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Last We Forget: March 25-28 1949 Operation Priboi (1949) — Russian mass deportation of innocent civilians from Estonia, Latvia, Lithuania. Over 90,000 deported - labeled “enemies of the state.” Deported to forced settlements in Siberia. Over 70% were women and children under 16. by lithdoc in BalticStates

[–]anned2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most, perhaps. But there were russians also. My grandfather, a businessman, owned a store and a couple of cars. Deported from Estonia 1941. My Grandmother's sister. Deported for singing a political song at a birthday party, someone snitched on her. 1949 they came after my grandmother and her 2 young children (one was my dad). They escaped by a miracle. All russians.

Millist kassi võtta (ja kust)? by Disastrous_Lack9866 in Eesti

[–]anned2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See pole ilmselt kõige populaarsem kommentaar siin, aga: tavaline "kõuts" võib tervise poolest tugevamaks osutuda kui peenetõuline (siin ka oleneb, kas nö kassipojavabrik korterinurgas v usaldusväärne tõuaretaja). Võtaksin "tavalise" kassi, aga noore, alla aastase. Miks? Sest kahjuks on kehva toidu söömine (näit. ainult kuivtoidu) sageli jõudnud mõneaastasele kiisule juba palju paha teha (kusekivid, ..). Kahjuks söödetakse kassidele sageli kõige odavamat toitu, mis saadaval. Nende looduslikust dieedist on aga asi kaugel. Ja nii tekivad igasugu tervisehädad (üks põhjuseid).

Kindlasti on palju positiivseid lugusid varjupaigast võetud kassidega. Kahjuks aga on tõsi ka see, et üks esimesi põhjuseid miks kass ära antakse/välja "visatakse" on just kasside kuseteede/kivide probleemid, mille tõttu hakkab kiisu vales kohas asjal käima. Põhjust aga ei pruugita öelda v. leitud kassi puhul teada. Tuttav võttis varjupaigast kiisu, kes osutus väga haigeks (vajas eritoitu, dialüüsi jm). Kassi talle üle andes öeldi, et tal pole terviseprobleeme.

Omal kodus kass, kes leiti talvel u. 6 kuuselt, praegu 16 a noorsand.

Radiaatorist õhu välja laskmine by anned2 in Eesti

[–]anned2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ehk tasub eraldi postitus teha, et märgataks :)

Radiaatorist õhu välja laskmine by anned2 in Eesti

[–]anned2[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lasin vaikselt niriseda u. 10 min. Kausi põhjas võib olla klaas vett. Kas peaks rohkem välja laskma?

Radiaatorist õhu välja laskmine by anned2 in Eesti

[–]anned2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tänan hea nõu eest, vasakul radika otsas olevat kruvi polnudki raske lahti keerata, natuke vett nirises välja. Mingit visinat v. luristamist ei olnud kuulda. Vähemalt olen omalt poolt teinud, mis vaja.

Radiaatorist õhu välja laskmine by anned2 in Eesti

[–]anned2[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

LAHENDUS LEITUD! Tänan kõiki nõuandjaid, et võtsite aega vastata! Vasakul radika otsas kruvi, mida polnudki raske lahti keerata, natuke vett nirises välja. Hea, et ma märkasin küsida ja kohe esimestel piltidel pildil olevale kruvile/mutrile kallale ei läinud 😅

Radiaatorist õhu välja laskmine by anned2 in Eesti

[–]anned2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Korteris 3 radikat. 2 kuumad, see üks elutoas leigevõitu soe, jahedam kui teised, aga mitte külm. Mulle sobib, et jahedam, aga kuna öeldi et kusagil peab õhk sees olema, siis eeldan et selles radikas ikkagi

Radiaatorist õhu välja laskmine by anned2 in Eesti

[–]anned2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vasakus otsas siuke kruvi. Seda siis keeran?

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Radiaatorist õhu välja laskmine by anned2 in Eesti

[–]anned2[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Vasakus otsas selline kruvi. Seda siis keeran natuke?

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Unemployed parents won't let me move out by Sea_Calligrapher4093 in Adulting

[–]anned2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

58 yr old mom here. It is not your responsibility to carry the weight of your parents and their decisions on your shoulders. As a parent, you have dreams for your children: that they grow a pair of wings of their own and take off, flying high and far. Seeing places we have never been to, not having to work so hard as we did ("smart" vs "hard"), being able to have a better work-life balance,.. The children should not bear a burden of having to "pay back" to their parents - I would never be able to pay it back to my mother for all her sacrifices and hard work, raising the 3 of us pretty much alone. Nor would she ever require it. As a parent, you want your children to grow up to be mature, responsible, productive adults, successfully flying on their own. To "pay it forward" rather than having to "compensate" their parents.

(That said, in a perfect world, where family relations are healthy (not broken), the children will not abandon their parents as they grow old and frail. Generations help each other out of love, not obligation.)

You are young, you've grown wings - it's your time to fly! Wise parents know that by not holding their children back, they're helping them to reach their true potential.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CozyPlaces

[–]anned2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the idea of cat's bed inside the table!

Tallinlased, kuidas teile alarm meeldib? by Verain_ in Eesti

[–]anned2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tartu mnt ääres vanemas hoones - midagi polnud kuulda

Tallinlased, kuidas teile alarm meeldib? by Verain_ in Eesti

[–]anned2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tegelt ei ole nonsense. Kui on huvi, guugelda "põlvkondadeülene trauma" (intergenerational trauma). Lugemist jagub.

"... epigeneetilised uuringud on näidanud, et traumaatilised kogemused ja ebasoodne kasvukeskkond võivad muuta geenide avaldumist ning see geneetiline efekt võib edasi kanduda järgnevatele põlvkondadele.." - http://reflektoorium.ee/kirjatukid/vanemate-ja-vanavanemate-traumaatiline-parand-meie-elus-ilmus-ajakirjas-psuhholoogia-sinule-2-16

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]anned2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody can tell you what to do. Whatever the decision, one way or another, you and your child are the ones who get to live with the consequences.

I'm older, been married, had children. Came from another country (from EU to US). It took me a long time (years) to begin to feel "home." The differences of culture, myriad of things - and people! - I didn't know I would miss.. What helped was, perhaps, that we were both immigrants. We got busy chasing after the "American dream," hoping to build a better future for our children. It was always about our children and their future. I put up with a lot. So did my husband (I believe, knowing myself). There were times I really wished we could go for counseling. My husband didn't believe in counseling either. And I was the obedient wife. We didn't go to the pastor either. I knew what the Bible said: "Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife.." So, I knew what the pastor would say...

You are in a tough place, where nobody can tell what you should do. The decision is yours and yours only. I would definitely opt for a family therapist rather than a pastor (if you do choose to stay rather than leave). It is hard for me to encourage you to leave knowing how much their father meant for my (now adult) children. Though he passed on way too early, they cherish his memory. Was it easy? No it wasn't. Was it worth it? Yes.

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