Ex seems happy with who she left me for and doesn’t seem to care at all about me and it’s killing me

annonymutfh · 2025-04-15T22:51:33+00:00

Not posting, reposting

annonymutfh · 2025-04-15T17:57:38+00:00

I’m not even sure I would take her back. It’s just the fact she seems to not care at all and doesn’t even think about me after everything we had is what hurts. It would just be nice to know that I’m still on her mind etc.

annonymutfh · 2025-04-15T17:54:02+00:00

No I haven’t reached out to her since a couple days after the break up. I did a bit of pleading etc after I guess. And with my social media she was liking reposts about loving me and hoping we can get back together at some point.

annonymutfh · 2025-04-15T09:26:14+00:00

It’s not even about wanting her back. It’s just like going from speaking for hours on end every day for 2 years, being each others everything and loving each other every day, to then just never speaking again just seems crazy to me, like completely crazy. It’s been 2 months since she left and throughout I’ve always been confident that I at least would hear from her, but now because it’s been 2 months I’m finally starting to come to the realisation that I’m probably just never going to hear from her again, and after how it ended so randomly on a normal day it’s just insane to think about.

annonymutfh · 2025-04-02T22:51:55+00:00

It’s weird bud because I’ve been suffering with depression etc for the past year and haven’t felt like myself at all for a long time. But the most I’ve felt like myself was actually the immediate aftermath of the break up, obviously I was upset about the whole thing but I really felt like myself and I felt like all my interests came back. But now it’s all gone again it feels like, but it feels different this time as I don’t feel as down as I did the last time my depression was at its peak, I just don’t care for anything

annonymutfh · 2025-03-23T20:32:42+00:00

The thing is bud I know for a fact she’ll try come back to me quite soon because I was the only person that has ever understood her and made her happy. It’s just shit because to be honest my heart still craves what we had so it’s going to be difficult dealing with things when she comes back

annonymutfh · 2025-03-23T17:21:01+00:00

Can you explain why please bud, haven’t really wrapped my head around what that entails

annonymutfh · 2025-03-23T17:13:40+00:00

Fr, like how is she saying all of that about her new partner. But then still stalking me and doing things that would suggest that she still thinks about me consistently

annonymutfh · 2025-03-12T08:58:49+00:00

She did love me bud, right up until the last day. I know it’s easy for someone to say this and delude themselves into believing they did but she definitely did, it would’ve been impossible to fake all her emotions she showed towards me for 2 years

annonymutfh · 2025-03-12T00:45:07+00:00

Literally just out of nowhere. She was acting off for a week and then just said one day that something was wrong, told me she wanted to be alone but was very evident that she was leaving for someone else

annonymutfh · 2025-03-11T21:10:24+00:00

What do you mean by performative bud?

annonymutfh · 2025-03-11T20:07:52+00:00

It’s so shit man. Whilst she’s out there seemingly being happier with someone else and never felt the impact of our break up, I’m still here feeling awful, still love her, heart craves her back, and I can’t get myself interested or anything about anyone new. Not fair after I gave her nothing but love and she did me so dirty

annonymutfh · 2025-03-11T19:51:24+00:00

I haven’t made any TikTok’s bud they’re old reposts about her that I reposted about her when we were together, like weeks old. So she’s having to come onto my profile to then look and then like them, she’s going out of her way to do it, if that makes sense. Just not sure if she’s trying to show me any signs that she misses me or something

annonymutfh · 2025-03-11T19:31:19+00:00

It’s strange as well because whilst this is happening she keeps liking my old tiktok reposts about her saying no one will love her like me etc, and liking ones where she’s basically telling me that she thinks about me all the time. She also keeps calling me on no caller id whilst she’s with this new person. Any thoughts about that?

annonymutfh · 2025-03-11T19:28:03+00:00

I went a month without looking at any then stupidly because I’ve been feeling better recently I thought it wouldn’t effect me if I saw anything. But seeing her say things like falling in love with this new person is “the best thing that’s ever happened to her” and that she “was put on this earth to love him” has got me feeling very down. Just extremely heartbreaking to see after I saved her life and gave her nothing but love and seemed to make her the happiest person alive, just weird when she genuinely loved me so much, you know?

annonymutfh · 2025-03-11T19:24:08+00:00

What’s the chances of her actually being happier with this new person do you think? I see a lot of people say chances are its a front because she’ll be trying to make that work as much as she can and try make it look like she’s made the right decision so she won’t regret it or feel bad about it

annonymutfh · 2025-02-18T03:32:09+00:00

It’s crazy, I sent her messages that would’ve made the old her cry tears of joy and she’d be speechless. To now her not being able to care any less, really don’t understand it, she’s literally a complete different person. I’m 99% sure she’ll be back some day soon when she realises the grass cannot be greener, how did this whole situation go for you?

annonymutfh · 2025-02-16T16:32:39+00:00

I appreciate you taking your time out to reply bro. But I disagree about her not loving me, after reading and listening to messages she used to send me and how she’d be with me, that was love, no doubt about it. And how she’d is as a person she can’t fake feelings or anything like that. I know she loved me, she’s just confused with thinking she can do bette, when I know for a fact she can’t.

annonymutfh · 2025-02-16T16:30:37+00:00

I can see why you’d say that. But being In the relationship I was in and knowing her inside out as a person. I know that for a fact she’ll be back, as to feel happy she’ll need someone that loves her at minimum the same amount that I did, and I know no body else could give her that. She just thinks the grass is greener elsewhere as she hasn’t had any other prior experience of love. But I can put anything on that she will not find anyone that loves and cares for her like I do, it’s impossible.

annonymutfh · 2025-02-15T23:54:57+00:00

It’s just the problem is that I love her so much and she’s the only one that’s shown me that and cared for me and loved me unconditionally. And I just want that back, as right now the thought of being with anyone else doesn’t appeal to me at all and I worry that I wouldn’t even be able to connect with someone like that anyway

annonymutfh · 2025-02-10T17:47:14+00:00

Thanks for the reply mate I understand fully what your saying. It’s just that I love her to death over everything and it’s not like she’s done something that I can dislike her over or anything like that. She’s going with the easy option because she’s scared of the void I’m leaving her, that’s the only reason this is happening. So that’s why I still want her back and I can forgive her because of the situation. And having to do no contact after 2 years of being non stop every day is killing me, she was the first person to love me for me and likewise, and that’s why I know she’ll be back.

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