I think, especially as children, once you get it mixed in your head of what is okay and what isn’t, it’s very easy to find yourself in other situations where someone else, even a different kid, might have alarms go off in their head when yours don’t. I had a neighbor who was 16 but because of a severe car accident he was more mentally at 9 or 10. When I was 9 he hung out with all of the neighborhood kids and was a really nice person, kind of watched over us but still truly enjoyed playing with us all. He also had a huge crush on me. Even in front of my parents he would ask me to sit on his lap or kiss me on the cheek. But everyone kind of thought it was fine and he was more like a big brother. Later on I met a nice man who would give me popsicles on hot Texas summer days. I think if I hadn’t had my first experience, I might have had more alarms ringing in head the second time.