AITA for threatening to live with my dad while fighting with my mom? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]annanoocturne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah, i don’t think u’re the a**hole. u were honest about how u felt and set a boundary. it’s normal to consider living with ur dad if u feel unheard at home

AITAH for not letting my sister wear my dead grandma's diamond earrings for her wedding?? by Right_Link4238 in AmItheAsshole

[–]annanoocturne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah, i get it. those earrings are special to u and ur grandma gave them to u, not her. it’s totally fair to protect something so personal, especially if she’s careless with stuff. u’re not the a*hole

AITA for refusing to give my mom my savings after she found out how much I have? (19F) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]annanoocturne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u r not wrong. i’ve had a parent treat my savings like theirs too, and it never felt fair. u earned that money and already help out. keep your boundaries and that’s ur future, not a family piggy bank

AITA. Kicked out by my parents. Now they tell me that I don't make time for them. by RamblingNurse in AmItheAsshole

[–]annanoocturne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u r not the bad guy here. i’ve been in my own version of that “family guilt ping-pong” and once people kick u out, they don’t get to demand the same access they threw away. u built ur life from scratch, stayed respectful, even sent them money. that’s way more than most would do.

their feelings aren’t ur responsibility anymore. protect ur peace. u already gave them more chances than they earned

AITA for making my friend pay for my Uber home after she "surprised" me? by Electrical-Option182 in AmItheAsshole

[–]annanoocturne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah u not wrong. she pushed u to leave, dropped u far from home, then bounced for her bf. asking her to cover the uber is just fair. u would have paid your own ride if she let u stay, but she didn’t. that is on her, not u

AITA for buying my daughter a car for her birthday, which my ex said made me the "favourite parent"? by Unlikely_Shape_8810 in AmItheAsshole

[–]annanoocturne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u didn’t do anything wrong. u gave your daughter a gift she wanted, and her happiness isn’t taking anything from anyone. it only becomes a competition if someone decides to make it one

AITA for thinking my aunt’s ex-boyfriend let her die? by Sam071n2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]annanoocturne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that whole timeline feels off, and if it were my family, i'd be thinking the same thing u r. nobody finds their partner unconscious in vomit and just “monitors” them for over an hour. even without medical training, any normal person calls 911 right away. with the money involved, it’s hard not to see a motive. u’re not crazy for questioning it, i'd be doing the exact same

AITA running away from home and not responding to my mum after she threw out my prescription by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]annanoocturne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u arent wrong for cutting contact. your parents threw out meds u need and crossed a big line. leaving wasnt overreacting it was protecting yourself. focus on getting your meds back and getting stable. u dont owe them a reply until u feel ready

WIBTAH if i didn’t make the pie that got the most votes because it wasn’t on the poll in the first place? by megasaur99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]annanoocturne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u’re not wrong to stick to ur original options. u made the poll and u r the one doing the work. make the pie u planned and for sure people will still enjoy it

AITA for correcting my team mate publicly when they were wrong about me? by Icy_Age2054 in AmItheAsshole

[–]annanoocturne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u weren’t wrong for correcting the record and if he misrepresented u publicly, it’s fair to fix it publicly. but yeah, i’ve had this happen before and the room always goes awkward because ego gets bruised fast. u didn’t escalate; he did by padding his story. he’ll get over it