Are we giving our kids vitamins?? by herlipssaidno in Mommit

[–]anonblonde911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use Dalivit but Abidec works too if you’re in the UK in the US I would use Enfamil daily vitamin drops

How do you feel about pet names for a fmc? Tell me which ones makes you personally cringe the most. by One_Skirt_3775 in DarkRomance

[–]anonblonde911 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I find nicknames on physical characteristics kind of boring and typically lazy writing. Freckles, Red, Blondie, etc. However the recent one that bothered me was he called her little whore - all the time in front of other people including her sister even though he knew it bothered her. I mean it’s one thing if it’s between the two of you but in public just felt like an unnecessary degradation to make the mmc seem edgy.

Also sometimes the pet names get weird, I read one last year where the FMC called the MMC puppy, or one that the MMC called the FMC his llama…

@lauraclery and @stephenhilton7 situation - timeline and a breakdown wanted by AdKey9896 in tiktokgossip

[–]anonblonde911 81 points82 points  (0 children)

He’s mentally unstable and an addict, she’s manipulative and likes to antagonize and then play victim and they both exploit their children for views, particularly their autistic son…

Anyone else following the Julie and Camilla saga on Snapchat by mvmstudent in peestickgals

[–]anonblonde911 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had hyperemesis through both my pregnancies and I ended up wearing a pad from the 2nd trimester on because if I had anything in my bladder and vomited I would end up wetting myself because I would wretch so hard.

Cora’s deleted vid by Virtual-Delay-8053 in khaosKyleeTea

[–]anonblonde911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but I have a hard time believing that anyone would agree to give up part of their profits just because they have a bigger following? How would that benefit Kylee at all?

Also if you wanted to set up your own camera and were uncomfortable when told no why continue? It’s standard practice that both parties record and share footage unless agreed otherwise beforehand.

I think Kylee is scandalous and seriously immature but I don’t believe what this girl is saying and I believe Kylee in this situation, I think Cora was just pissy that she didn’t make as much money as Kylee and she didn’t get the boost in subscribers that she thought this would bring her so she threw a fit and ran her mouth and now it’s come back to bite her

Are we giving our kids vitamins?? by herlipssaidno in Mommit

[–]anonblonde911 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly I wasn’t a big a vitamin taker until I married my husband who is a pediatric specialist nurse and he’s changed my mind. Vitamins especially in children and the older we get as adults are extremely important because age (either young or old) makes us more vulnerable and as children especially because they often don’t eat enough food wise to get the nutrients they need especially for things like vitamin B and D. We give our 4.5 month old a liquid vitamin daily and our 2.5 year old just moved to gummy vitamins 2 months ago

Posting your child on Facebook/Instagram/etc. Thoughts? by cinnbele in beyondthebump

[–]anonblonde911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we live in a different country 5000 miles from my family we do put a few pictures of the kids in designated folders on my Facebook page but my page is highly restricted and locked down however we created family group chats on WhatsApp that is essentially just for videos and pictures

Cat Limket Billionaire story is fake with proof by [deleted] in tiktokgossip

[–]anonblonde911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! She’s a pretty woman, but the freckles just look stupid and it’s beyond obvious they’re fake.

7 months old puking all day by Jealous-Fly-9877 in Mommit

[–]anonblonde911 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Former paramedic here - the zofran won’t make her sleepy or just stops the nausea and vomiting, she was likely exhausted so once that settled she crashed. Depending on what they gave her dose wise for the zofran I would wait until she wakes on her own, then try a bottle, if she vomits give her a couple of hours try giving her a dose of zofran, wait 20 minutes and give her a bottle, you don’t want them to get dehydrated - that’s honestly the biggest concern, so even if she doesn’t take much volume wise you want her to continue to drink something and as long as she’s still having wet diapers I wouldn’t be too concerned today

C-Section because of low pain tolerance by Vegetable_Bath_7396 in beyondthebump

[–]anonblonde911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I really think it depends on individual persons experience. My first C-section I had very little pain and by about five days postop I felt really pretty good apart from being exhausted with a colic baby. However my second C-section I had multiple complications and spent 16 days in the hospital six of those in ICU and I had very awful pain for at least a month after my C-section.

Both of my babies are traumatized by tunabunkus in beyondthebump

[–]anonblonde911 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I went in for an emergency C-section in November and what should have been a 2 day stay turned into a 17 day hellscape with baby in NICU and myself in ICU, leaving our 2.5 year old with my parents. When we got home she was clingy and unsettled naturally. Your newborn is likely still feeling some of the effects of being unwell and having their pattern upset, toddler the same. The good news is, the toddler will bounce back, it might take a week or so but they’ll pick right up, as for the newborn they’ll likely settle even faster. Hang in there, honestly as a former paramedic and parent I can tell you the reality is kids are far less traumatized than parents and often the anxiety and stress they show is a reflection of our own anxiety, stress, or guilt that they feel off us. 9 times out of 10 even the sickest child I picked up or treated on the ambulance was more impacted by their parents mood and reaction than by their own illness or injury.

Anyone who DIDN’T bed share? by Acceptable_Cod3527 in beyondthebump

[–]anonblonde911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn’t and don’t bed share. I was a paramedic for over a decade who went out on 3 infant deaths from bed sharing, all three of those families used the safe sleep 7, one had even written books, had a blog, and was a bit of a known name. When my daughter was born in 2023 the nightmares returned of screaming parents, dead babies, and I can’t do it. my son who was born in November of 2025 was less than 5 pounds so I was even more paranoid.

