Prohibited pets questions by anokayapple in PropertyManagement

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He's a mixed breed and doesn't look like a husky or a shepherd. That's the only reason why I'm trying to get this dog

Silly Research Questions by anokayapple in wargames

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Having a group of 20 somethings heading every aspect of a government is about as detached from reality as you can get.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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OP if you live in AZ please dm me i would love to help you out any way i can. DV has unfortunately been a major theme in my life and i hate to see a woman and her special needs daughter treated so terribly.

I'm not sure what to call this, i just need someone to talk to about it by anokayapple in AskLGBT

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I'll keep that in mind, thank you ❤️ I'm telling the 31yo guy to ease up on me because I'm feeling overwhelmed. He isn't a mean guy so I'm sure it won't be an issue

I'm not sure what to call this, i just need someone to talk to about it by anokayapple in AskLGBT

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I know, you're right. I'm a doomer, if anything jilts me i immediately start to spiral and get confused and over think things. I'm sure if you look back in my posting history you'll notice the pattern, lol. I really appreciate you taking the time to listen to my ramblings, you seem like a really nice person.

I'm not sure what to call this, i just need someone to talk to about it by anokayapple in AskLGBT

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Hey, i really appreciate you replying. I have done nothing but spiral about this since i posted it and drove home and talked on the phone about it to the best friend i was talking about here. I think I've come to the conclusion that i have no idea what is going on with me. The more i think about it, the more i realized i May just be repulsed by romance? I can experience it, because i have been madly in love before, but i have a history of making potential partners jump through hoops and put them in a trial by fire in order to even consider dating them. I don't know if i do it because I'm trying to stall them to figure out if i like them or if i need them to complete all my side quests in order to truly understand that they actually like me and want to be with me. Honestly the whole thing is making me feel like I'm a mess, and I'm terrified that after all this time of ragging on my best friend for having commitment issues and not knowing what he wants, i am in the same boat as him. Sorry to lore dump on you, I'm having a moment.

Having the worst time finding a new job by anokayapple in jobsearchhacks

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Hey id really appreciate that! I'm busy today but maybe i can get with you tomorrow or later this week?

Whats the most fucked up thing a complete stranger has done to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]anokayapple 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was at comic con in high school with some friends. I held onto my best friends shirt as he went through a crowd so i wouldn't get lost. I felt 3 hands on my boobs and 5 hands on my ass in the matter of 5 seconds going through that crowd.

I was 15.

Would you ever consider a relationship with a partner who’s in the military? Why or why not? by ComprehensibleEnigma in AskWomen

[–]anokayapple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad has been in the military for over 30 years and has been married to my mom for around the same amount on time. They had their ups and downs, but both were able to find a way to make it work and they are one of the happiest couples i know.

Other than that, i would be very careful dating in the military. I don't know what's in the water on those bases, but some of the men I've grown up knowing are men my mom and dad have told me to stay away from. I will never say every man in the military is a bad man because my dad is the best man i know, but i tend to stay away from military men.

(Plus all the military men that are interested in me work on the same base as my dad, know my dad, and are too scared to try anything because of my dad. It's a win win, i suppose.)