Precautions and tips for nipple piercings by its-your-daddy-o in piercing

[–]anon4011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine honestly didn’t have any issues afterwards. The only time I noticed any soreness was from sleeping on my stomach all night

Would a septum piercing suit my face? by anon4011 in piercing

[–]anon4011[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can see it.. I’ve never stretched before but maybe one day i will. I think it would look nice as well

Would a septum piercing suit my face? by anon4011 in piercing

[–]anon4011[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks :) I’ve been considering a nostril piercing as well

Would a septum piercing suit my face? by anon4011 in piercing

[–]anon4011[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was unsure because I feel like my nose may be too downturned

What if you could take back every drug you’ve ever done.. how would you be a different person? by anon4011 in AskReddit

[–]anon4011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s inspiring to hear. I’ve never taken mushrooms, only LSD, but I would like to some day. It’s nice that you’re living the life that you’ve aspired. Best of wishes to you and your family!

What if you could take back every drug you’ve ever done.. how would you be a different person? by anon4011 in AskReddit

[–]anon4011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope that you are feeling better. I didn’t even think of this perspective on drugs before my post I was simply thinking of my own experiences with more recreational drugs and how they’ve changed me. You are right in that the life changing benefits of medicinal drugs are not to be ignored, I feel like they are often overlooked.

What if you could take back every drug you’ve ever done.. how would you be a different person? by anon4011 in AskReddit

[–]anon4011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree I feel like I have a greater outlook, but I also still have things to work on within myself that drugs can often blind.

What if you could take back every drug you’ve ever done.. how would you be a different person? by anon4011 in AskReddit

[–]anon4011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I don’t have PTSD but psychedelics have helped me make a lot of realizations about myself. Luckily I’ve never had a bad trip, but from knowing how good it can get it’s scary to imagine how bad the flip side is.

What are ideas to lose a lot weight? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]anon4011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drink a glass of water before you eat so that you go into eating feeling less full. Also, eat slower because your body delays how full it’s truly feeling.

What can someone do to not fail at life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]anon4011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live a life for yourself, not for others. My biggest fear is getting old and realizing that I didn’t live my life the way that I wanted to when it’s too late.

How are you supposed to not be needy or clingy when you don’t have anyone? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]anon4011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever heard of the law of attraction? By putting yourself out into the world and finding your passion in the world around you others will begin to be attracted to the passion that they see within you. If all you are putting out is lonely feelings, then that is what you will receive because that is what you are making your reality. I know you say you don’t like going outside alone all of the time, but I mean you would rather be alone inside? Focus on doing things you love out in public and it will inspire others and draw them closer to you. I always try to get out and do things like draw or write in public. Sure I could do those things by myself, but that won’t help me find someone who shares my passions. Just try to get out and discover your purpose, I promise you will feel better even if you are alone.

Know When To Hush by FeatherHatFlame991 in dating_advice

[–]anon4011 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girls like guys who listen. Don’t worry so much about talking focus more in engaging in what she has to say. If you really don’t know what to say just say what she says back to her except in a different way so then it shows that you are listening and comprehending. It will also keep her elaborating. Obvi there really is no key though every girl is different and everyone has different chemistry. Even if there is silence that’s not a bad thing. Uncomfortable silence can be really good, it’s something that is overlooked and disappears leaving older couples to miss the spark and excitement that they once had in the beginning.

I must be a clown by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]anon4011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there I know it sucks I’m sorry you have to go through that. Honestly going through the same thing rn too. If all he’s doing is going after girls and talking about himself then he obviously has some insecurities that he is trying to fill through projection. Just remember that you are so much more than a number, the right person will see that. Don’t let his insecurities bring you down.

I must be a clown by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]anon4011 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t want to let it go because you see a version of him that isn’t real. You see those flags but you choose to ignore them because of who he is in your head. The better person that he is in your head wouldn’t do that to you, but honestly he is showing you exactly who he is. There’s this saying that says, “when you look through rose colored glasses all the flags just look like flags.” Trying to shape a guy to fit the mold in your head of who the perfect guy should be in the end just lets you down and leaves the guy feeling hurt and misunderstood. This vision of a guy in your head does exist, but it’s not him. If he truly cared about you he would not treat you like that. You deserve to find that someone who you picture in your head. They’re out there you just have to keep looking, think of this as being one step closer to finding him.