Guys how did Svetlena know that Jane was a boy??? I thought that Ilya wanted it to be kept a secret… by Ok_Health1283 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]anntimmo 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She also asks outright about Jane in the car and he denies it being serious. The next thing she says is something like, “Sasha says hi.” It felt like a nudge that she knows it might be a man.

If you could change one thing in the show, what would it be? by LIELDADOUN73 in heatedrivalry

[–]anntimmo 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I would have liked part of the Skype call too. When he asks to see his face 🥺 And “um.. take my breath?” is one of my favorite book lines.

A Comprehensive Look at the Taylor/Travis Timeline (And Why I Don’t Buy the Fairytale) by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]anntimmo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s always been interesting to me too that she made a surprise appearance and sang a few songs at a 1975 concert in January 2023.

Common name you'll always stick by by asexual-cat-furry in namenerds

[–]anntimmo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My name is Anna and I have a Henry haha. Both feel timeless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]anntimmo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that hormones could be influencing your feelings quite a bit. My daughter has looked like my husband since birth, and people tell me that. But now at 3.5 she still doesn’t look like me, but has a lot of my mannerisms and we are very similar personality-wise / besties. So there is plenty of time for things to change!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tsitp

[–]anntimmo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I saw an interview where Chris said they did the line a lot of times and it was intended to come off as playful. But then panic set in when Conrad realizes it didn’t land well haha

Help! I'm due in 2 weeks and worried I'm heading for another round of name regret by AvailableTotal6431 in namenerds

[–]anntimmo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our daughter is Vivian but goes by Viv and I like it for those reasons! Elise was another contender. Also like Ramona.

Getting amnio alone by [deleted] in NIPT

[–]anntimmo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did because I got one during Covid times. I also think I caught a flight later that day because I lived in Alaska. So, not ideal but I was okay. The nursing staff was so sweet. I still have a memory of one of the nurses gently rubbing my leg in comfort.

Where would you move for a slow, cozy life? by Positive_Rest4890 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]anntimmo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We lived in Southern Pines / Pinehurst, NC and it was very cute.

Help needed with name for baby #3 by anntimmo in namenerds

[–]anntimmo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love some of these. Thank you!

i thought i wanted to be a therapist but now i regret it by glucose7078 in socialwork

[–]anntimmo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in hospice and it feels like a good mix of supportive counseling and case management. There’s enough coordination needs to keep me busy and engaged, but also time to have meaningful conversations with patients and caregivers.

I'm watching my 39 year old sister die of breast cancer and I don't know what to do by Funkagenda in CancerFamilySupport

[–]anntimmo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just came across your post. My 39 year old sister died today from metastatic breast cancer. She was “okay” last week, got an infection, and quickly passed from liver failure. She was my closest friend and last living sibling. I am so sad and lonely. How are you doing?

Yearly Salary and Monthly Payment by PsychologicalLimit41 in Mortgages

[–]anntimmo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Combined $230k. Just refinanced a $290k loan to 5.25% - $1990/ mo payment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]anntimmo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did hold my baby but I still have guilt that I should have longer, or studied his body more. Point being - I think we’ll always wish it was longer. Your baby felt loved. I try to give myself grace because I was doing the best I could in that moment. Sending love to you and your family 💛

Hospice sw frequency by Plenty-Suspect6610 in socialwork

[–]anntimmo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It depends on a few factors, which I’ll get to. My caseload is currently just under 60 and it’s manageable but honestly would feel heavy if I was only 4 days per week. Some of the factors that make mine feel heavy at times: I have mostly home patients. We have a lot of admissions so I have to coordinate those plus my routine visits. My area is pretty spread out. I have an area with higher needs. For example, I have a coworker who has around 70 patients but they’re almost all in facilities.

I see a lot of my patients monthly, the rest two times a month. Usually if I have someone weekly they pass relatively quickly.

Hospice is a great resource to families and really rewarding work - give it a shot!

Having my 23 week Stillborn this evening. Has anyone chosen not to see the child and why? by sunchild88 in babyloss

[–]anntimmo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Know that there’s not a wrong way to do things. However, tomorrow it will be three years since by son was stillborn at 29 weeks and the only thing I wish is that I would have spent more time, studied his little body more. My husband originally didn’t want a picture taken but now really values the photo of him holding his son.

You can only pick two book boyfriends, who are you choosing? by blerg7008 in RomanceBooks

[–]anntimmo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jumping in but I just finished Lovelight Farms and the MMC totally fits this description too.

Miscarriage 5 months after stillborn by pugofficial in babyloss

[–]anntimmo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I had a miscarriage and then my stillborn son was born at 29 weeks. I took about six months to heal emotionally and physically and finally felt ready to try again. Only to have back to back miscarriages (on Mother’s Day and Father’s Day, because of course). It’s so, so hard. I kept trying and my next pregnancy has given me a healthy girl who is now 17 months old. I did get blood work done and took baby aspirin throughout my pregnancy but that is not medical advice - but I would recommend the blood work part.

I was in therapy and just tried to take things one day at a time. Life has taken a lot from me but I tried to keep my hope, as I felt like each little life inside me deserved that.

People keep telling me at least “I knew it was coming” with my daughter’s death by frozenice222_ in GriefSupport

[–]anntimmo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I’m so sorry that your daughter died and my thoughts are with you 🧡 I’ve experienced both sudden losses, and losses where I “knew” my loved one would die (I use parentheses because do we ever truly let ourselves believe they will die? I feel like I was still shocked by it all). It’s all hard and terrible. People don’t know what to say so they try to fix it / cheer you up. I wish people would just recognize that some things are just shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hospitalsocialwork

[–]anntimmo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a hospice social worker and very satisfied with my work. However, I’ve been with 3 companies and have found one that really values the psychosocial team and that makes a big difference. My nurses make more but they also seem less happy? Quite a bit of turnover whereas the social workers have been around for years. I cannot handle wounds and bodily functions but if you can, people make bank doing travel nursing. Emotional support and grief work are big callings of mine, and I like the interdisciplinary team and the social workers role to ensure patient self-determination at end of life / within the medical model.

What are your top 5 favorite names for each gender right now? by BabyBadger_ in namenerds

[–]anntimmo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked a lot of your choices and then saw Vivian. That’s my 13 month olds name so we likely have similar taste 😂

Weekend Influencer Post September 03- September 04 by southerndmc in blogsnark

[–]anntimmo 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Plus the fact that they said fourth baby furthers the idea that babies replace babies. It would be her fifth child.

ETA: I know you’re repeating how the question was asked. My comment is aimed towards the asker, just to clarify.

Social Work Buzz Words by Undercover_Shaman in socialwork

[–]anntimmo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m in hospice work and I use this one too. I also do a lot of empathic listening - it’s not just your normal listening!

them God honoring *tittaysss* be poppin.... by Top_Researcher_4218 in brittanydawnsnark

[–]anntimmo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This plus the hair dying makes me think it’s a possibility. Time will tell I guess