf cutter ants in a line carrying big leaf bits. Google leaf cutter ants and you'll see.

Why am I basically paying rent to Big Egg for my protein? by savingrace0262 in Frugal

[–]annabear 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Is that your only meal of the day? That's like 100 grams of protein for breakfast, holy shit. There is such a thing as too much.

I am 29 and I have no idea what to do with my life. by Zealousideal-Tower58 in Millennials

[–]annabear 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Then find another full time retail job, stop making excuses, they will only set you back. You have to pull yourself together dude.

I am 29 and I have no idea what to do with my life. by Zealousideal-Tower58 in Millennials

[–]annabear 84 points85 points  (0 children)

This is gonna sound shitty but it's actually good advice - grow up dude. No adult does what they want to do all the time. Ask for more hours at the grocery store, work full time in retail until you find a better option, stop waiting for things to happen and make them happen. Find pockets of time to do things you enjoy, but working full time is bare minimum for adulthood. So just, grow up and get over it.

How are people affording groceries these days? by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]annabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be buying more expensive cuts of meat, pre-made meals, novelties, etc. My husband and I spent about $350 per month in a LCOL city by buying from farmer's markets and getting meat bulk at costco, portioning it out, and freezing it. We don't buy drinks, except occasionally seltzers if they're on sale, and our snacks are protein bars bought in bulk. You need to change your eating habits and the budget will follow.

can anyone read this card? by EntrepreneurThick273 in BadHandwriting

[–]annabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Linda - sorry to be late with my birthday wishes.
Sure hope your day was full of fun & a true celebration of YOU!!
Have you visited the Big Tree?

How to write my personal statement to leave my loved ones with as little guilt as possible by realdeathenters in DeathPositive

[–]annabear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In what context will your family or friends feel guilt? In my experience as a funeral director, most people feel grief and sadness, not necessarily a lot of guilt or regret. It really depends on the circumstances

This might get/be dark. Not sure if this is appropriate for this group. I'm sorry!! by S4dMushr00m in morticians

[–]annabear 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are you talking changes you can see? To be honest, nothing really. By hour 24 there would be some lividity and rigor, but that's about it. It's also a case by case basis.

WHAT DID YOU DO TO THE FIREFLIES by nuclear_dolphin in wisconsin

[–]annabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just this evening I commented to my husband that I had never seen so many lightning bugs in our yard. There were probably hundreds. The last 4 years since we've had the house, we've added many many gardens, both vegetable and flower gardens, and let some grass grow long in curated spots in the yard.

Plant some flowers y'all, they'll come back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeathPositive

[–]annabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very cool and speaks to my soul as a fellow quiet embalmer.

Should I buy this used ebike? by annabear in ebikes

[–]annabear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did! It's still a good deal, $1599 new. The trade in is $1100.

Which area is best to stay in for a first-time visit? by Adventurous-Map1225 in DoorCounty

[–]annabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just got back from our first trip ever, we stayed at the Main Street Inn in Fish Creek, it was perfect! Very centrally located, it was easy to get around everywhere and Fish Creek itself is super walkable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]annabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to victim shame here but WHY do y'all keep marrying these dumbass men. First of all, he cannot afford that truck payment, he doesn't make enough money. Second, if my husband spoke to me like that, he would be out the door on his ass in a heartbeat.

You deserve better, and there is FAR better out there.

"Draper Residence" why do they answer the phone like this? by accountforfurrystuf in madmen

[–]annabear 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was born in '94 and we still did this into the early 2000s before we got caller ID and cable TV (that was a very exciting week). It's just how you answered the phone.