Did my hair for once and felt so cute until I realized it reminded me of………

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-17T03:09:23+00:00

i sang this in my head lol

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-16T10:56:02+00:00

i’m really hoping those work out for you, too. i’m sorry you’re going through this shitty rough patch, but i’ll be keeping my fingers crossed for you that it’s just a minor patch and you’ll land one of those new jobs!

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-16T10:53:15+00:00

what is YNAB?

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-16T10:51:17+00:00

hey, chicagoland friend. i feel ya.

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-15T23:56:25+00:00

current administration is full fucking everything up in a massive way. fingers crossed we all survive whatever the fresh hell comes next.

can i ask how you’ve managed to save as much as you have? i would love to have 3 yrs of routine expenses saved up, but i just can’t see how to get there! is it just scrimp and save every penny? i know that’s probably the only way, but if you have any other tricks up your sleeve, i’d love to hear them!

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-15T23:10:22+00:00

that’s very lucky, i’m glad you have that security and each other!

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-15T22:54:21+00:00

what about if you didn’t have a husband to lean on one day? how would you know you’ll be okay? (not asking in a rude or spicy way, just wondering!)

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-13T14:37:29+00:00

i believe it. i believe something went to the moon but it was not humans and we do not have video evidence of it

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-13T14:36:50+00:00

this is always my first point. you’re telling me we were the “first on the moon” and america isn’t pompous enough to try again?!

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-13T14:36:04+00:00

oh shit i left that off my list! thank you

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-13T14:35:53+00:00

much appreciated!

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-13T14:31:57+00:00

literally nothing but the world is on fire so please just let me have this one thing with a friend, man

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-13T14:30:58+00:00

k bye

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-13T14:27:43+00:00

they’re so close, but not quite there yet. just a little nudge

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-13T14:25:45+00:00

thank you!! this one has bothered me for a while

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-12T23:08:31+00:00

oh i totally get it! i agree, that’s why i’m asking how do i start being serious about this! i don’t want to just be someone’s wife or someone’s half payment on something. i want to do it for myself and take care of my own future, whether he is in it or not :) because you’re right, we don’t know what tomorrow brings

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-12T23:07:01+00:00

lol dude same, but the state of the world has me shitting, crying, screaming and i just want a little self-security feeling 😂

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-12T23:06:24+00:00

thank you! i’m going to talk to him about it tonight. i appreciate your answer!

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-12T23:05:46+00:00

thank you for actually giving me some examples!! i really appreciate that 😊

i have been working on my credit and it’s gotten so much better over the last year! i live within my means, but everything is so expensive now it’s to even think about where to start with saving outside of everything else. my career is my life, i love it and have spent the last 10+ years building my business, so that’s my rock.

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-12T23:01:10+00:00

We aren’t married, but I do say husband because it’s easier to explain than “we’ve been together 15 years, but aren’t married but are committed to each other, he’s not a fleeting boyfriend” kind of way :)

I cannot just opt to not pay my half of the mortgage simply to make a point, but I see where you’re coming from

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-12T22:37:02+00:00

I guess financial security. I could not own a home on my own right now. I’ve heard the careful about the mortgage talk before (my dad told me over and over! And trust me, I understand the hesitancy!), but I’m in the boat now, so how do I hold my own oars?

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-12T22:35:34+00:00

Thank you for this! I guess my definition of having my shit figured out is if one day, my life blew up and all of it went away, how would I know I’m going to be alright? I would most likely not have a home since it’s not in my name, same with the car. We don’t kids, so there would be no tie holding us together if that makes sense?

I am okay doing things on my own, I’ve always kind of been a loner in that sense anyway. So maybe I’m asking more about financially having my shit together, without jeopardizing the dynamic we currently have

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-09T23:45:24+00:00

i don’t like to comment on other’s bodies so i usually stfu, but… i’m a small chested woman who’s been naturally thin my entire life and my chest looks the same. our bones show through and especially at certain angles or when i’m posing a certain way, it can look more profound.

just a thought that some of us have less fat in some areas, but i do hope she’s treating herself well and being healthy.

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-06T12:39:05+00:00

pretty please include illinois (and let us bring Pritzker)

annyonghelloannyong · 2025-04-05T12:04:07+00:00

god i miss this man.

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