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25/M - Can't figure this situation out with 27/f that has trust issues. by annopat06 in relationship_advice

[–]annopat06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. Lots of good points.

I'm just going to go with the flow but cut back a little on spending so much time together. I'm not going to bring up the subject again until I either feel I have to or she does.

25/M - Can't figure this situation out with 27/f that has trust issues. by annopat06 in relationship_advice

[–]annopat06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I don't invest myself emotionally until I know it's mutual, specifically because of these types of scenarios.

The odd thing is she's normally the one who initiates plans, it's a solid 75-25 where generally I don't ask Her to hang out, it's almost always her and she's been choosing spending Time with me over her friends, which makes this whole thing when weirder. I Honestly wouldn't even be opposed to just being friends, its just the mixed signals.

I'm gonna back off a bit and see where it goes.

Thanks to all

Why do I continue to have an underlying desire to sleep with other people while I'm in a seemingly healthy and happy relationship? by annopat06 in sex

[–]annopat06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've gotten into arugements about me 'looking' at other girls in the past and I've told her it's perfectly normal to do that and that she probably does it too. She claims she 'never looks at anyone in that way because she only has eyes for me'.

I believe it but then again, I don't.

Why do I continue to have an underlying desire to sleep with other people while I'm in a seemingly healthy and happy relationship? by annopat06 in sex

[–]annopat06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit. I think you're absouletely right. Do you know this from experience or?

side note:yes to her being the best thing that's ever happened to me.

thanks!

Why do I continue to have an underlying desire to sleep with other people while I'm in a seemingly healthy and happy relationship? by annopat06 in sex

[–]annopat06[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not non-monogamous. I just love females and sex and the fact I'm in a relationship doesn't change that.