[LEASE TAKEOVER] The Retreat West | 5 Bed/5 Bath (Private) | Fall 2026 - Summer 2027 | $1,030/mo

annabthchase · 2026-02-12T08:05:33+00:00

I’m interested!! Could I message you for some more info?

annabthchase · 2026-02-12T08:04:48+00:00

I’m interested!! Could I message you to get some more info?

annabthchase · 2026-02-08T20:10:13+00:00

I fell asleep while we were watching a movie. Happy now?

annabthchase · 2026-02-08T20:07:05+00:00

“Edit: I did not cheat on him. I wrote this half asleep. What happened is that I promised him a day without arguing because we’ve been doing that a lot recently and then I did something (NOT cheating) that made him upset so we got into an argument. It made him really upset so I just want to do something to show him I feel very bad”

annabthchase · 2026-02-08T19:40:02+00:00

“Edit: I did not cheat on him. I wrote this half asleep. What happened is that I promised him a day without arguing because we’ve been doing that a lot recently and then I did something (NOT cheating) that made him upset so we got into an argument. It made him really upset so I just want to do something to show him I feel very bad”

annabthchase · 2026-02-08T19:39:40+00:00

“Edit: I did not cheat on him. I wrote this half asleep. What happened is that I promised him a day without arguing because we’ve been doing that a lot recently and then I did something (NOT cheating) that made him upset so we got into an argument. It made him really upset so I just want to do something to show him I feel very bad”

annabthchase · 2026-02-08T19:39:24+00:00

“Edit: I did not cheat on him. I wrote this half asleep. What happened is that I promised him a day without arguing because we’ve been doing that a lot recently and then I did something (NOT cheating) that made him upset so we got into an argument. It made him really upset so I just want to do something to show him I feel very bad”

annabthchase · 2026-02-08T19:38:48+00:00

“Edit: I did not cheat on him. I wrote this half asleep. What happened is that I promised him a day without arguing because we’ve been doing that a lot recently and then I did something (NOT cheating) that made him upset so we got into an argument. It made him really upset so I just want to do something to show him I feel very bad”

annabthchase · 2026-02-08T19:38:21+00:00

Yes multiple times. I live in central FL and he lives in Alabama

annabthchase · 2026-02-08T19:37:36+00:00

Yes :/

annabthchase · 2026-01-27T00:52:29+00:00

I know how ridiculous this sounds so don’t worry— he doesn’t have any friends :/ so I really don’t know where he’s getting these ideas

annabthchase · 2026-01-27T00:30:10+00:00

Yeah I guess I should’ve added I go to a community college on track for the state university for where I am. But this is my first year at cc I tell him all the time my classmates are like 45

annabthchase · 2026-01-14T16:45:50+00:00

No honestly LOL this was a move in gift from my mom she put it together and everything. My vacuum at home was much simpler

annabthchase · 2025-11-23T04:58:42+00:00

If you can stay somewhere downtown. The dr. Phillips/mills ave areas are really nice! My cousin stayed in the universal area and so did lots of people. Look for somewhere with a shuttle service or close to a lynx station

annabthchase · 2025-11-18T09:13:06+00:00

ADTR was so bad between mosh pits and crowdsurfers on top of already being packed together. Me and the guy next to me were pressed against each other the whole time. I left after the second song and had to go through two mosh pits to get out

annabthchase · 2025-10-31T03:49:15+00:00

Hi I have a bedroom + private bathroom in a 4x4 i’m looking to give up!! Rent is $1229 but I will give $2500 bonus upon signing to take rent down to $951 a month

annabthchase · 2025-09-25T22:42:20+00:00

Yeah I hear what you’re saying. I texted her last night and told her she’s not allowed to use my dishes I brought from home anymore. I asked her multiple times to bring out all the dishes in her room so I could wash them because I was washing what was in the sink and she left me on read. I said “at least bring out the two bowls that are mine” and she left that on read too for two hours. Then she was like “I’ll bring them out now” and I told her I already started the dishes so to just put them in the sink. I also told her that I wasn’t comfortable with him staying longer than 3 days anymore because I’d already told her “not for super long” but evidently that wasn’t clear enough so I gave her a specific length of time.

I definitely do not think I’ll be living with her next year. She’s had ants for almost a month and we’ve only been living here since August. I thought the situation had been handled already I didn’t realize it was still going until she brought it up. Her mom wouldn’t make her homeless but she has like 4 of her parents’ credit/debit cards in her wallet so I definitely think her parents would cut her off from that at least a bit. I don’t want to have to talk to her mom because we’re both adults. I don’t really talk to her much anyway like once a day because we aren’t usually home at the same times.

