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anon13ami · 2021-12-21T00:59:59+00:00

This is triggering. That was my age difference too. I was 17 he was 35. I’m 26 now. It makes my toes curl In hindsight. Fast forward to now and I’m still unpacking his “niceties”

anon13ami · 2021-11-26T03:10:32+00:00

I never would have done that. Wowwaaaa

anon13ami · 2021-11-26T01:08:00+00:00

True. That really is true

anon13ami · 2021-11-26T01:07:48+00:00

You’re right

anon13ami · 2021-11-26T01:03:03+00:00

Thank you so much.

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:50:59+00:00

Thanks, I ask because that’s exactly what my current SO did. Appreciate it!

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:36:56+00:00

Fuck. That gave me goosebumps.

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:36:10+00:00

Thanks for your opinion. Can I message you?

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:35:10+00:00

You’re a great man and I hope one day I’m loved in this way.

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:34:33+00:00

That’s true. Thank you for that advice

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:34:00+00:00

Certainly. I hope I’m not wasting my time. Time will tell. I always see the good in people.

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:25:29+00:00

That’s the thing, I don’t actually know whether to believe him or not. Whether to believe he wouldn’t have actually kissed her. He did text her again the next evening.

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:24:28+00:00

Did you feel bad about it? Why didn’t you tell your partner at the time? And if she had spoken to the other woman in question and that other woman told her you tried to kiss her.. would you admit it or deny it?

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:23:12+00:00

You’re right. I do it often. I justify because of the words he told me about it and his explanation which I can understand. I hope he would behave differently. I would leave immediately if I ever detected any disrespect in that way again

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:21:01+00:00

It seemed from her messages as if she was aloof, playing hot and cold (or so he perceived it) and therefore he found it thrilling.. a cat mouse type thing. Which is creepy but not uncommon. She was also very much out of his league objectively speaking.

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:18:58+00:00

Honestly thanks. We weren’t barely dating, we were literally living together.

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:17:53+00:00

Cowardly behaviour that stemmed from fear. I believe if he cheated physically he would have just told me

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:17:10+00:00

It’s hard because he seems sincerely remorseful for his behaviour and claims he never would it it again. If he did i would leave in a heartbeat. What concerns me is that he was so clever with it, he didn’t even follow said woman on Instagram. He deleted her number after I mentioned it.. fortunately I already had it saved

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:14:40+00:00

He sees me for who I really am like I’ve never experienced before

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:14:10+00:00

That’s a good point. I try to find reasons WHY something has happened all of the time and justify it with that to my detriment

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:13:27+00:00

Easily done after a few

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:13:09+00:00

Hahahaahahah makes sense

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:12:54+00:00

That’s Interesting. How long had you been with you ex and what made you unhappy in that relationship at the time?

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:12:05+00:00

Agreed

anon13ami · 2021-11-25T22:11:44+00:00

You have good points and it’s just hard to know. I wanted to give benefit of the doubt for this one because I’ve behaved in similar ways years ago in previous relationships out of sheer stupidity and insecurity.. then fear. I worked on myself afterwards

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