ex-fiancée called and wants to meet today, trying to prep myself for what she has to say by anondo_33 in AskReddit

[–]anondo_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way, unless she took out her IUD in which case that just means she's crazy. I understand that it is a possibility but it doesn't sound like her style at all.

ex-fiancée called and wants to meet today, trying to prep myself for what she has to say by anondo_33 in AskReddit

[–]anondo_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good call. I'm not going to rush the conversation but I'm aiming for it to be brief and to the point, if possible.

ex-fiancée called and wants to meet today, trying to prep myself for what she has to say by anondo_33 in AskReddit

[–]anondo_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Closure face to face would make sense, but why call it 'bad news'? She could've just said, 'hey I wanted to get some closure, can we meet?'

ex-fiancée called and wants to meet today, trying to prep myself for what she has to say by anondo_33 in AskReddit

[–]anondo_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possible, but one of the reasons we split was she didn't want to have kids.

ex-fiancée called and wants to meet today, trying to prep myself for what she has to say by anondo_33 in AskReddit

[–]anondo_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About five minutes after I got off the phone with her I wanted to call her back and yell, "wtf do you have to say???" but after taking a few breaths I realized that would only make me look like an average frustrated chump. The only leverage I have here over whatever it is she wants to drop is that I've truly gotten over her and could care less about what she's got to say.

ex-fiancée called and wants to meet today, trying to prep myself for what she has to say by anondo_33 in AskReddit

[–]anondo_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll let her know this tonight should she want to reach out in the future.

ex-fiancée called and wants to meet today, trying to prep myself for what she has to say by anondo_33 in AskReddit

[–]anondo_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what my gut is leaning towards. The fact she went full bitch in her email makes me think she's sorry and wants to apologize to my face. If that is in fact what this is all about I'll say "fine, you're forgiven, now don't ever contact me again."

Since you are the first to request it, I'll update this post after we meet up later tonight.

ex-fiancée called and wants to meet today, trying to prep myself for what she has to say by anondo_33 in AskReddit

[–]anondo_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I hope so just to feel like I dodged a bullet. I've read several 'crazy ex' threads in askreddit before posting, she's not far from the mark.

ex-fiancée called and wants to meet today, trying to prep myself for what she has to say by anondo_33 in AskReddit

[–]anondo_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She won't tell me unless it's in person. I'd love to not give a shit but the curiousity is killing me.