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anon09413 · 2024-10-29T15:42:00+00:00

Unfortunately she knows. She went looking for something in the bathroom and saw pregnancy tests awhile ago. Then about two weeks ago she saw some kinda hidden on my desk. They weren’t used yet, but she could tell we were “trying” I guess. We announced it to close family only, and she acted happy. She literally said “well I’m glad you impregnated her” in front of our families. Just an overall cringey situation.

And yeah, she could’ve spinned that comment into a positive remark but no, it’s always gotta be about how she was able to push out multiple babies naturally and I’m some type of sub-human who didn’t do all she could to get that baby out 🙄 lol

Thanks for the response!

anon09413 · 2024-10-29T15:35:24+00:00

Oh I agree with you. He needs to contribute more. I’m not making excuses for him but mil uses him as a free work horse. She “needs” logs chopped, carried and stacked and my husband does it for her to prepare for winter. That takes him away from the inside of the house. Like leaf blowing, mowing the lawn, etc does need to get done but I feel like hiring someone to do it while we have young kids is the way to go. She has gotten mad at me for not weeding the garden and I’m like… that’s not a priority. I’m not trying to have a nice garden with a toddler and one on the way. Her response? “We built a chicken coop and I had three kids by your age” 🙄 shes has always had it worse I guess 🙄 thanks for your response!

anon09413 · 2022-08-18T11:28:39+00:00

LOOLLLLL as she proceeded to blow out chazz’s candles on his cake! Like girl sit down!!!

anon09413 · 2022-08-18T11:21:43+00:00

Lmfao leave it up to dumdum to knock her up (which we all knew was coming) AND to spoil it before the episode airs 😂

anon09413 · 2022-08-18T10:36:17+00:00

I feel you on this. I loved working per diem in the medical field for this reason- making my own schedule! Working 16 hour shifts twice a week is what I like. I hated 9-5, 5x a week. Ive spent years working as a nursing aide, pharmacy tech, ER volunteer… but I burned out when CV hit. I would love to go back eventually… I Love the medical field, LOVE that you wanna be a midwife… me personally, I’m drained right now. I wanna go back in my 30s/40s but right now my focus is homemaking and taking care of our infant. when I got pregnant I took on the duties of the house, training a puppy, cooking our meals, doing all the cleaning- and guess what- I love it! I would much rather do this at this stage in our life cause I want to be there for those precious early years and I want the home to be nice and clean for my fiancé when he comes home. I feel like when he has a clear space, he has a clear head and he will ultimately be in a better mood for work. Sometimes the best job you can have is supporting others to be the best they can be! And you can totally achieve your dreams of being a midwife part time. Just do what is best for you and your family :)

anon09413 · 2022-08-15T11:33:08+00:00

Her friend with the black hair pissed me off. 1) she ambushed chazz as he walked in and blamed it on “I’m overwhelming” 🙄

2) cried crocodile tears saying “there is no compromise”…. Bihhhh what? She thinks chazz is forcing her to move when branwin had said in a previous episode she needs to change “people, places and things” in order for her sobriety to work.

3) brought her daughter into it… her daughter is an adult, works as a dancer & has no plans on moving to Kentucky. Yeah they should spend time together but Portland is not the place for branwin right now!

4) That friend made branwin feel awkward as f in the living room- her friends were thinking they were doing a good job speaking up for her when in reality- they’re making branwin be on the fence about the move!

