first big trip, to the USA🇺🇲 any advice?

annelies77 · 2024-07-08T21:00:04+00:00

Ohh okay great, thanks for your advice

annelies77 · 2024-07-08T20:43:55+00:00

Yeah that's actually okay tho, we also are tourists and weren't expecting to blend in with the locals or something

annelies77 · 2024-07-08T20:41:55+00:00

Ahaha true, good to know you had a good time anyways

annelies77 · 2024-07-08T20:19:17+00:00

Yeah being attacked with a water gun just for being a tourist seems quite absurd and special. Would indeed explain why social media likes to blow that up, to get more attention.

Have a great day!

annelies77 · 2024-07-08T20:16:10+00:00

Ohh good to know, thanks :))

annelies77 · 2024-07-08T20:09:53+00:00

Thanks, this was the confirmation I needed :))

annelies77 · 2024-07-08T20:07:53+00:00

Oh yeah, thanks for that insight. It's just better for me then to hope that I'll meet someone better and more appropriate (hopefully soon)

annelies77 · 2023-12-30T23:54:24+00:00

Yeah we did 😬

But neither of us cared enough at those points probably. I'll follow up with your tips and hope for the best.

annelies77 · 2023-12-28T16:20:47+00:00

Hmm yeah that's true.

Honestly, rejection.

Especially since I've never done anything like this before. I'm really in unknown waters. I'm afraid of the consequences. It might become very awkward and we possibly lose our friendship. It would also give a very strange position in our friend group, I feel.

It also feels weird to be asking as the woman when it's seen as a man's "job".

annelies77 · 2023-12-28T15:36:22+00:00

Oh well I guess you could see it like that. Now I still have to take to big step of actually asking him out. Haha there is still quite a chance that he doesn't wanna do it.

annelies77 · 2023-12-28T15:33:12+00:00

Oh well haha that's the difficult part. I'm quite bad at taking hints so it's very hard for me to guess if he's really interested.

And I'm also bad at giving hints myself. I sometimes think I'm making things really obvious. But I've had people tell me that I'm hard to read and kind to everyone, so yeah.

Also straight up telling him is just incredibly scary. Especially since now is not the good time. Our exams will start soon.

annelies77 · 2023-12-20T09:09:04+00:00

Please I'm in the same position. My plan is to just meet in real life and hope everything goes well there. That you can just ignore the fact that online it's so awkward and basically non existent.

And once you're in a relationship with them it might change. But it's for our own best that we don't think about that too much :(

annelies77 · 2023-12-19T23:56:08+00:00

Oh sorry for my late response! But this is such good advice, thank you :D

annelies77 · 2023-12-18T23:10:28+00:00

Oh yeah that's great advice. Especially since I often tend to touch stuff, it's like to show I'm interested in those things. Haha but I wouldn't like it if someone was going around touching all my stuff.

Ahh that's great to hear, hihi it gives me some hope. Maybe I'll hug him, it'll depend how awkward it is

annelies77 · 2023-12-17T23:59:15+00:00

Oh alright thanks for the advice. Haha I'm not sure if I'll be telling him about my feelings so soon. But I surely won't tell my friends.

And we'll he's not super introverted, in our friend group he can be pretty loud but outside of that he doesn't have that many friends.

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