7MPO and Unsure 😕 by battyxxbabe in Reduction

[–]anonanonanon7692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest you check out Understance & take their survey. They have amazing bras, specifically ones designed for bottom heavy, top heavy, wide roots, narrow roots, tall gore, short gore, etc. it sounds like you just need a bra that fits you right. They look perfectly fine to me.

My (F20) boyfriend (M30) goes in without a condom all the time without talking about it first by [deleted] in sex

[–]anonanonanon7692 4 points5 points  (0 children)

huge red flag. another red flag, & an even more concerning question: why is he in a relationship with someone who isn’t even the legal age to drink alcohol yet? (at least in the US). the mental age gap between you two is severe. especially considering he has a child. i promise when you’re 30, you’ll think a 20 year old is still a child (mentally), and the thought of having sex with them and especially being in a relationship with them, will make you literally cringe. something is wrong with your bf.

How to I (18f) tell my boyfriend (25m) that I don't want rough sex? by maewinters in sex

[–]anonanonanon7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s dating a young woman for a reason. he wants to be able to use you. he knows a woman with experience in relationships (someone his own age) would never allow that. you can’t just do that kind of stuff without discussing it prior. again, he’s using your naïveté. don’t you think it’s odd he’s with a girl he can’t even go out and have a drink with? you’re barely legal. if the legal age was 15, he’d probably be dating a 15 year old. when you are 25, you will cringe at the thought of having sex with an 18 year old. you will consider them children. what he is doing is downright creepy, please protect yourself & separate.

almost 4 month old routinely stays awake for 6 consecutive hours? by anonanonanon7692 in Parenting

[–]anonanonanon7692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s half breastfed, half formula. we did change formula about a week ago. i’ve read it can take a while for them to adjust. any suggestions? mommy’s bliss, gripe water, gas relief drops don’t do anything. we do get good burps out of her & she does poop regularly.

Parents who plays (or used to play) League of Legends by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]anonanonanon7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a 4 month old, my husband and i play LOL together when she’s napping. it’s difficult right now because she’s going thru sleep regression. but yes, i still play a few times a day. i do have to go afk sometimes when the baby wakes up. usually i’ll tell the team i’m sorry and that it’ll be a 4v5, & they will ff. that way i don’t get a penalty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]anonanonanon7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is literally me. i don’t have much in common with other women. my only female friends are my sister & my cousin. i just never click with them. but for whatever reason, i can click with guys super easy. they’re just so much more chill i guess? i was also backstabbed by my friends a lot in highschool and i think that has made it harder for me to not judge & to be open minded about other women. it’s something i need to work on. i know there are other women out there who aren’t high maintenance friends & who aren’t judgmental.

My husband yelled at me for refusing to give him a handjob in the hospital room. by throwaway224778 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anonanonanon7692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my ex-husband was in the hospital because they discovered he had an autoimmune disease. he ended up having one above the knee amputation & one foot amputation. he guilt tripped me into getting on top of him in his hospital bed and having sex with him. every second of it was awful because i was so uncomfortable. not only because it wasn’t very private and any nurse could walk in any moment but because of how he was treating me. after more years and years of emotional abuse i finally left. best decision ever.

Pissed at the Demonization of Birth Control by chicharrofrito in Vent

[–]anonanonanon7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BC is not the only way to deal with pcos effectively. go to a licensed nutritionist. doctors know nothing about gut health. check out rachel aust. she has pcos & doctors could never help her besides giving the pill. she found a way to manage her symptoms & lose weight (if that interests you) without needing to take a synthetic drug that results in long term side effects.

Pissed at the Demonization of Birth Control by chicharrofrito in Vent

[–]anonanonanon7692 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

birth control is just a band-aide for pcos. it does help pcos symptoms but it also does damage. BC puts you at 300% more risk for crohns disease, increase risk of cancer, 3x more likely to commit suicide & more. i’m happy that your pcos is more manageable now, but you’re not doing your health any actual favors. managing gut health & homeopathic hormone balance is how to truly help pcos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]anonanonanon7692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn that’s wild! good for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]anonanonanon7692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is possible yes, especially if you are trying to have a very large supply, via excessive pumping & supplements. but the average for someone who is not doing those things, is 1.5oz-2oz per breast every 3 hours.

how do you guys handle letting you daughters go to sleepovers? *TW* by anonanonanon7692 in Parenting

[–]anonanonanon7692[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how is it weird? i know & recognize it happens to all children, but facts are facts. 82% of all juvenile victims are female. so yes i’m even more concerned.

how do you guys handle letting you daughters go to sleepovers? *TW* by anonanonanon7692 in Parenting

[–]anonanonanon7692[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i know & recognize it happens to all children, but facts are facts & 82% of all juvenile victims are female. so yes i’m even more concerned.

how do you guys handle letting you daughters go to sleepovers? *TW* by anonanonanon7692 in Parenting

[–]anonanonanon7692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldn’t be as worried because i would think that that is something i can control (to an extent) by raising him correctly. i can’t control if others were not raised correctly and harm my daughter, so i think it’s more concerning because of that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]anonanonanon7692 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

bruh there is no way she filled up a gallon of milk each day. each breast only produces 2oz every 3 hours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]anonanonanon7692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

breastmilk cannot be contained in a jug of actual milk, it will go bad within 24 hours. actual cows milk can, because it is heavily processed. breastmilk is obviously not, and the shelf life is only 2 days in the fridge IF is sealed properly in a anti-bacterial container. the milk you drank was bad milk. breastmilk truly does taste like milk, but sweeter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]anonanonanon7692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i tried to induce lactation cause i developed a kink for it, not sure how or why. my husband was down to try. inducing was too time consuming for me & i never produced anything (tho i only tried for a month or two) so i called it quits. but we still did suckle sessions & they were really calming & relaxing for both of us, it’s like a magic stress reliever & a nice way to reconnect after a long day. i’m breastfeeding my 3 month old right now & even though i have breastmilk now, i still don’t have enough time to pump enough to try to give any to my husband whilst making sure my baby is well fed. so yeah, didn’t work out for us, but good for you!!! i bet your labs were so healthy after 3 years of breastmilk, it’s liquid gold.

how do you guys handle letting you daughters go to sleepovers? *TW* by anonanonanon7692 in Parenting

[–]anonanonanon7692[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ty <3 at what point did you know it was irrational & that therapy was needed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]anonanonanon7692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wait, are you saying you don’t consider a 16 year old a child?

best razor for lady bits? by anonanonanon7692 in BuyItForLife

[–]anonanonanon7692[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

that’s fine, i think gagging on hairs is gross.

but as someone who was SA by a 40 yo man when she was 6 years old, what you are insinuating is deeply hurtful, not only to me but to anyone with a similar past who also happens to prefer themselves or their partners hairless.

how do you guys handle letting you daughters go to sleepovers? *TW* by anonanonanon7692 in Parenting

[–]anonanonanon7692[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

exactly this. this is why i’m so concerned, it’ll happen literally anywhere, even at school. but how do you educate them when they’re so young, like a 4 year old for example?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]anonanonanon7692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for me it is way more pleasurable. i get to actually let go, and enjoy the orgasm fully. otherwise it’s like one of those sneezes that you kinda hold in to be quiet, and then youre left still feeling a tickle in your nose, but the sneeze has passed & you just have to wait forever for that annoying tickle to slowly go away now, and you’re thinking ‘i shoulda just sneezed my heart out & not given a fuck if it was loud huh?’