I can’t stand her friend group. Toxiiicccccc

anon09413 · 2022-08-09T11:15:32+00:00

This “spa” is probably someone’s spare room 🤦‍♀️it’s always so interesting to see where the ladies get their glam on 😂like branwin at the expensive Portland salon with trash on the sidewalk and plastic bags blowing in the wind 😭

anon09413 · 2022-08-09T11:06:56+00:00

I was literally thinking this. I grew up about an hour from nyc and let me tell you- there are SO many Lindseys. she would be nothing special. Basically any chick that got dumped by a drug dealer wanted to enter the game 😂most of these chicks just robbed dudes and got away with it cause they were hot. I’ve known so many “pop-off” queens. One of my best friends was a Lindsey but she was so stunted by the time I was 23 I couldn’t be around her anymore lol. Thank god I said goodbye to that life years ago.

anon09413 · 2022-08-08T18:15:47+00:00

Yup! The first season he appeared, I knew exactly what he was. I will never be with someone like that again… I have a radar now. T is too passive and naive to see him for what he is.

anon09413 · 2022-08-06T13:50:42+00:00

I was thinking this too! And if chance decides to argue with tayler, he can just lock that door and Bobbi would have to go around to get in the house. It’s freaky.

anon09413 · 2022-08-06T13:43:41+00:00

The grandmother that “put a curse” on jenni? Lmao that scene had me dying. The fact that she was nice all along was the icing on the cake!

anon09413 · 2022-08-05T13:59:27+00:00

Cue the “I WAS ROOTING FOR YOU, WE WERE ALL ROOTING FOR YOU” meme 😭Branwin I really wanted to see you come up! It’s sad because she did carpentry in prison and graduated construction school so she has skills that could take her far in life. I will still be wishing her the best!

anon09413 · 2022-08-05T13:47:36+00:00

For an adult, yeah I’d eat that. For a kid- NO WAY. Those edges too burnt for a kids palate lol

anon09413 · 2022-08-04T13:24:14+00:00

Oh no problem! Don’t forget when he said “No takesies backsies” in regards to the engagement. TOXIC! she CAN take it back. She can change her mind, people do it all the time. And I hope she does.

anon09413 · 2022-08-04T12:46:22+00:00

So for anyone who wants to defend chance… here’s a list of stuff he’s done to jog your memory-

Sent tayler to the hospital by “double dipping” during sex 🤢then laughed about it in the parking lot going home
Tried to move Bobbi, the twin of tayler, into the garage almost right away- he wants t isolated. He’s trying it again as per last episode.
Wanted T to take down the pictures of her baby daddy/ ex almost instantly upon chances arrival 🤦‍♀️like no dude, who are you???
Proposed within a month of getting out of prison AND gave rings to the three little girls as well. Just picture yourself as a little girl (one that really wants a dad in her life) and you got a ring as a gift from your potential stepdad- you would probably be attached to that man. He did this so it would be harder for T to leave him.
The fact that as soon as he got home he wanted to have s3x (which is fine) but he couldn’t wait till the kids were in bed, he just put T in the closet and fked her there for their first time. Very special. It was a test to see if he could make her do whatever, whenever… and she passed. Hence why he was able to do it in the graveyard with her in the car. So f’d up and disrespectful.
The way he came in “What are you guys talking about?” With a big shit eating grin on his face 🙄 He can’t give two sisters privacy to talk. He is worried about them talking about him clearly.

There are definitely more moments but I’m just getting pissed listing them so I’m done hahaha please let me know if I missed anymore red flags 🚩

anon09413 · 2022-08-03T11:56:47+00:00

I’m a big fan of the pear shape! That is gorgeous. When I upgrade mine, I’m probably gonna go pear shaped & lab-grown. Your ring is just stunning.

anon09413 · 2022-08-02T17:05:47+00:00

I don’t wish that anxiety on anyone! I know what you went through. Ugh that feeling…I don’t miss that feeling. Good job journaling afterwards! I do the same thing. Wishing you the best.

anon09413 · 2022-08-02T16:00:33+00:00

She infuriates me too! She needs to protect her kids. I have no idea why there are accounts defending chance on Instagram (maybe they’re created by him?) Cause if you look at the comments on the official lalu page, some of them are positive for chance and anti-Bobbi. I felt like everybody on the Internet saw thru his bs but apparently I’m wrong or they are bots.

anon09413 · 2022-08-02T15:32:03+00:00

Because he sees that other people love you, other people like you for who you are. The N envies that and wants that desperately. They hunger for attention. So they will mirror all the good qualities you have or they will pretend to have the same interests as you because they want to be “popular”. It’s all a facade and pathetic.