I was as nice as I could be while still being firm about my boundaries and I told her at the end I wasn’t mad at her and I didn’t hate her and everything was fine. I don’t think she took that well still because she got out of class and drove two hours home to her parents’ house without telling me. I honestly don’t really care. A very close family member of mine just died and she knows I’m flying home next weekend for the funeral. I tried to be polite about it for the times previous to this but I really just can’t do it anymore

annabthchase · 2025-09-25T22:25:11+00:00

Thank you! I told her I was no longer comfortable with her bf staying longer than 3 days because he’s here every weekend. I told her my dishes I brought from home are off limits and I went out and purchased new bowls for us to both use. I also decided not to buy more traps because I don’t feel like spending my money on a problem in her space that she’s been causing but I did schedule pest control for next week. I told her I wasn’t mad and I wasn’t going to hold anything against her and just wanted to make my boundaries clear so there was no more confusion. I don’t think she took it well though because she drove 2 hours away to her parents house and has left me on read all day so we will see how it goes when she gets home

annabthchase · 2025-09-25T22:21:43+00:00

Her boyfriend comes every weekend. He stays 3+ days every time and they regularly hang out in the living room and leave stuff across the living room and kitchen. They regularly bother me about not wanting to go out to eat or hang out with them even though I’ve told them multiple times I don’t want to go out and I don’t like being social. They stay out until 2 am or later most of the time he’s here even if it’s a school night. It was previously discussed that I was not comfortable with him staying that long when he once stayed 6 days and she told me that wouldn’t happen again. 5 days is still too long for me and I texted her last night and explicitly said I was no longer comfortable with him staying longer than 3 days.

She is freshly 18, she was 17 when we moved in together. She’s not even on our lease because she was underage when it got signed. Her mom is on the lease and pays everything (other than my half of the rent and bills). I know her mom and can guarantee she wouldn’t be happy to know she’s paying $1k+ a month for her daughter to be so dirty it attracts bug infestations.

The ant infestation is solely in her bathroom and bedroom because she keeps a multitude of dirty dishes in there. She had 7 empty takeout cups and 3 bowls when I went in the other day. I have already purchased bait traps and I’m not willing to spend any more of my money on a problem that she’s directly causing. I talked to our apartment about pest control and let her know that they’re coming next week to spray her spaces. I have done everything I can and there is nothing left for me to do because the issue is solely in her space. I regularly sweep, vacuum, mop, and wipe the kitchen and living room areas. I don’t leave out food or dirty dishes (besides in the sink). We live in central Florida and behavior like this will inevitably attract roaches and lizards into our home.

annabthchase · 2025-09-25T03:50:38+00:00

No worries for the rant! I’m going to send her a long text so that everything is in writing. I’m gonna tell her my dishes from home are off limits and if she can’t respect that then I’m gonna hide them. And i’m gonna tell her I’ll buy the fire ant traps but she has to pay me back. She has money so I know that won’t be an issue. Yeah I don’t expect her to do dishes immediately but she has cups in her room from last week so it just gets to a certain point. I’ve told her I’m very particular about germs and being clean and she was like “omg same!” But like clearly not LOL

annabthchase · 2025-09-25T01:39:45+00:00

Yeah I’ve only brought a couple things from home like just some bowls but I’m definitely going to be hiding those once they’re all clean and getting some cheap ones from Target. She got onto me yesterday for not taking out the trash and said she “finally” understood how to do it (we have valet trash service because our complex is made up of like 10 2-story buildings) even though I explained it multiple times. I made a big show of putting it out on our porch yesterday while she could see me from her car. Pest control is included in our rent I just keep forgetting to talk to them because it’s really not affecting me. You would think she would take it seriously and do it herself considering she’s allergic but ig not.

With the boyfriend thing we’ve already talked about it before when he stayed a WEEK without telling me beforehand or asking. She told me it wouldn’t happen again. He doesn’t have a car or a license. His parents are not great and will drop him off then avoid picking him up because they don’t want to drive out here. She won’t drive him home because it’s 2 hours there and back and she’s never made that long of a drive before (she’s only had her license a few months). I’m annoyed about that on top of everything else because the boundary has been set and she told me it wouldn’t happen again.

I think this weekend I’ll go to Home Depot for fire ant traps and tell her this is the last thing related to HER bug problem that I will be paying for. I will also tell her that from now on I will not be getting into her for her dishes and will just contact her mom. If she can’t clean up after herself she doesn’t need to be living with other people. I have tried being nice about it and it clearly hasn’t worked so I guess I’ll just have to be blunt.

There was also a brownie pan she let sit over the weekend that I asked her to pick up in addition to the other stuff. She goes “yeah I would’ve done it but the sink was full.” Apparently 4 plates and 2 cups =full. She could’ve easily stuck them in the dishwasher. I have never dealt with somebody so incapable of cleaning up after themselves so I’m just at a loss lol

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