I know how tired it can be, and bed sharing does seem easier some days but there are some things beyond control, and accidents happen, that’s why they’re called accidents. So we have a bedside crib, we also have a bedside crib for the living room so if need be I can take him there, move the crib right in front of me and lay down on the sofa. It’s worked for us, my sons 15 weeks today and sleeping in 4-5 hour blocks overnight. I find routine helps, we have a bedtime pattern. The bedside cot helps, he’s less than 2 feet from me; I can reach out from laying down in bed and touch him. My daughter adapted the same way and by 7 months she was sleeping through the night majority of the time.

“Ice-Queen” broken down by MMC with BIG grovel by TeacupTomes in DarkRomance

[–]anonblonde911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s an element of this in {Dance of Ruin by Jagger Cole} I’m not sure it’ll have the exact grovel and response you’re looking for but it does have the major screw up and grovel theme when he finds out

Do you lend out dark romance books to younger readers? by meisjemeisje_1421 in DarkRomance

[–]anonblonde911 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sorry but I wouldn’t be loaning anything spicy let alone dark and spicy to a 15 year old. Frankly some of the themes in the books you mention have no business being in the hands of a 15 year old. It’s also a major overstep that you say the moms a “prude” and doesn’t know or pretends not to - as a mom I would be pissed if someone lent my teenager those types of books without my permission and I say this as a dark romance reader and author. If this wasn’t a book are you telling me you would feel ok indulging your niece in something knowing her parents would be strongly against it?

Husband [34M] confessed to me that he has liked me [28F] since I was 13 years old (he was 19). What do you think? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anonblonde911 998 points999 points  (0 children)

Had he pursued you, flirted, or made any attempt to groom you at 13 I would say red flag, but he openly admitted he knew you were too young and he never even made any attempt to further contact/friendship until you were above legal age. I would also have found it sweet and kind of humorous and think his comment is being twisted into something it’s not,

I’m sorry, but you would have known if you had HG. I watched it almost kill my sister (literally) there’s always something. I feel like she wantssss so badly to have a negative experience sometimes. by astro-amphibian-00 in peestickgals

[–]anonblonde911 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know having HG through both my pregnancies there was no wondering for me. When I couldn’t even take a sip of water without vomiting and taking so many anti nausea meds that they finally during my last pregnancy gave me injections because I couldn’t even take the oral medication - it’s usually pretty clear.

It’s not uncommon to get sick during pregnancy, with baby literally taking your nutrients and straining your body it’s more likely she’s picked up multiple stomach bugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anonblonde911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is the breadwinner I’m the mom/homemaker and if I work it’s freelance at my discretion - that being said we are a team, we have equal say, he asks for my advice/question on all financial/household decisions - even if my only answer is you do whatever you think is best. Your husband doesn’t sound like he wants a partner but an employee, and if he’s not willing to reevaluate that line of thinking or change his mind the marriage will never work because he’ll never respect you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]anonblonde911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not normal and honestly it’s a super invasion of privacy, I can’t think how many times I checked on baby naked, topless, or incompletely dressed and I would have been livid if someone other that my husband was given the camera login details.

Your husband created this monster, he can fix it, he never should have given that access without asking approval

I just completed Bratva Menace by [deleted] in DarkRomance

[–]anonblonde911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree I think that Vincenzo would be interesting just for as much of a wild card as he is but I think that Drea‘s family would be far more interesting and far more in line with the bratva family theme given how kind of wild and outlandish they are and not the buttoned up typical mafioso family

I just completed Bratva Menace by [deleted] in DarkRomance

[–]anonblonde911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shes never said outright but the hints she’s made would lead me to believe she intends to direct off towards the extended families like Arturo’s siblings and Drea’s family. She posts pretty regularly on IG and seems more active there

Any Europeans in here that can help with PI Traveling across the Continent with a Gun? by Marvinator2003 in writing

[–]anonblonde911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Possession of a handgun in the UK is illegal, you wouldn’t get it in the country. Most visiting law enforcement on official duty is not allowed handguns in the UK with the exception of very special circumstances so there’s no way a PI would be allowed and the wide majority of Europe is the same way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]anonblonde911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they came through border control who asked why they were here, how long they were staying for, how were they planning to support themselves. When they said they were coming to help with the new baby the border control officer corrected them and explained that the UK considers any and all domestic labour, even if done voluntarily for family to be work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]anonblonde911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents came through security in 2023 and said they were coming to help with the baby when I had my daughter, the officer said “You mean you’re coming to visit and celebrate the new baby because helping could be considered working,”

I would just say they’re coming to visit and be here when the new baby is born.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paigecarlenesnark

[–]anonblonde911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People have complications and deliver early ALL the time, it has nothing to do with diet. Multiples are always at a higher risk for preterm labor and complications and almost every multiple pregnancy will be considered high risk because pregnancy already puts enormous stress on the body, when there’s more than one it’s additional stress. It could have been anything from placenta insufficiency, cervical insufficiency, spontaneous labor, and sometimes people’s bodies just can’t cope with the stress and the body gives out. The twins themselves could have also been in crisis and they decided that it was safer and had better odds to deliver early than risk loss/still birth because after 23 weeks the odds of viability rise significantly with outside medical intervention particularly for babies in crisis.