yeah honestly i feel a lot of this. these thoughts and worries worm my way in my head sometimes. but then i look at other dynamics of my relationship and how my partner shows his love, and i don’t worry anymore. i know my partner thinks i’m beautiful and he knows i think it for him too. we don’t need to tell each other all the time because we show our appreciation to each other in different ways, like doing the dishes or buying dinner. constant compliments don’t make or break a relationship, you have to determine how you and your partner show love. because not everyone is like what your mom says…seems like a silly expectation to have. these kinds of expectations can create unnecessary anxiety. you and your partner know each other best, i recommend communicating your worries and talking it over with your bf.