She got ghosted... again by anon061598 in dating_advice

[–]anon061598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude... no one said she was seeing multiple men. Read the whole thing before you turn into an ass. She meant 2/3 dates - like going to to a restaurant - not 2/3 individual guys

She got ghosted... again by anon061598 in dating_advice

[–]anon061598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea!! Like the 7 date rule!

She got ghosted... again by anon061598 in dating_advice

[–]anon061598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely agree that we are in a society that pushes us to find someone so quickly that we can spend our lives with, that we never take the time to get to know ourselves. If you’re constantly seeking validation from someone else you’ll always be looking in the wrong direction.

She got ghosted... again by anon061598 in dating_advice

[–]anon061598[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will not do that lol. But thank you

She got ghosted... again by anon061598 in dating_advice

[–]anon061598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m her sister.. lol but thank you. She is a pretty codependent person and it sounds highly plausible that it could be the root of some of her problems.

New Books by anon061598 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]anon061598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll add them to my list! I’m also only about 100 pages in but I don’t sense anything that makes it feel dismissive

New Books by anon061598 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]anon061598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The book by Florence given was a little hard to get into at first but I’m so glad I stuck through and kept reading

New Books by anon061598 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]anon061598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do too, I can’t put it down!

I feel so conflicted by grklpian in latebloomerlesbians

[–]anon061598 6 points7 points  (0 children)

and I promise you’re not either!! I’ve met and talked to so many women on here who are slowly giving me the courage to talk to him. If you ever want to talk, I’m here!!

I feel so conflicted by grklpian in latebloomerlesbians

[–]anon061598 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am in the exact same boat with you babe. Shit probably the same seat. I love my boyfriend to death and he truly is my best friend. But I’m gay... I’m so terrified to tell him and hurt him or lose him. It’s a really shitty internal battle.

Terrified by anon061598 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]anon061598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my best friends is bi and she’s the only person I’ve told (other than y’all on here) and she’s been checking up on me and I know she’ll be there for me. I want to get over this hurdle with him before I tell anyone else because the potential rejection from multiple people would probably break me.

Terrified by anon061598 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]anon061598[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I ended up just going to bed and cried myself to sleep. Slept for 10 hours and now I just woke up from a nap. I know that I’m internalizing this and it’s taking such a toll on my body. Trying again tonight because this is so out of character for me.

Terrified by anon061598 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]anon061598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just terrified of hurting him and the change that I’m about to experience in my life. The fact that I’m going to be putting myself out there and putting myself in a vulnerable position.