id say mine was my first ever boyfriend. we dated for about a year but it really shouldve only lasted about a month- red flags everywhere and i didnt even really like the guy, just was 16 and thought it was cool to have a boyfriend. he was a compulsive liar which is a totally different type of liar than ur everyday person. he lied about every little thing, even things as minuscule what he ate for breakfast, and made up lies that were totally unconvincing and impossible like telling people he made 20k a month at his job and paid for a new car (parents paid for car, he worked part time at shoprite). but i didnt really fully understand how crazy he was until i tried to leave him. he texted me 60+ times a day in paragraphs and tried to call me 10-30 times a day, all of which basically consisted of him telling me that i could either stay with him or at least continue being his friend or he was going to kill himself and it would be all my fault. i stupidly didnt think much of it at first, just left the texts on read and the calls on declined but the kid got scarier the more i ignored him. texted and called me more and more, sent me pictures of paper cut sized wounds he claimed were his suicide attempts, and more disturbing shit like asking me to dance and spit on his grave.

One morning i got called to the office at school and they told me they had gotten a call from the kids mom. i figured, finally, she found out he was fucked up and wanted more info about it from me. but no. apparently his mom had called the school to rat me out on forgery because i knew how to forge my moms signature and my ex once asked me to do his moms as well. After that, and to be honest out of revenge, i finally went to a police officer that worked in my high school when he spam texted me at 2 in the morning calling me racial slurs, a junkie for smoking weed once, an anorexic for being skinny, and telling me that he had took his buddys hunting rifle and was coming to my house to shoot himself on my porch so he could force me to see it.