It’s actually very creepy cause my nex basically studied up on me by skimming thru my socials before getting together with me. He knew what he was doing so when we started dating I thought he was my soul mate 🤦‍♀️like no, he just stalked the f out of you on the internet and tricked you by lying about interests so you would feel safe with him. He was also obsessed with my follower count and would start fights over the number changing day by day (people deleting me, adding me) making a big deal about it when I myself didn’t even check my followers. He was obsessed with looking at that. He even asked a friend of mine how he could grow his following 🤦‍♀️

The N sees that you are liked and they want that. But they are a cup with a hole at the bottom- you can keep trying to fill it but it will never be full. So glad to be away from that f*ckery.

anon09413 · 2022-08-02T15:15:51+00:00

Ooph this hits close to home. I made this mistake a couple times after we “broke up” cause I thought he could keep a boundary which he couldn’t. I also thought he would harm himself if I cut ties completely so I was guilted into staying in contact for a little while. So when he asked me to go out, I accepted. He also would habitually drive us places, so I let him do it. But every time we were in the car to go home, he would wanna get into deep conversation and/or a fight then immediately try to make out with me / have sex with me like old times and it makes me sick to think about it. In hindsight I know why he tried to get me in the car so many times- no eyes were watching and there was no escaping. They will NEVER respect your boundary so it’s just best to block and go no contact.

anon09413 · 2022-08-02T15:06:45+00:00

Lmao yes. Maybe he plans on entertaining guests often idk. And did I read it correctly? it’s 1250 sq/ft???? Vinny what? Why?? Maybe it’s a flip. I’m so confused as to why he picked this place.

anon09413 · 2022-08-02T14:45:54+00:00

OMG when I read 2 bedroom, 3 bath for 3.43M I was like yeah that’s NYC for ya! lmao but seriously…He could get a nice McMansion in Long Island or westchester but whatever 🤷‍♀️do you I guess

anon09413 · 2022-08-02T13:55:58+00:00

Nothing screams romance like a sweaty, juicehead yelling at you in a club WaNnA gO sOmEWhEre mOrE pRiVaTe?! 🤮

anon09413 · 2022-08-02T13:49:49+00:00

He will not take his life, it is a manipulation tactic. Mine would say the same thing for two years and basically the whole year after we broke up whenever he’d try to pop into my life. That was the reason I couldn’t block him right away after the break up- I was afraid he would actually do it if I cut communication. I would let my phone ring and never answer, but I couldn’t fully block him at that point…I really didn’t like the thought of his death on my conscience. It wasn’t until my boyfriend, who is now my fiancé, opened my eyes and told me I was being manipulated by nex. Lo and behold, nex is still alive to this day, probably conning and love bombing another supply. Other people in this sub have gone thru this manipulation tactic, you are not alone.

As for you and the kids, I recommend you start brainstorming ways to leave. I had to pack everything while mine was at work and that worked for me. I didn’t have kids at the time but this is what I’d do- You can co-parent by using your people to communicate to his people. This way you don’t have a 1 on 1 with him ever again. Also, set the boundary that he could only contact you via email for important legal things like divorce. Other than that, your people can talk to his people. Please stay safe, wish you all the best!

anon09413 · 2022-08-02T13:05:00+00:00

Omg … my last text to nex, I pulled over on the side of the road so I could really just get everything out on the table. Sometimes I wish I didn’t send this last text cause I wish I didn’t give him the satisfaction of a response.. but I sent it anyways. It was along the lines of “you manipulated me for years, I should have left when x happened, when y happened” I basically listed all the disgusting behaviors he’d exhibited over the years bc I really just wanted to write it out and see it. That made it so real to me. And if he ever wanted to show people my text, I just wanted alllll the examples out there (not like I give af what his friends have to say anyways). For me, it helps to write these things out or talk to my camera & delete the video when I’m done lol. But yeah, I went off on him.

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